niko2x wrote:

When i was in little, i thought that i wanted to get married around 30, who knew that by 21, i'm married already!

Oooh here is your info niko2x-san! Thanks again for showing me this thread.

Me I am divorced a long time now. My marriage lasted 2-1/2 years. Nice guy and we are still friends, but I just should not have married him.

Just curious any people here who are married..any comments or advice for us single folks?

Any thoughts on marriage...good, bad or indifferent?????

single and happy ..... well for now

do plan to find my girl and get married in the next years .... else my parents will be on my ass ...

Enna wrote:

Just curious any people here who are married..any comments or advice for us single folks?

although i am single ... my 2 cents

enna find a good guy like me and give it another shot ... only 1 life u know

Enna wrote:

Oooh here is your info niko2x-san! Thanks again for showing me this thread. Me I am divorced a long time now. My marriage lasted 2-1/2 years. Nice guy and we are still friends, but I just should not have married him. Just curious any people here who are married..any comments or advice for us single folks? Any thoughts on marriage...good, bad or indifferent?????

thoughts on marriage, my other post on relationships should have gone here instead...i forgot what i wrote. I am not married and have no personal experiences to add here, so i wouldn't know where to begin. All my comments and opinions are based off outside observations and from my dating relationships. All i know is that it takes a great amount of commitment and dedication to make a marriage strong and last, BUT it does take both people working together. A marriage needs a strong foundation, which is ideal, but not always the case. No marriage, i can imagine is perfect, but both people need to acknowledge each other in a marriage and respect each other, and grow together. There are many things in a marriage that the two must have, to make a loving marriage work. All I know is that is a big step from just a dating intimate relationship and a Marriage. I have yet to see what it is like being Married.

z123_us wrote:

...do plan to find my girl and get married in the next years .... else my parents will be on my ass ...

about getting on you, they'll get on your butt about something one way or another, it doesn't have to be about getting married or not.
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i have trouble with relationships in general, i highly doubt i'd ever get married. lol

at least my orchids wont nag/yell@ me... except when they're thirsty.

niko2x wrote:

about getting on you, they'll get on your butt about something one way or another, it doesn't have to be about getting married or not.

u seem to be a very experienced person !!

other things apart ... marriage after an age... can be a regular ... butt march issue ...

i am waiting for it to start sometime soon ...

i am also interested in getting married with the right girl and at the right time

krim wrote:

i have trouble with relationships in general, i highly doubt i'd ever get married. lol at least my orchids wont nag/yell@ me... except when they're thirsty.

yeah, relationships can be complicated, and to be free and single does have it's advantages, but i would say that dating can be fun and nice.

marriage is a whole new level and a big jump in commitment.

z123_us wrote:

u seem to be a very experienced person !! other things apart ... marriage after an age... can be a regular ... butt march issue ... i am waiting for it to start sometime soon ... i am also interested in getting married with the right girl and at the right time

yeah, that is a good way to look at it. But, hard to see when just outta a long term relationship. But there are a lot of nice girls out there...

krim wrote:

i have trouble with relationships in general, i highly doubt i'd ever get married. lol at least my orchids wont nag/yell@ me... except when they're thirsty.

orchids ..... Hmmm ... u giving me ideas now eh !! ..

me and my orchids on my island in the pacific ..

oooops did i forget to mention the 30 odd girls also along with me on the island ... gomen

z123_us wrote:

orchids ..... Hmmm ... u giving me ideas now eh !! .. me and my orchids on my island in the pacific .. oooops did i forget to mention the 30 odd girls also along with me on the island ... gomen

I was thinking that your orchid was a metaphor for women, then i read the last line.

krim wrote:

I was thinking that your orchid was a metaphor for women, then i read the last line.

why do u think i mentioned ............. ooooops

krim wrote:

I was thinking that your orchid was a metaphor for women, then i read the last line.

30 girls on an island, wow, kinda makes you glad that being single is not so bad, when the odds are in your favor.

here's to the upcoming dating scene, kinda scary, but yet exciting....

knowing me, even if there was 30 women on the island with me... i'd be hiding in a tree, watching doramas, anime and movies on a solar powered laptop...

then when the laptop dies, i'd eventually head towards the women, but by that time, they'd all be lesbians and have no interest in me.

qilver wrote:

30 girls on an island, wow, kinda makes you glad that being single is not so bad, when the odds are in your favor. here's to the upcoming dating scene, kinda scary, but yet exciting....

30 was not a random number .................. 30 days in a month u know

krim wrote:

knowing me, even if there was 30 women on the island with me... i'd be hiding in a tree, watching doramas, anime and movies on a solar powered laptop... then when the laptop dies, i'd eventually head towards the women, but by that time, they'd all be lesbians and have no interest in me.

i assure u .... u are not gonna get married for long time ..... lucky dog !

krim wrote:

knowing me, even if there was 30 women on the island with me... i'd be hiding in a tree, watching doramas, anime and movies on a solar powered laptop... then when the laptop dies, i'd eventually head towards the women, but by that time, they'd all be lesbians and have no interest in me.

i think that i would honestly love the attention from all the girls, but wouldn't know what to do after awhile, since dating one girl would be tough with the other 29 getting jealous.

z123_us wrote:

i assure u .... u are not gonna get married for long time ..... lucky dog !

would you mind telling that to my mum?
that way she can stop pestering about getting married.

krim wrote:

would you mind telling that to my mum? that way she can stop pestering about getting married.

heh, you too huh?
and the relatives too will be asking as well.
over thirty and not married, pressures on, either way, single searching and somewhat happy, or with someone.....
in either case pressures on...

sis already has 2 male kids, and she's STILL bugging me for a grandson (male side), cause im the oldest male of my dad's side.