Would You Date Someone Of A Different Ethnicity?

[lifunk]

So what is it that turned u off about those other groups of women?
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[K.T.Tran]

they think they're on who whole nother level den u are, smoke, drink, 2 much of a party person, n some of them dress too slutty.

[MixxDreamer]

not to make it sound like an ass but why is this thread so popular? i understand some people have different taste, and some others will disagree them by reading the previous flame attempts

oh well, i know there are certain groups who just wants to stay in their own race, whatevre they feel like, its their life, its not like theyre forcing you.

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I know like i said b4 a lot of women who would luv to date asian men but they think that the man would diss them cuz their not asian.

who said this? most of the asian guys i know they dont even care if you're asian or not, as long as you're pretty.. yeh asian guys have high standards, not saying all of em are but c'mon now.. the typical ones i know (who hangs out @ boba shops) they do care about the looks, then the personality.. but if you're a guy who's into personalities then more power to you. alotta asian women (including me) likes that.
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[qilver]

i think i would be open to it, but seriously, i prefer my own race in terms of marriage, but whatever happens, right? All the girls i've dated in the past were all chinese, i didn't plan it that way. But i am flexible. I think what matters the most is the personalities on how the two people "click" and mix together. Of course she should be attractive, that always helps, but beyond the looks, i guess it depends on how you look at the whole dating scene and how old you are. Dating can be fun, and interesting but we all date to have a purpose, marriage, right?

[K.T.Tran]

Marriage is beyond me right now
Right now i would like to find a girl i can have being with. Share some laughs, have good time, help each other over come our troubles, and in the end i hope i get a feel of what it would be like to be married and spend the rest of your life with your special some1

[qilver]

K.T.Tran wrote:

Marriage is beyond me right now Right now i would like to find a girl i can have being with. Share some laughs, have good time, help each other over come our troubles, and in the end i hope i get a feel of what it would be like to be married and spend the rest of your life with your special some1

yeah, at your age, that is good thinking, work on yourself, and if a girl comes along, date her, have fun, enjoy it, but when the time is right and you are at a good age to settle down, then do it. I think for me, i am in a different mode, been out there in the dating scene, and i look at it differently. Marriage is a whole new ball game and the commitment level is much higher, you gotta step up to the plate or else. That is just what i have observed from other married couples, i have yet to find out for myself when that time comes.

[lifunk]

Not all of them think that they are on an upper level than you and not all of them dress like sluts. I'm a perfect example of that. There are non- asian chicks that are decent and don't like to party. Plus it's not like asian chicks don't like to party and dress slutty. I've known some of them whose life revolves around that kind of thing. They smoke,drink,dress like sluts and party all the time. In fact, an asian girl that was my friend (until I found out she was a real slut not just dressed like one) partied and drank all the time. She didn't take school seriously and eventually dropped out. On the otherhand I've know some non-asians that are the complete opposite of this. But either way, there are whores in every race I just think you haven't been looking for a decent non-asian girl in the right places. Try universities there are some decent ones there.
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[K.T.Tran]

lifunk wrote:

Not all of them think that they are on an upper level than you and not all of them dress like sluts. I'm a perfect example of that. There are non- asian chicks that are decent and don't like to party. Plus it's not like asian chicks don't like to party and dress slutty. I've known some of them whose life revolves around that kind of thing. They smoke,drink,dress like sluts and party all the time. In fact, an asian girl that was my friend (until I found out she was a real slut not just dressed like one) partied and drank all the time. She didn't take school seriously and eventually dropped out. On the otherhand I've know some non-asians that are the complete opposite of this. But either way, there are whores in every race I just think you haven't been looking for a decent non-asian girl in the right places. Try universities there are some decent ones there.

Yea, i've seen asian girls like that too I still got my eyes open and looking for the girl that i think i'll have a good relationship with
I'm happy to hear that you don't think of yourself as being on a higher level than others and that you don't dress like a slut

[lifunk]

So where exactly do u find these chicks? They sound really um... trashy.
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[pcmodem]

I find the entire concept of this thread amusing, since in my entire life I've never dated a Japanese woman.


C'est la vie,
PCM
(Japanese-American)

[qilver]

K.T.Tran wrote:

Yea, i've seen asian girls like that too I still got my eyes open and looking for the girl that i think i'll have a good relationship with I'm happy to hear that you don't think of yourself as being on a higher level than others and that you don't dress like a slut

yeah, probably don't want to go for that type of girl, you wouldn't want the headache and emotional baggage in that relationship. I mean everyone's got their issues, but be yourself, take it slow and easy and get to know the girl, and see how it goes from there, i am sure you will noticed any "red" flags that are a warning to you.

[niko2x]

pcmodem wrote:

I find the entire concept of this thread amusing, since in my entire life I've never dated a Japanese woman. C'est la vie, PCM (Japanese-American)

i'm surprised you parents had never try to set you up with one before.
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[K.T.Tran]

lifunk wrote:

So where exactly do u find these chicks? They sound really um... trashy.

My highschool and and the mall around there
The asian groupd and other races that attend the school close to where i live, i just don't fit in with them, they look and at things nd think differently than i do. I do however noticed that it is kinda hard gettin to know some of the girls here at the community college im attending O well, like my grandparents and parents say, get out of college, get the good jobs, you'll be able to find yourself a girlfriend a lot easier....but i wonder if thats true

[pcmodem]

K.T.Tran wrote:

My highschool and and the mall around there The asian groupd and other races that attend the school close to where i live, i just don't fit in with them, they look and at things nd think differently than i do. I do however noticed that it is kinda hard gettin to know some of the girls here at the community college im attending O well, like my grandparents and parents say, get out of college, get the good jobs, you'll be able to find yourself a girlfriend a lot easier....but i wonder if thats true

L'il bro', get yourself into the nearest gym.

Helps to have a good body to go with the good personality and education.
-PCM

[qilver]

K.T.Tran wrote:

My highschool and and the mall around there The asian groupd and other races that attend the school close to where i live, i just don't fit in with them, they look and at things nd think differently than i do. I do however noticed that it is kinda hard gettin to know some of the girls here at the community college im attending O well, like my grandparents and parents say, get out of college, get the good jobs, you'll be able to find yourself a girlfriend a lot easier....but i wonder if thats true

well, having a job/degree may help, but who knows what could happen, layoff from a job or whatever, if the girl is a keeper and you have a solid relationship, hell or high water, she should be there for you. You might meet her in college, at work? that maybe be tougher. Join some clubs at college, after college it is still possible, best to meet her through friends, network. You can meet her anywhere, increase your opportunity by getting out there and meeting people.

[K.T.Tran]

pcmodem wrote:

L'il bro', get yourself into the nearest gym. Helps to have a good body to go with the good personality and education. -PCM

Will be doing that over summer
I want to be slim and cut not all muscular n bulky....Kinda like Bruce Lee

[pcmodem]

K.T.Tran wrote:

Will be doing that over summer I want to be slim and cut not all muscular n bulky....Kinda like Bruce Lee

Also, unless you're rich or parents give you money, get a part-time job that doesn't interfere with your studies.

In the immortal words of Eddie Murphy, "Ain't no romance without finance"



Half!
-PCM

[qilver]

pcmodem wrote:

Also, unless you're rich or parents give you money, get a part-time job that doesn't interfere with your studies. In the immortal words of Eddie Murphy, "Ain't no romance without finance" Half! -PCM

aint that the truth, that's a given.
but also can't suggest it enough, hit the gym, and workout. and RUN, that has helped me in my life. Run.

[K.T.Tran]

pcmodem wrote:

Also, unless you're rich or parents give you money, get a part-time job that doesn't interfere with your studies. In the immortal words of Eddie Murphy, "Ain't no romance without finance" Half! -PCM

Well......my family is rich and i get $$$ from my grandparents....and they won't let me get a job either

I've never heard that saying from Eddie Murphy....So many sayings im
running into today

Hope i won't find me a gold digger now that she knows imma coming from a rich family *Not saying i think any of the girls here are*

[qilver]

K.T.Tran wrote:

Well......my family is rich and i get $$$ from my grandparents....and they won't let me get a job either I've never heard that saying from Eddie Murphy....So many sayings im running into today Hope i won't find me a gold digger now that she knows imma coming from a rich family *Not saying i think any of the girls here are*

rich eh? avoid the potential gold digger girls, you'll be able to spot em. She run you dry, then take you for a spin and drop you faster than a deadweight, avoid the heartache, dude and be aware of those types, they usually try to look to good and buy a lot of materialistic stuff and expect a lot more in return from you. and you can end up like this after dating them for awhile,