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gregsan



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ushiroyubi wrote:


interesting. I didn't know you meant literally...

How have others of your ethnic background treated you once they know of your parents?


Sorry...I don't understand your confusion. Maybe a pic of myself will help:

I've posted a few in this thread:

http://www.jdorama.com/viewtopic.php?p=130543#130543


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Ushiroyubi



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

gregsan wrote:


Sorry...I don't understand your confusion. Maybe a pic of myself will help:



That's me in Kyoto - 1998.


EH.... oh... so you're NOT Asian.

My confusion came with this statment:

gregsan wrote:


Similar to me..though I'm Asian (raised white)

I'm kind of Asian confused though, since I'm partial to Japanese, but then again....I married a Chinese (Cantonese) girl. Very confused... Shake Head


So you're an asianphile who believe he was born into the wrong body?
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ushiroyubi wrote:


So you're an asianphile who believe he was born into the wrong body?


Yeah... I was confused by your earlier statement Greg... you wrote that you were Asian and didn't you write that you also married a Chinese girl (that speaks Canto)?

Some folks believe that the stork makes mistakes every once in a while and misdelivers babies. And I wouldn't call it that the person in question is a *insert-ethnic-interest-type-here*-phile. It's more like the person has a fundamentally different psychological makeup that is more similar to the ethnic group that they are intersted in, instead of the ethnic group to which they are genetically related.



Whatever makes folks happy, Smile
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

pcmodem wrote:



Some folks believe that the stork makes mistakes every once in a while and misdelivers babies. And I wouldn't call it that the person in question is a *insert-ethnic-interest-type-here*-phile. It's more like the person has a fundamentally different psychological makeup that is more similar to the ethnic group that they are intersted in, instead of the ethnic group to which they are genetically related.


thus, said person is enamored with "asian things" for the fact that they're asian... rather than being simply "asiancentric" and believing that there are great things within asian-cultures that you value.

It isn't a "cultural issue" per se, because there is, in reality, no such thing as "asian culture".
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ushiroyubi wrote:

My confusion came with this statment:

gregsan wrote:

Similar to me..though I'm Asian (raised white)

I'm kind of Asian confused though, since I'm partial to Japanese, but then again....I married a Chinese (Cantonese) girl. Very confused...




which was written in response to this post:

bmwracer wrote:

I think I was born Japanese and whisked away by a Chinese couple... hehe
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ushiroyubi wrote:


thus, said person is enamored with "asian things" for the fact that they're asian... rather than being simply "asiancentric" and believing that there are great things within asian-cultures that you value.


I don't think "enamored" is a the correct word.
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

gregsan wrote:
which was written in response to this post:


Yes, but your use of "though I am Asian" threw me, and apparently, others for a loop.
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

gregsan wrote:


I don't think "enamored" is a the correct word.


ok then... it doesn't have to do with love.

Passionately obsessed?
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ushiroyubi wrote:


Yes, but your use of "though I am Asian" threw me, and apparently, others for a loop.


I will guess MOST people were NOT confused...and the "though" was more a contrast of White to Chinese (NOT Asian to Japanese).

I said I was BORN to white parents...how LESS confusing could I be?
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 2:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ushiroyubi wrote:


ok then... it doesn't have to do with love.

Passionately obsessed?


Are you and Asian? If so...are you "passionately obsessed"? Is that what defines you to be asian?
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

gregsan wrote:


Are you and Asian? If so...are you "passionately obsessed"? Is that what defines you to be asian?


I am only part Asian... and undeniably "japancentric".

But I do not believe to be "asian confused" as I do not put value on continental significance as a whole... only elements within various cultures (many of which happen to be asian) that I believe to be dear to me.

gregsan wrote:


I will guess MOST people were NOT confused...and the "though" was more a contrast of White to Chinese (NOT Asian to Japanese).

I said I was BORN to white parents...how LESS confusing could I be?


I needed that third post in order to confirm the truth (as it's clear now) because the first two statements cancelled each other out.

So we're done with that.
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Ushiroyubi wrote:


I am only part Asian... and undeniably "japancentric".

But I do not believe to be "asian confused" as I do not put value on continental significance as a whole... only elements within various cultures (many of which happen to be asian) that I believe to be dear to me.


OK.. Japancentric or Asiancentric will do. Though my point is I'm semi-Japancentric, semi-chinese(HK)centric...
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

This thread is uh....something else Sweat hehe Why Japanese though? I think when looking hard for something specific like that, you may not find exactly what you'd hope for Bleah

I say a lot that I want some Asian guy(s) for the time being (b/c I never had one Doh!) but heh, I highly doubt I'd turn down a nice hottie who isn't Asian though. Not telling ya! w00t!
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

gregsan wrote:


OK.. Japancentric or Asiancentric will do. Though my point is I'm semi-Japancentric, semi-chinese(HK)centric...


I'm "-centric" to countries that have beautiful women (and have brains and personality to match) and don't smell.

I'm married but there was a time where I was on a search in different countries for women resembling Sammi Cheng, Faye Wong, women with similar eyes and beauty of Maggie Cheung and Bada, Hyori and for Japanese women... I digged Ako of My Little Lover and Moritaka Chisato (when she had the long black hair). But it's not limited to Asian women. I was always on the lookout for a Claudia Schiffer, Karen Mulder, Tatiana Patitz, Nicole Kidman.... I just love beautiful women.

kndy


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

kndy-nt2099 wrote:


..and don't smell.

kndy


BWAHAHAHAHA, definitely an important quality rofl Rolly
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

kndy-nt2099 wrote:


I'm "-centric" to countries that have beautiful women (and have brains and personality to match) and don't smell.



ehh... somehow I believe the conversation drifted a bit further off from just limiting -centricisms to "your ideal mate".

I know Afghanistan has some beautiful women (I dated one in college)... but you won't find me being too "up" on their country. lol
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

i dont care..i just want to marry japanese guy....i wnat i want i want....... Yeah
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 3:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

day_o00 wrote:
i dont care..i just want to marry japanese guy....i wnat i want i want....... Yeah


Damn you're picky.
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 4:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

day_o00 wrote:
i dont care..i just want to marry japanese guy....i wnat i want i want....... Yeah


The japanese has to say YES Big Grin

I didn"t see your pic, I don't want to read all Smile
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2004 4:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote Back to top

Xavio wrote:
The japanese has to say YES Big Grin

I didn"t see your pic, I don't want to read all Smile
i'm just guessing now, but i think the pic is the avatar...
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