Long and interesting thread! It feels a bit strange jumping in at this point since its obvious this thing has been going on for a while.
Anyway, thought I'd comment on Maya's observations:
To whom it may concern,
As a person of Japanese decent, I feel offended by the derogatory nature of the name of your web site. You should be aware that the word "Jap" is highly offensive and parallel to the "n word" for people of African descent or "gook" to those of Vietnamese and Korean descent. I am a fan of both Japanese drama and music, but your web site appalls me. This type of racism is absolutely unacceptable, especially for a website that advocates a large part of Japanese culture. I am incensed by this blatant and obviously ignorant use of such a strong and offensive word. Do you understand the implications of naming your web site this? The word "Jap" should never be used. It is derogatory and disrespectful, serving as a way for people, especially foreigners, to express their condescending views toward the Asian race.
Please take this into consideration.
Absolutely angered,
Maya
For clarification I am Japanese American from California, but have lived for extended periods of time in Osaka, Hawaii, and now Okinawa.
The term "J**" offends me and makes me cringe because I know and understand the derogatory and racist usage the term has in the United States. It is not so easy to just "not let a word bother you" when the historical use of the term has often been accompanied by violence in the country where I was born and raised. So I understand Maya's reaction.
The eye-opening part of this whole thread for me has been to take note of where the posters are from. It appears to me that in Singapore and Malaysia the term "J**" does not have the same derogatory meaning or connotation that it has in the United States, so to call Genma or the owners of this site "racist" is going too far, because within the context of their country and culture, the term doesn't share the same history it does in the US.
At the same time, because the world wide web is not bound by any single country specific region, to use a term that is hurtful and racist for some people can be construed as just that.
I don't know to what extent Maya was aware that she was addressing someone from a different country with her message, because from the content of her complaint she's pretty much expecting the site owners to have the same cultural knowledge she has. I wonder if she became more forgiving upon finding out this wasn't the case.
Anyway, thanks Genma (if you're the owner of this site) for being considerate enough to change the site name.
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