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PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 10:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Eve wrote:


All things come to she who waits! Beaten


What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 10:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Wynter wrote:
What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?

I'm on year seven. Sweat
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 10:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Wynter wrote:


What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?


Move to California Beaten Canadian guys are obviously too busy with the moose. Doh!
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 10:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Wynter wrote:


What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?


Does this pertain relationships, sex, or what?
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 10:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Wynter wrote:


What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?


I'll have to sleep on that and get back to you tomorrow. Beaten
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 1:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

bmwracer wrote:

I'm on year seven. Sweat


year four for me. Nut
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 9:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

sadacori wrote:


Does this pertain relationships, sex, or what?


Good point.

More clarity is needed.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

ahochaude wrote:

Yo qilver!
Nothing much.
I'm going to get the big 'D' though.
I can't stand her (wife).
She came in April and stayed for 2 1/2 wks and I was like, wtf, it ain't gonna work no more.
So it's pretty much 'Ghandis' (gone- dees) - just in case, 'cause it's an Island slang.
wow, it seems as if you just got married not too long ago. hope it works out with the lawyers and not dragged out too long.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

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Hopefully we all can get lucky too. Mr Green
some might just prefer to get lucky on a nightly basis. Naughty
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

niko2x wrote:
hope it works out with the lawyers and not dragged out too long.

You said it. Fingers crossed Sweat
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

bmwracer wrote:

You said it. Fingers crossed Sweat
i hope you said that not from a personal experience. Shake Head
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

niko2x wrote:
i hope you said that not from a personal experience. Shake Head

Sort of.

Mine was pretty amicable, but a coworker's was ugly-messy: it must've cost him around $30K+ in lawyer's fees, thanks to his wife... Sweat
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 4:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Aya_Man_1988 wrote:
Hello everyone,

This is an interesting topic. If my mind is correct, I haven't posted on this topic here before, so let me introducte myself to all of you. My name is Remy. I am currently 20 years of age and live in the Netherlands. I'm a guy, by the way.

Now, I respect the choices of every woman on the planet, and will never stop doing so, but I have not yet had the pleasure of a girlfriend to go out with, give gifts to and to be there for her when she's feeling down, or is in pain. Why is that, I wonder?

I do have to say that, because of my appearance, I'm a shy around the females. In the eyes of them, I am an ugly person and they do not wish to date me, or spend time with me at all. Of course, there are also other types of girls around. The kind that is nice to me. I've met a few, but none of them is interested in me in the same way. Friends, is what we are.
HI Aya man,

If i'm piling on I have to appologize. I would have to agree with most of the comments directed towards you when it comes to not just Jpn women, but women in general. They like, no LOVE confident individuals who are proud to be themselves. (how do you explain Camel-Joe-looking Jay-Z getting someone like Beyonce?)

Point is that you prolly have to feel better about yourself and like yourself before some honey notice & like you. I'm not talking about OVER-confidence either, because that is kinda lame. Don't get me wrong, a little humble-ness & self-defication (couldn't resist rofl ) can carry you but so far. Just get a little alpha-male in ya and see where that goes. I've see your photos, you don't look so bad.

Aya_Man_1988 wrote:
As some of the people close to me know, and some of you here may have already guessed, I have a weakness for Japanese women. In my opinion, they are the most beautiful women on the entire planet.
My wife can agree with you in this statement (like Aya, she is from okinawa as well), but there are great looking women anywhere! Don't discriminate, as long as she is cool with you that's all that matters, whether she's Dutch or otherwise. Victory! Peace!
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

niko2x wrote:
some might just prefer to get lucky on a nightly basis. Naughty


I dont think that will take 7 years.... hehe

bmwracer wrote:

Sort of.

Mine was pretty amicable, but a coworker's was ugly-messy: it must've cost him around $30K+ in lawyer's fees, thanks to his wife... Sweat


My ex cost me 3X that much and two years in court. I'll never be able to pay back my mother. Sweat
And I'll never speak a word to him again... Angry
After 4 years he is still emailing, texting and calling. What a squid. Shake Head
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 5:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

niko2x wrote:
My wife can agree with you in this statement (like Aya, she is from okinawa as well), but there are great looking women anywhere! Don't discriminate, as long as she is cool with you that's all that matters, whether she's Dutch or otherwise. Victory! Peace!


LOL! My wife would agree with you (She's Dutch) and so would I: there are a LOT of very good-looking Dutch women around too.. Applaud

Evie wrote:

My ex cost me 3X that much and two years in court. I'll never be able to pay back my mother. Sweat
And I'll never speak a word to him again... Angry
After 4 years he is still emailing, texting and calling. What a squid. Shake Head


Ouch! Shocked
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 6:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Anime Dad wrote:
LOL! My wife would agree with you (She's Dutch) and so would I: there are a LOT of very good-looking Dutch women around too.. Applaud
awesome. see, aya_man, we shouldn't be picky. serious HAWT-ness worldwide. Victory! Peace!
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 6:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

niko2x wrote:
awesome. see, aya_man, we shouldn't be picky. serious HAWT-ness worldwide. Victory! Peace!


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That's not to say I wouldn't have dated a Japanese girl when I was younger: There were just NO Asians in the area I grew up in back then Sad
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

I think we're starting to scare all the kids single. rofl
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Eve wrote:
My ex cost me 3X that much and two years in court. I'll never be able to pay back my mother. Sweat
And I'll never speak a word to him again... Angry
After 4 years he is still emailing, texting and calling. What a squid. Shake Head

Yeech.

Yeah, my coworker also has a teen daughter and college-age son that are also in the mix: custody, college funds, insurance, yada yada yada... Sweat

I'm really really impressed that he can smile and deal with it so calmly. Applaud
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Kijinnmaru wrote:
I think we're starting to scare all the kids single. rofl
I think that's what happened to me. My best friend got married when he was 20, I was still in the Navy at the time. Then I came home on leave a couple months before I got out. By then he'd been married a couple years, had 1 kid, house payment, etc. etc.

I took one look at that and said, "You've got to be nuts!!" Nut

But it worked for him. All these years (and 3 kids) later they're still married and loving it. Applaud
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