Joined: 03 Dec 2003 Posts: 205 Location: America? Country:
Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2004 5:02 pm Post subject:
that's an awfully lazy outlook on stalking aho... you'll wait for her to come to you and THEN stalk her it's alright you already have what most of us want... an asian girlfriend
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 10291 Location: Matsuhama-cho, Ashiya-shi, Hyogo-ken, Japan Country:
Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2004 7:24 pm Post subject:
barooboodoo wrote:
it's alright you already have what most of us want... an asian girlfriend
Can't be that hard to get one, right??!!
Where are you located? Are there not much there?
Guarantee if you come to Hawaii, you can easily hook up with a Japanese chick (from Japan). There are a lot of them here on visas studying English (but yeah right, most use that visa as an excuse for an "extended vacation" here in Hawaii) and I notice that they hook up with non-Japanese guys.
Joined: 07 Apr 2002 Posts: 2495 Location: Wales Country:
Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2004 5:16 am Post subject:
woooah what's with u ppl? ....anyway if u dun like some 1 ..just give them the old ..lets just be friend speech...and go fo the one u like...
ppl think of 'love' as an emotion like hate anf fear...when infact u should think of ir as an urge... like hunger or thirst...ur hungry, go get some food... ur sleepy, get some sleep.... u feel the need for love , go get some... cuz then it goes away...that's the way i look at it...
Joined: 07 Apr 2002 Posts: 2495 Location: Wales Country:
Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2004 5:36 am Post subject:
Tekanan wrote:
and lovelessemotion....U DA MAN! astronomy professor.....28.....is she hot?r u still contacting her????
i got a shock when u said she was married.....how sad!
haha... well i had fun while it lasted... really i just think my proffessor wanted to feel like a kid again but just for a while.... i wouldn't trade that experience for the world though! we had fun!
yeah she's married ...she's back with her husband.. she's pregnant now gonna have her first child in june/july... i wish her the best..
we lost touch witheachother..its for the best..
marecore wrote:
It looks like lovelessemotion has covered everything I would say....what can I say? Great minds think alike!
If u really like her then just make the effort and make her laugh (works for me since i don't think i'm much of a looker, look at my pic on the pic post form long ago if u want proof)
Good Luck!
hahaha... yup..great minds... anyway like he said TRY to make them laugh.... its the best way every1 like to be around another who is charasmastic
Fans91 wrote:
how should i try to ask her out without letting this becoming expose to others such as friends/family/rumors?
man i told u already... don't ask her out yat man... u have to take it slow... REALLY SLOW... man just talk to her often about class... THAT"S THE ONLY U HAVE IN COMMAN RIGHT NOW!!!.... and after a few WEEKS when u can make her laugh and ur confidant ...give her the "let's go get some coffe" talk... DO NOT SAY "do you want to...." don't give her an option cuz then she can say no...if u say "let's go get some...." she won't say no as easily cuz then she will sound rude,.. HAH! (years of experience boys)
if u have problems with confidance just take a 'wing man' with u... ask one of ur friends to go with u to when ur gonna tak to her...and just start joking with her and him both..its works.. JUST MAKE SURE U HAVE A GOOD WING MAN... i dunno how manny times i've been spoiled with a 'bad wing man' who just sits there and doesn't talk... that totally messes up ur chances..
btw fans91 i gotta say the way u describe it.. it really does sound like a crush more than love
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Joined: 07 Apr 2002 Posts: 2495 Location: Wales Country:
Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2004 5:45 am Post subject:
sid wrote:
well .. just got back from a superbowl party and my gf gives me call ..
she tutors people in Japanese and other subjects. She just informed me that she thinks some tutoree is gonna ask her out. She said she is totally afraid and if this guy asks her out, she is gonna stop giving tutoring lessons. Hope it all works out for her.
/end joke.
hahahhahahah that's so funny man! it made my stomach hurt from laughter! ..really
Joined: 06 May 2003 Posts: 3779 Location: so. cali, USA Country:
Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2004 5:48 am Post subject:
i think do some soul searching first, cuz you obviously dont wanna let go this longterm bf.. but its kinda easy cuz your heart says it all right? like everyone says dont mislead the other guy if you dont intend to be with him anymore, i mean my gosh 3 years?! thats a very long time already, the longer you wait the longer its gonna hurt him if he finds out, do you enjoy hurting people like that?? cuz thats what uve been doing already.
as for the guy u like, how long have you guys been dating? if not very long that could be just an infatuation cuz youre probably bored out from ur longterm bf.. idk but if u think ure really in love with this guy, then dump the person you've been holding onto for a long time, (cuz thats messed up) take all the risks and be with this new guy, lets see how its gonna work out.
think about it, be honest, and let it all out. i hope youre not cheating with the long term guy cuz cheaters never win, thats what happens when you mess someones emotions, u get what u deserve. but to me this is an easy way for you since u dont love them both. ur bf will understand and respect your decision once you get things cleared out with him. i think if he loves you he'll let u go just to make you happy.
terrible news::one of my friends told me that she wears ring on the marriage finger. Very sad...for me, luckily i still remember her name is (funahashi when she graduated from college). I checked her name in the white pages. her name is also funahashi at present...does this mean she' marry or not?
Joined: 07 Apr 2002 Posts: 2495 Location: Wales Country:
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2004 5:19 am Post subject:
sid wrote:
ask. or say .. towards the end of the week ..
"so .. what are you plans this weekend? Going to the movies with your boyfriend?"
nah don't say that yet... that's like a lil to personal...
i would say just start talking about anything and then say... "hey valentines day is comming up ....i liked that when i was younger all the kids would give out cards and stuff.. it was fun!... *giggle*.. hey does ur husband still give ya cards for v-day?"
if she answers yes: "wow hat's cool... but why doesn't he give ya roses insted? jk..*then giggle again*"
is she says no: "oh are u married?....." then continue the conversation...which ever way it goes...
Joined: 03 Dec 2003 Posts: 205 Location: America? Country:
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2004 8:04 am Post subject:
Ya i think aho really nailed it when he asked why you're still with this guy if you don't love or even like him...
whoa loveless i think maybe you're confusing love with lust? which is kind of an interesting topic how do any of us know if we've experienced love or not??
Joined: 22 May 2003 Posts: 160 Location: in front of my laptop Country:
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2004 8:38 am Post subject:
lim_li's right...
you should think carefully about your feeling with both of your boyfriends. you know your 1st boyfriends better and how do you feel when you're with him. as for your 2nd boyfriend, you just met him and try to get to know him better.
this is a tough decision, better think carefully!!!
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