mrmacca wrote:

Anyways, back on topic! stuff thats bugging me lately, I have to say people. People suck.

Aren't you people?

bmwracer wrote:

Aren't you people?

Yes! and I would deffinatly say I suck too

I guess it's because I have less than 2 weeks left as a teenager, so im being angsty and moody and hating the world whilst I have an excuse...

Enna wrote:

Ahhh c'mon now mrmacca some of us ain't so bad. bmwracer wrote: Aren't you people? mrmacca wrote: Yes! and I would deffinatly say I suck too I guess it's because I have less than 2 weeks left as a teenager, so im being angsty and moody and hating the world whilst I have an excuse...

Ooohh so that explains it! You are leaving teenage land! Twenties here you come!

kaosrave wrote:

you know what bothers me, people who are impatient. i'm sorry to all those people who are impatient EVEN i get a little impatient but not this impatient. When there is someone out there who is taking there time to do somethign for you, not getting anythign in return, and people complain. FOR ONE THING, its fansubbing, i appreciate those people who fansub, but when people complain about it it gets on my nerves. i grow a little impatient to but i dont complain about it, i just wait. i may be contradicting my self but w.e i never complain when people go outta there way to help others.

i actually agree with you, though i can be very impatient, specially when they have the project on hold, and its been there for like more than a year w/o any notice.. i do appreciate their work but there are some fansubbers and scanlators think theyre so almighty and talk like they want u to kiss their feet. i'd rather read or watch them raw than being treated like that.

it bothers me so much when my mom talks about my weight as if shes not fat.. shes so much fatter than i am, and when i ask her to go jog or walk with me, she makes this lame-ass excuses how she walks all the time around the house, or she does lots of stuff gardening... hey at least i jog every morning.. i know i am very much aware that i gained weight but i dont appreciate when your parents doesnt encourage you to be healthy, instead she puts me down all the time by making fun of me.. shes not giving me an example when shes a lazy couch potato herself.

as for the message above ^ just bec. you're turning 20 doesnt mean you have to grow up too fast hehe.. ok well im in my mid-20s and sometimes i still act like a teenager, maybe cuz i have a lousy childhood but oh well..no worries, being in your 20s is still young.
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mrmacca wrote:

Yes! and I would deffinatly say I suck too I guess it's because I have less than 2 weeks left as a teenager, so im being angsty and moody and hating the world whilst I have an excuse...

wait till you hit 30!

Not really all the worried about turning 20, more the fact that i feel i should make the most of being a teenager whilst i can to be a whiney little bitch. Had the crappest last month ever, so kinda feel like sitting here moaning about it, but also feel like my birthday should be a cutoff point.

Gonna have a super huge party in aid of national pirate day, and my birthday at the same time, so will be all good

ooh wow, national pirate day.. never heard of that, though i love pirates.. what occassion is that like? do u get to dress and talk like pirates?
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Technically its talk like a pirate day But we are all dressing up, drinking lots of grog and having a big pirate party!
Some information on the day here.
Only 13 days left, yarghghghh!

Terryb wrote:

lol that's nasty shoujo!

Exactly. They do it here at work all the freaking time
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Hello there ^_^

mrmacca wrote:

Technically its talk like a pirate day But we are all dressing up, drinking lots of grog and having a big pirate party! Some information on the day here. Only 13 days left, yarghghghh!

interesting. so that's what happens in our capital is it? downing street, too?

Things that are currently irritating me are lenders who don't respond whenever I request a payoff demand.
Lenders who don't get back to me whenever I request information. Afterall, the lender is the one who wants the new loan closed and recorded so that they can get paid. If they don't follow through with me, I can't help them get the transaction closed. Hello?!
Not to mention real estate agents who (when I call them for follow up information in regards to their client) tell me to call the client and not them. Shit. I'm not doing their work for them. Making an average of a 4-6% commission off of a real estate transaction, damn, they better be doing that kind of stuff themselves.
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Man my mom has got this huge issuse of what colour a person is who I date.. keep it up and when I have my wedding I wont let you be a part period.

she says alot of smart assed things that just have me boilling inside.

So I tell her about the girl I met, and I tell her she's near my same complexion, and she tells me "As long as she has an ounce of black in her"

WTF is that? Then I say to her you have a issue with what race I date?

And she says "No I don't son" and a fake ass voice/tone.

Lucky she is my mom or I would really go off on her.

SO GD hung up on the hell I date, she's 56 now, so not much longer, and when I move and get my aprtment She will have to see me when she sees me, I don't need that BS in my place, I don't think I have to date who you want or who you should feel I should date just based on Skin tone alone.

Get over that Friken race shit, OMG I'm getting pissed just talking about it again.

GOD PLEASE GET ME THE HELL AWAY FROM HER AT LEAST A YEAR OR LONGER! PLEASE!

Speaking of that.. Back when I worked at Best Buy and it was snowing pretty hard, so I figure I would give this girl a ride home..

So I go out to the car to warm it up and clear the snow off..

all of a sudden my friend was like no I'm not going, and she said bye to me and everything.. So I was like ok....

So I go into work next day, and she is really pissed at me for some reason... so maybe I thought it was that time of the month.

Finally in the back room, she finally tells me, and it was what my mom said to her, she said to me "How could your mom say something like that to me?" I told her I had no clue.. my mom did not say anything to me about this in the car, I felt bad.. Because I know my mom says alot of hurtful stuff and she does not know what the hell she just said...

Which is why I want to keep her away from anyone I date.. I would not know how my date would feel like if I tell her before hand, but I don't know what to say my mom thought it was fine.. and friend was just about to cry just about.

From people I've talked to, it does seem that race tends to be more of an issue with people in america.
Living in most places in england, it would be pretty damn hard to be a racist simply because we are so culturally diverse. Im pretty sure at my high school no one race accounted for more than 40% of the student populus, we had a very large number of asians, orientals, calcasians (sp?) and a few black kids.
I guess that in a lot of countries maybe people from an older generation have race issues, they aren't necessaryly racists as such, it's just that they come from a different era. I know my mum didn't see a black person till she was 15 (and this is growing up in north london, where I think is a now predominantly black area) and she had a black cat called nignog, but I guess that was just acceptable round then.
Anyways, I wont verbally splooge anymore...

Things that are bugging me at the moment: Moving house, its such an effort :/

Well I don't think my mom needs to hang around anyone I know at this point.

SubaruWRX wrote:

Well I don't think my mom needs to hang around anyone I know at this point.

I feel you Subaru! I think what mrmacca said is so true. Your Mom is a product of her past. She has to be willing to change. You can't change her.

I always wonder why people are so worried about what race or nationality or religion their children, relatives, friends or even perfect strangers date or marry. We are not book ends! Why do we have to be identical replicas of our chosen mates? Are they worried that their particular race or nationality or religion will disappear? We humans sure are a strange lot, aren't we?

Enna wrote:

I feel you Subaru! I think what mrmacca said is so true. Your Mom is a product of her past. She has to be willing to change. You can't change her. I always wonder why people are so worried about what race or nationality or religion their children, relatives, friends or even perfect strangers date or marry. We are not book ends! Why do we have to be identical replicas of our chosen mates? Are they worried that their particular race or nationality or religion will disappear? We humans sure are a strange lot, aren't we?

Oh you touched on another thing..

LOL my mom says this girl has to be Christan...

It seems more or less she is trying to make her sound a turnoff to me or whatever..

As she knows If I want something I will get what I want, no matter how much it takes to get it.

lol just like my Nikon D70, I had to deal with pure hell getting it, so when people try and get pissy with me because I spent $1200 on the camera I tell them the Hell I had to deal with to get it, lol at one point I thought the whole world was after me lmao.


Anyways regardless of what she says I still have control over who I date, she can't spend 24/7 with me.

My biggest fear is what she might say wrong if she saw her, which is why I don't bother to have her meet her because she would say something smart and she would find it a turn off, it's already happened once.

SubaruWRX wrote:

Oh you touched on another thing.. LOL my mom says this girl has to be Christan... It seems more or less she is trying to make her sound a turnoff to me or whatever.. As she knows If I want something I will get what I want, no matter how much it takes to get it. Anyways regardless of what she says I still have control over who I date, she can't spend 24/7 with me.

Well it sounds like your Mom has quite a list for you !!! Your gf has to have some % Black in her, has to be Christian, can't be too tall. Anything else? You have your work cut out for you Subaru! I hope you don't date someone just to piss your Mom off! You will feel so much better once you move out on your own. Don't get too upset with your Mom. She is who she is. You are who you are. You both sound like you have a bit of a stubborn streak in you.

Enna wrote:

Well it sounds like your Mom has quite a list for you !!! Your gf has to have some % Black in her, has to be Christian, can't be too tall. Anything else? You have your work cut out for you Subaru! I hope you don't date someone just to piss your Mom off! You will feel so much better once you move out on your own. Don't get too upset with your Mom. She is who she is. You are who you are. You both sound like you have a bit of a stubborn streak in you.

LMAO... I was as bit shocked and still shocked when she says she have to have at least of ounce of black in her... LMAO give me a break!

lol and no I'm not pissing her off, I'm more or less shocked I boke my shyness talking to the girl in the first place

I'm waiting for that day to move out on my own, and I hope it comes soon enoughat least 200 miles away from mom


lol she is Stubborn, I tend not to be until you just plain get on my nerves.