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Fans91



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 07, 2004 9:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

its solve, i told the officer that I always want people to feel comfortable around me..and would not spy or probe in to their life...I also found lots
of scoop/info on my teachers.life (where they graudated, horoscope, age, and what district they live)...I took the name of an teacher out from the top of my head and began explaining how I know him/her...ands it is no different with Naomi my tutor/history teacher..Finally my 6period history class got change along my 5th...This situation is keep privately between the people that exposed me to the officer and me only...She doesn't know what has happened because it is keep private...One of my teacher asked me "If you want me to check if she still comfortable with tutoring in japanese with out the use of mentioning me (completely irrelivent *spelling error on irrelivent...the teacher told me that "no, i tutor people HISTORY mainly, so no thanks" and was told to keep my distance from
her. But, Naomi san did mention: "that whenever I need help with my japanese comeover to my room after school and I will help you." And my other teacher who spoked to her is told me something Vague. That she does not wanna tutor me in Japanese anymore...Yet, I've a feeling that if go find her and ask her my self that the answer will be much different...

I'm sorry I wrote alot, you guys...more advices?
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Tekanan



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 07, 2004 9:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Fans91 wrote:

I'm sorry I wrote alot, you guys...



nah.nothing to be sorry about.
people do stupid things when they are in love.
i know......


=D
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MixxDreamer



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 07, 2004 10:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

just be happy that its not worse than majo no jouken's case (it was exposed to the whole school).. but yeh let that be ur lesson, that u should know the other person's side first...specially if she doesnt give u any signs
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Akakage



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 07, 2004 8:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

niko2x wrote:
thx akakage-chan! it was from a deal i had mad with kouseiya-chan, you can ask her about! Naughty


Hehehe hehe I actually I have the whole thing..I even bought the magazine of his cover. I also have Shingo's butt and Hentona Issa from Da pump posing like that too. Mr Green
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Tekanan



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 9:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

..............


we've been watching too many j-dramas......


Nut
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ahochaude



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 3:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Bottom line..................................


"LOVE IS ALWAYS UNFAIR!!!!"


That's how life is. Learn that things are not always what you wish it to be. Accept it.


Btw Fans 91, Sorry to hear that your "trusted teacher" "squeeled" on you.
I wish you the very best in overcoming such a devastating blow to your pride.
NEVER TRUST A TEACHER!!!!!!!!!
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Bsalez



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 3:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Moto KAre...ANyone? Mr Green
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fatma



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 7:00 pm    Post subject: long distance love Reply with quote Back to top

dear fren i've got prob.... hehe love live far from me.. what should i do?? do u beleive long distace love??? can i trusr him??? plz2 tell me.... i'm confiuse n not sure...
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Bsalez



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 7:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Well Fatma chan...I think it is really need alot of effort such as Trust and really a deep deep love...I don't say it is not possible but kind of hard... Mr Green Especially if u know Man is always man ne Sweat
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 7:46 pm    Post subject: Re: long distance love Reply with quote Back to top

fatma wrote:
dear fren i've got prob.... hehe love live far from me.. what should i do?? do u beleive long distace love??? can i trust him??? plz2 tell me.... i'm confused n not sure...


Go with your instincts. My G.F. lives in Japan. I visit her twice a year. We've been this way since 2002. I trust her. She trusts me. I haven't done anything to ruin that. Neither has she. It is a risk. But if you feel it's worth it, take it. 'Cause if it works out, you make out! If it doesn't, hey, at least you tried. And no one can take that away from you.
No one can tell you if you can trust him or not. That is up to you girl. You know him better than anyone/everyone in this forum.
Omakase. (Up to you).
Bottom line is....... What are you willing to go through the long distance factor for him?! Only you can decide on that. No one can tell you if it's worth it or not. If you feel it's worth it, you just have to give it a try.
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 7:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Bsalez wrote:
Well Fatma chan...I think it is really need alot of effort such as Trust and really a deep deep love...I don't say it is not possible but kind of hard... Mr Green Especially if u know Man is always man ne Sweat


You're right! It takes a lot of love to put up with this (pardon my "french") long distance sh*t.

Long distance relationship is hard. I know. Trust me. Niko2x knows as well (as he's been through it in his life as well). It's not a thing that I wish on people esp since I know how hard it is. Anyways Fatma, if you love him and trust him, go for it! The only thing you have to lose is him (providing it doesn't work out). Then at least you'll be rest assured that it wasn't meant to be. To be honest, I'm not sure about mine yet either. So far, it's worked out. I've yet to see what happens in times ahead. Take it one day at a time. Like I said, if you feel it's worth it, give it a shot.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 8:01 pm    Post subject: Re: long distance love Reply with quote Back to top

ahochaude wrote:

But if you feel it's worth it, take it. 'Cause if it works out, you make out!

ummm ya hehe i guess i must agree here if only for my belief that true love knows no obstacles!!! Mr Green
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2004 8:04 pm    Post subject: Re: long distance love Reply with quote Back to top

barooboodoo wrote:

ummm ya hehe i guess i must agree here if only for my belief that true love knows no obstacles!!! Mr Green


This situation could be equated to gambling basically.

If it's worth it, put it on the line. If it's not, screw it.
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2004 2:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

knew her 6 months>>>i juz cant 4get her coz so damn in love wf her....n she loves me so much also,we juz so in love wf each other n i juz dont understand y she dont wanna try 2b wf me...n still sticking wf her old bf.....she told all her reasons y she cant b wf me,n the best reason(i guess) is that her old bf had done so many thgs(challenging type of guy Applaud) 2 get her heart....n she juz dont understand y did juz falling in love 2 me without me doing special(i guess)

I DO LOVE HER SO MUCH!!!

teru2bozu,i know u will c this(forum)...
i telling u that i need u so much,n im telling the world that i miss u sososo much,,,,more than u missing me rite now......

juz please meet me after this,juz tell me that u wana c me again,pls Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad
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marecore



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2004 3:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

As the saying goes....

With love nothing is impossible

Wink
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Onyx



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2004 5:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ive just got out of a long distance relationship, 12000km between us. I flew over, she flew over, we called, sent stuff etc. It was very difficult, but i dont regret it even though its over now.

Id say, think it over very well before you start. Flying over isnt gonna happen forever, the distance will have to dissapear some day in order to continue. If you think thats possible just follow your heart Smile
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2004 5:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

where did all of this love questions came from all of a sudden? oh well hehe i agree with aho, hey ive been in a ldr too, hes in fl and im here in cali, we're gonna be 4 years this coming may 1st.. guess im one of those people who survived and still going strong.. yes u can trust the guy, as long as ure willing to put up everything, such as sacrifices, trust, and patience.. if ure sure enough, then go for it, this is actually the questions u ask urself, not everyone.. cuz ur heart would say it all for u.

and NO EXPECTATIONS, that will fall everything apart, and start having problems, believe me i had expectations before, but we love each other too much to let go, so all i did is patience. ~hope everything works well with u.


hey ahochaude, u visit her twice a year? that must be tough Sad my bf visits me every 2 weeks, sometimes 3 or in a month when hes busy.. shoot i only visit him once a year, when its my turn hehe.. cuz im broke and all.. Mr Green
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2004 8:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

ahochaude wrote:
Bottom line..................................


"LOVE IS ALWAYS UNFAIR!!!!"


Love means never to say your sorry. If you look at love at always being unfair, you're never going to find happiness.

I've been with the greatest woman in my life for years and not sure how your love life has been but it sounds like you have been hurt or you have had a bad experience to look at love in such as "unfair". Love does hurt sometimes but when you meet that special someone, it's the greatest!

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Btw Fans 91, Sorry to hear that your "trusted teacher" "squeeled" on you.I wish you the very best in overcoming such a devastating blow to your pride. NEVER TRUST A TEACHER!!!!!!!!!


Personally, I'm glad the teacher told. It's his job! If you want to confess and want someone not to squeel...go to a church and go to confession. Talk to your best friend....but you don't confide in a teacher when the person you are interested in is his/her co-worker.

kndy
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2004 8:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Akakage wrote:



Naughty hehe Megumi "Bouncy Bubbly Boobs"... Bleah
Oh..well..that's always an attraction to most men in the world. Mr Green


Not sure if many guys on here have or had relationship with women with big breasts but you have to hear the stories of how their back hurts, how they wish they can get breast reduction surgery and of course, there are women who invite the necessary attention but for those who don't, they hate it when guy are focusing on their breasts than their eyes during a conversation. Being a boyfriend who have had well-endowed girlfriends in the past who have attracted that unwanted attention can get out of hand too. I nearly got into so many fights with other guys because of this.

But it's interesting how a topic of death can so lead into a topic about breasts... hehe

kndy
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2004 10:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

kndy-nt2099 wrote:
But it's interesting how a topic of death can so lead into a topic about breasts... hehe

kndy
Crazy i never had the "my back hurst" speech ..but i hear its VERYY common.... but i did get the "i hate it when guy's stare at my bust" speech... and how they HATE the attention they get


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