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shotgun_divorce



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 11:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

pangit wrote:
so dont stress, theres probably someone you'll find that'll make this tutor a laugh. theres like 6 billion people in the world(130 million of which are japanese)...she cant be the only one you want to get with eh?

Exactly. Save yourself for Ryoko Hirosue. I'm sure she has a shotgun divorce forthcoming so she'll be back on the market in no time.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 11:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

only six months....time running fast man...
hey...Fans91...u r a man right..then act like one..
keep move slowly...finding what she's interested in...her fav food and something like that...maybe it's simple but this means alot if could bring her to the subject that she's interested too...and then she will notice u more...
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 11:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

i think we should think about the tutors feelings. i mean sure it would be a dream for you to get with this hot older woman but do you think she would be interested in a student 10 years younger than her? i assume that she isnt GTO like...right?

*not trying to sound mean*
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 12:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

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Would a woman have interest in a 17yr old boy when she is 27.

No.

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Is there anything I can do to make her feel how I what i m going through or make her love me?

No.



I agree with the above. I was too polite in giving my opinion since I don't have the hard to see a 17 yrs old boy cry like a puppy by discouraging him to stop chasing his teacher. OK....since I've had enough of my patience..here..just get a life and chase girl your own age for a start.


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What girl *If she's 27* attracted to a boy *17*? Rich Pretty face Six pack cool Boy


Whoot?..sorry man, seriously not interested! Women in their 20's are not into that..they seek quality not six pack cool body.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 12:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Great pics niko2x!
in the same time she is holding the other guy...
ha.. Sweat Mad
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lovelessemotion



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 12:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

shotgun_divorce wrote:

Why not channel that wasted energy into something useful? For instance, finding a girl your own age, learning magic tricks, or becoming a bank robber. Bank robbery is a very lucrative profession and, from what I've seen in the movies, it's not that hard.
rofl.....
pangit wrote:

in my opinion i dont believe in a "soul mate." i believe that you can fall in love and live a happy life with more than one person (not meaning simultaneously) and it's just a matter of who you meet first or the way things fall in place. so dont stress, theres probably someone you'll find that'll make this tutor a laugh.
yup i agree 70%.... any 1 who can ame her laugh is in!..... anyway i keep giving fans91 GOLDEN advice but he doesn't wanna take it... MAN STOP FEELING DOWN AND JUST BE URSELF AROND HER DUDE!....
shotgun_divorce wrote:

Exactly. Save yourself for Ryoko Hirosue. I'm sure she has a shotgun divorce forthcoming so she'll be back on the market in no time.
......with a baby.... Rolling eyes
v69 wrote:
only six months....time running fast man...
hey...Fans91...u r a man right..then act like one..
keep move slowly...finding what she's interested in...her fav food and something like that...maybe it's simple but this means alot if could bring her to the subject that she's interested too...and then she will notice u more...
Wink
THIS IS GOLDEN ADVICE AND FROM A GIRL 2 BOOT!!! i say take it and follow it!


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shotgun_divorce



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 1:06 pm    Post subject: Re: hmmm.. Reply with quote Back to top

teru teru bozu wrote:
i'm sooo confused!i met with the 2nd guy today and told him that we shouldn't meet anymore..and now i'm having a great headache... Nut
My parent fond of my boyfriend already and he's so determine to marry me!!maybe i still can accept him and who know that he might makes me happy? Wink the 2nd guy...i'm gonna miss him alot.He'll never be forgotten.Rite now i juz wanna go on with my life i guess?


I say marry them both and turn it into a reality show. I'd watch.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Akakage wrote:
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Would a woman have interest in a 17yr old boy when she is 27.

No.



I agree with the above. I was too polite in giving my opinion since I don't have the hard to see a 17 yrs old boy cry like a puppy by discouraging him to stop chasing his teacher. OK....since I've had enough of my patience..here..just get a life and chase girl your own age for a start.


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What girl *If she's 27* attracted to a boy *17*? Rich Pretty face Six pack cool Boy


Whoot?..sorry man, seriously not interested! Women in their 20's are not into that..they seek quality not six pack cool body.


I don't really agree with you. Yes, MOST 27 year old won't be interested in 17 year old, but I don't really think u should give such a definite answer. I mean look at the drama "Witches' Requirement". It was a teacher invovled with a student. You many think I'm crazy Crazy ... it's JUST a drama, but I have seen real live cases of this. A while back, there was really a similar situation where there was an affair btw a teacher and a high school student, the teacher even gave birth to their son. I'm not saying it's right for a teacher to be with a student, should wait until u're not her student and then see what happens. There is no age difference when u talk about "love". So before u start posting, maybe u should think/know that there are no "definite" answer for these things.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 1:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Smiley_18 wrote:
I don't really agree with you. Yes, MOST 27 year old won't be interested in 17 year old, but I don't really think u should give such a definite answer. I mean look at the drama "Witches' Requirement". It was a teacher invovled with a student. You many think I'm crazy Crazy ... it's JUST a drama, but I have seen real live cases of this.


Yes. I do think you're crazy.

Smiley_18 wrote:
So before u start posting, maybe u should think/know that there are no "definite" answer for these things.

No.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 1:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

If you're in love with the second guy go for it, I mean it. Love is something that can be so rare to come across. I bet there are literally one billion people in the world who wish they could have that feeling, and who go for it in th edrop of a hat. That is what you shoud do. Drop the bf, let him go, and follow your heart.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

shotgun_divorce wrote:

No.


And what is the reason that u think I'm crazy?
And also, y is there a definite answer for love?
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Smiley_18 wrote:
And what is the reason that u think I'm crazy?

You are in Canada.

Smiley_18 wrote:
And also, y is there a definite answer for love?

Not for all love, but there is a definite answer for the "love" between a 17 year old and his 27 year old Japanese tutor. And that answer is no.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

What's so crazy being in Canada?
Also, I did disagree about a student-teacher relationship. But I also did mentioned that he could consider about their relationship later on, after he graduates and when he is not her student anymore.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Smiley_18 wrote:
What's so crazy being in Canada?

Nothing. But I thought personally attacking you might strengthen my argument.


Smiley_18 wrote:
Also, I did disagree about a student-teacher relationship. But I also did mentioned that he could consider about their relationship later on, after he graduates and when he is not her student anymore.

Fine. You win. In repentance I'll pay for their wedding.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Smiley_18 wrote:


I don't really agree with you. Yes, MOST 27 year old won't be interested in 17 year old, but I don't really think u should give such a definite answer. I mean look at the drama "Witches' Requirement". It was a teacher invovled with a student. You many think I'm crazy Crazy ... it's JUST a drama, but I have seen real live cases of this. A while back, there was really a similar situation where there was an affair btw a teacher and a high school student, the teacher even gave birth to their son. I'm not saying it's right for a teacher to be with a student, should wait until u're not her student and then see what happens. There is no age difference when u talk about "love". So before u start posting, maybe u should think/know that there are no "definite" answer for these things.


Well..given the choice in this world, I wouldn't want to date 17 yrs old boy. Basically, this is a case of oedipus complex. Personally, this age difference matter when the boy has not even reach his 20's.

I definitely have some clear thought and logic when posting my answer, I mean..ppl here has a freedom to speak their thought. Some may agree of the idea about making "Majo no Joken" into reality. Back..to my first thought..given the choice, I would not do it. I don't mind older woman dating younger guys..BUT C'MON....at least you boys reach their 20's...

Would I want to date Tomohisa Yamashita when there's Fukuyama Masaharu still available... Naughty hehe

It's up to the boy to decide which opinion he wants to pursue...
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Akakage wrote:


Well..given the choice in this world, I wouldn't want to date 17 yrs old boy. Basically, this is a case of oedipus complex. Personally, this age difference matter when the boy has not even reach his 20's.

I definitely have some clear thought and logic when posting my answer, I mean..ppl here has a freedom to speak their thought. Some may agree of the idea about making "Majo no Joken" into reality. Back..to my first thought..given the choice, I would not do it. I don't mind older woman dating younger guys..BUT C'MON....at least you boys reach their 20's...

Would I want to date Tomohisa Yamashita when there's Fukuyama Masaharu still available... Naughty hehe

It's up to the boy to decide which opinion he wants to pursue...


Sorry.. Sorry! I didn't mean to sound that ppl don't have the right to speak their minds. Sad What I didn't like was the fact that the person u quoted had just given such a "definite" answer, saying that no 27 year old would be interested in 17 years old. And I just want to point out that it's not true. That's all.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

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Nothing. But I thought personally attacking you might strengthen my argument.


LOL Big Grin hehe
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 2:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

shotgun_divorce wrote:

Fine. You win. In repentance I'll pay for their wedding.


hehe pay for their wedding?? I'm in...
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 3:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Smiley_18 wrote:


Sorry.. Sorry! I didn't mean to sound that ppl don't have the right to speak their minds. Sad What I didn't like was the fact that the person u quoted had just given such a "definite" answer, saying that no 27 year old would be interested in 17 years old. And I just want to point out that it's not true. That's all.


No problemo, you have the right to say here..

Still..I don't want to date YamaP, I'd prefer Junichi Okada if I want to date younger man. Naughty hehe
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2004 3:42 pm    Post subject: Re: Love is unfair Reply with quote Back to top

Fans91 wrote:
I'm seventeen, Naomi san is twenty seven? I think accidentally fell for her, and trust meshe is quite Hot.. How should a person talk to her?

Note--she is my Japanese tutor


Dude...It all depends on you.

Just don't buy "Making Love in Japanese" and use the lines from that book.

kndy
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