Enna wrote:
Enna wrote:
Hi All,
I am half African-American and half Italian-American. I was born and raised and currently live in the USA in NY. I also have some Dutch in my family. My maternal Grandfather was half Dutch and raised in the Dutch West Indies. So that explains why I look like I came from India. Or some people come up to me and start speaking Spanish. And when people actually ask me..What are you?....I always say Black.... which is the truth. It is fun to watch their eyes flicker and see how long it takes their brains to register my answer. It isn't good to have preconceived notions of others race, or ethnic background or nationality. Whatever you are just be happy and be proud.
I found this poll a little confusing. It asked: "What is your ethnic background? It had a category of European/American.
I am American which is my nationality but that has nothing to do with my or any other American's ethnic background. Was this poll aiming at where people live? I clicked on "other" eventhough I am American.
I have enjoyed reading everyone's answers here. Wherever we are from we all love our Japanese doramas!!!
Keps wrote:
Enna -
Haha, this kind of stuff has happened to me too!
I've had people thinking I looked Indian, Spanish, white, black, mixed-race... :hehe:
So you describe yourself as black? I find it weird...I never know what's the correct way to describe myself. Cos I am half-white as well as half-black.
Hi Keps :wave:
Not as weird as you might think. Now-a-days mixed race is considered a perfectly honest direct acceptable answer. However I am from a generation when a person's race was still listed on their birth certificate. Also in the USA with our slave history it used to be be that if you had one drop of Black blood in you then you were considered Black. Also in our history there were some fair skinned Blacks trying to pass for White. So my racial pride in answering anyone who asks me, that I am Black or African American, comes from my upbringing and also from my country's history.
I can understand why you would not want to deny either of your parent's races, nationalities or cultures. I have a French friend who is also mixed race. His mother is White/French and his father was Black/American. So he says he is demi-demi. Or half & half. :) As long as you are comfortable in your own skin and feel good about yourself, other people will accept you, no matter how you choose to answer their questions. :say_cool: