Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

[Itazura ichiban]

Kijinmaru, I have to say you don't have the prettiest avatar here.

Words to live by: "Faint heart never fair maiden won." They are all subconsciously cave-ladies looking for good breeding material. So a cave-boy who is both bold and sensitive will get to drag her into his cave. If you hesitate, it will be another cave-boy.
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[inamoto_yoi]

I don't know what i want to say.

[Eve]

Itazura ichiban wrote:

. If you hesitate, it will be another cave-boy.

Yep, masculine behavior is good!
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[Itazura ichiban]

Eve wrote:

Yep, masculine behavior is good!

Errr.... that's from a woman's point of view!

Straight men - generally - look for women that are feminine. Inamoto-san, I assume that you want a woman who looks like a woman and behaves like a woman. So it makes sense that she wants a man who looks like a man and behaves like a man. If you are not confident in yourself, she will never be confident about you either.
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[inamoto_yoi]

I never say a very powerfull word to any women except my mother. The word is " I Love You". I'm not like another guy always change girlfriend.I never have girlfriend. So, i don't soo much confident like you say ; Itazura ichiban.

[Itazura ichiban]

I don't think that we are suggesting "powerful words". It's not smart to walk up to a woman and say "I love you". I am not suggesting that you "always changing girlfriends" either. But don't be shy, that's all.

That's easy for me to say, huh? When we see an adorable person (whether we are men or women) our knees always turn into jello. I guess the secret is to not act like your are jello - or desperate for affection.
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[Tu_triky]

If the shoe hits...

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/34239264#34239264

[Wynter]

Tu_triky wrote:

If the shoe hits... http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/34239264#34239264

Wow, what a jerk.

And WOW, mass wedding?!
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[Eve]

Itazura ichiban wrote:

Errr.... that's from a woman's point of view! Straight men - generally - look for women that are feminine.

I have found generally that men go for beauty first in whatever form. Feminine, feline, sporty, spicey, demure, whatever..........
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[Tu_triky]

Wynter wrote:

Wow, what a jerk.

Totally fuggin' fool.

[Eve]

Tu_triky wrote:

Totally fuggin' fool.

That was bizarre. Especially the mass wedding part.
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[Tu_triky]

Eve wrote:

That was bizarre. Especially the mass wedding part.

Serious...but they beat his ass, which was cool and funny.

[Anime Dad]

Eve wrote:

I have found generally that men go for beauty first in whatever form. Feminine, feline, sporty, spicey, demure, whatever..........

Yep, whatever attracts them (us) the most, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc.

[sadacori]

Anime Dad wrote:

Yep, whatever attracts them (us) the most, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc.

So what happens when the beauty fades? Is that when the cheating starts?
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[bmwracer]

sadacori wrote:

So what happens when the beauty fades? Is that when the cheating starts?

Ask Tiger Woods.

[Anime Dad]

sadacori wrote:

So what happens when the beauty fades? Is that when the cheating starts?

That's not what I meant by my reply. I just meant that what one guy finds attractive physically, another may not.

What I believe is that a person's looks are usually what initially attracts the opposite sex - if you don't find them physically attractive you may not want to pursue a relationship. It's when you get to know a person that you find their inner beauty, their personality, and that's what is most important. To me, anyhow.

[Wynter]

Anime Dad wrote:

That's not what I meant by my reply. I just meant that what one guy finds attractive physically, another may not. What I believe is that a person's looks are usually what initially attracts the opposite sex - if you don't find them physically attractive you may not want to pursue a relationship. It's when you get to know a person that you find their inner beauty, their personality, and that's what is most important. To me, anyhow.

Yup! And herein lies my problem. I don't have the physical charm to attract boys initially.
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[Anime Dad]

Wynter wrote:

Yup! And herein lies my problem. I don't have the physical charm to attract boys initially.

There's quite a few here who would disagree with you

[bmwracer]

Wynter wrote:

I don't have the physical charm to attract boys initially.

But I thought you said you had some students and coworkers smitten?

[Wynter]

Anime Dad wrote:

There's quite a few here who would disagree with you

O stop. Really, just believe me.

bmwracer wrote:

But I thought you said you had some students and coworkers smitten?

I do. Contamination in the water.

But in all honesty (really!) I'm not much of a looker. People like me fine... as a friend. I'm always the friend. The female guys can go to to talk about - and ask advice about - the girls they want to date.

It's my lot in life.
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