barooboodoo wrote:

whoa loveless i think maybe you're confusing love with lust? ?

i didn't mean sex dude!.....

IMO ::love isn't real its just an illusion a weakness in the glands::

lovelessemotion wrote:

woooah what's with u ppl? ....anyway if u dun like some 1 ..just give them the old ..lets just be friend speech...and go fo the one u like... ppl think of 'love' as an emotion like hate anf fear...when infact u should think of ir as an urge... like hunger or thirst...ur hungry, go get some food... ur sleepy, get some sleep.... u feel the need for love , go get some... cuz then it goes away...that's the way i look at it...

well if luv is a hunger... then you're bf/gf wife/hubby is the chef.
So if you're hungry and go out and eat someone else's cooking then you're asking for trouble.

eat someone else's cooking then you're asking for trouble


hahahaha that's very clever hakurey... well said..funny

what's worse is if ur having mixxed meals at the same time..one after another..like say ur having chinese 'food' and then mexican food and the japanese and then russian cussine...then ur screwed...

Don't be with a guy that you don't love at all ..just like Aho-san said, go with the 2nd guy. It's not worth it to be with someone that you don't love and such a waste of your time to do that. Don't be with someone just because everyone has b/f or it's because it's the nick of time to have one.

Breaking up with your long term b/f will be very hard for you, especially for him. But If I were you, I'd dumped the old one and go with the new guy. I was in this kind of situation before. I thought I was in love with my then boyfriend until another guy came into my life. Without further consulting to anybody, I just followed my heart and went for the second one. I was glad I did the right thing. Well, in the world of courting, love etc...this thing is a bit selfish but hey..at least you reach your own happiness and that's the most important thing. Just like in war, love also has casualties..and at this moment you won't be the one.

[quote="MixxDreamer"]i think do some soul searching first, cuz you obviously dont wanna let go this longterm bf.. but its kinda easy cuz your heart says it all right? like everyone says dont mislead the other guy if you dont intend to be with him anymore, i mean my gosh 3 years?! thats a very long time already, the longer you wait the longer its gonna hurt him if he finds out, do you enjoy hurting people like that?? cuz thats what uve been doing already.

I agree completly with MixxDreamer I would really encourage you to think things over. If you need to take a short trip by yourself and think things over. Your decision will affect the lives of three people. Do you have a crush on guy #2 or is it more. Are you upset with lack of progress with guy #1. Maybe you had hoped things would progress farther and faster and have not? Who can you picture yourself with in 10 years from now? I hope things work out for you.

I need's a girl opinion..someone told me. She would have no interest to me because of the age maturity difference. Would a woman have interest in a 17yr old boy when she is 27. Is there anything I can do to make her feel how I what i m going through or make her love me?

ONLY six months, time is running out. Time is passing me by so painfully.
Painfully & terriblely..All i can do is see the sadness in my eyes.

what 'talent' is that? bouncing boobs?

i wouldnt know how to make a girl love u, like we said in the first place.. u gotta take things slow.. we dont even know her whole side yet.. geez what is it with guys who doesnt wanna start everything from being friends??? u act like tomorrow is the end of the world....hope u know in order to have a relationship smooth is to start from friends and get to know each other... first off, u gotta start of how to approach her than just mumblin by urself on what to do.. have some confidence and just be yourself...
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a 10 year age difference is a lot but from my naive point of view age aint nothin but a number eh? (i've been saying that way too much recently...)

Fans91 wrote:

I need's a girl opinion..someone told me. She would have no interest to me because of the age maturity difference. Would a woman have interest in a 17yr old boy when she is 27. Is there anything I can do to make her feel how I what i m going through or make her love me? ONLY six months, time is running out. Time is passing me by so painfully. Painfully & terriblely..All i can do is see the sadness in my eyes.

I don't know if she would mind the 10 year age gap, but I do know that nobody would feel secure with someone who keeps doubting himself. Pull yourself together, Fans91. Like MixxDreamer said, you got to give yourself some confidence. The real problem here isn't how old you are, but how old you ACT. If you really do like her so much, then straighten up and make some decisions like a man.

Fans91 wrote:

I need's a girl opinion..someone told me. She would have no interest to me because of the age maturity difference. Would a woman have interest in a 17yr old boy when she is 27. Is there anything I can do to make her feel how I what i m going through or make her love me? ONLY six months, time is running out. Time is passing me by so painfully. Painfully & terriblely..All i can do is see the sadness in my eyes.

A woman who reaches that age usually seek security, stability and maturity in her man. In general they want a steady boyfriend with possibility of marriage. But there's no harm of getting to know her and be her friend. You'll get the idea of her about dating a younger man once you know her more. What's wrong of being hurt anyway? Or would you rather be a coward? Like I said before it takes courage to love somebody.

What's wrong with BOYS anyway... letting out your feeling or giving attention to someone you like will not hurt you at all..being rejected will hurt but it's not like the END of THE WORLD!!

What girl *If she's 27* attracted to a boy *17*? Rich Pretty face Six pack cool Boy

Well some ppl these days they better lie to themselves rather than being alone...PPl should have partner but da partner dat they really love ne

In love with 2 people.....

.....not a good idea...

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Bsalez wrote:

What girl *If she's 27* attracted to a boy *17*? Rich Pretty face Six pack cool Boy

And you would be the one to know this........


Speak for yourself.

Fans91 wrote:

Would a woman have interest in a 17yr old boy when she is 27.

No.

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Is there anything I can do to make her feel how I what i m going through or make her love me?

No.

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ONLY six months, time is running out. Time is passing me by so painfully. Painfully & terriblely..All i can do is see the sadness in my eyes.

Why not channel that wasted energy into something useful? For instance, finding a girl your own age, learning magic tricks, or becoming a bank robber. Bank robbery is a very lucrative profession and, from what I've seen in the movies, it's not that hard.

Ahh~ dun be so hard on him. He's already wallowing enough as it is.

shotgun_divorce wrote:

Bank robbery is a very lucrative profession and, from what I've seen in the movies, it's not that hard.

Actually, it's not hard at all. Working in the financial industry, I've seen a lot of it indirectly. There is no resistance whatsoever. Bank tellers are told to give it up without question to get the robber out as soon as possible.

The trick is to make sure you don't get caught afterwards.

So if it's "excitement" you're looking for, maybe that's the way to go.

nagaioyasumi wrote:

Ahh~ dun be so hard on him. He's already wallowing enough as it is.

actually, i think aho is doing him a favor by being direct.
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really what do you expect to happen? this scenario really reminds me of the movie, RUSHMORE. one of my all time favorite movies.

you have 2 options

1. tell her the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. BUT, be ready for the consquences. Whether this is positive or negative, you have to accept them and act in a non-childish manner.

2. forever hold the truth and never know (positive or negative) how it would of worked out.

dont want to be a "bubble burster" but i think that you shouldn't stress so much about this "woman" you're still young and thats what she'll most likely think of you no matter how mature you are.

in my opinion i dont believe in a "soul mate." i believe that you can fall in love and live a happy life with more than one person (not meaning simultaneously) and it's just a matter of who you meet first or the way things fall in place. so dont stress, theres probably someone you'll find that'll make this tutor a laugh. theres like 6 billion people in the world(130 million of which are japanese)...she cant be the only one you want to get with eh?