lazerus wrote:Like it or not, ignorance *is* an excuse.
It can be used as an excuse, but after all, it gets old REAL fast. A cop out excuse if you ask me...........
Especially now, since one knows (from reading the earlier posts) the meaning of the word, but yet still chooses to argue the fact that they were right.
lazerus wrote:We *ALL* need to try and understand each other. It can not be all one sided.
We aren't trying to lecture. Sorry if it comes off that way. But merely only trying to "educate" others who haven't the idea of the offense the word carries to some. So of course, opinions of the latter are welcome.
lazerus wrote:We are not born with this knowledge intact, it needs to be acquired! Many people seem to think of ignorance as a bad thing. We are all ignorant (of something) – thatfs life! No one knows everything, nor should they be expected to. Ignorance isnft a bad thing -- stupidity is. Once someone is told about something, they are no longer ignorant of it, and it can no longer be used as an excuse. If at that point they donft follow it, then they are being stupid, which generally is a bad thing.
You're right. We're not born with this type of knowledge. It has to be acquired. Ignorance isn't a bad thing. But to use it as a justification, rather than to admit you're wrong is. Think about it.
lazerus wrote:Although it has been stated several times, some people just canft seem to understand that J** was (and sometimes is) innocently used as a contraction for the word Japanese, by someone who obviously had (and/or has) only positive intents.
Which is why we have this thread and why some people from the board try to educate and correct others from the use of the term. Perhaps you haven't seen posts where our users have tried to correct others from the use of the term?
It's there.
lazerus wrote:it can not be compared to other slurs, because those slurs arenft innocent contractions.
Some people do get offended and take it the same way if you called them "black", just as they would with being called a "n****r". Weak example.
lazerus wrote:What is relevant is that the term does offend many people and as that is definitely not the intent, it definitively should not be used. The underlying cause of racism is really superficial condemnations, and it is not something that is restricted to race. The problem is that people jump to conclusions and act on them before finding out the details.
"Jap" WAS USED as a racial term once. Strictly restricted to race.
Who else would you call a JAP?! A Chinese? I think not..........
lazerus wrote:The solution is to find out these details (the persons character, the persons intent) before reacting. By condemning and/or assaulting someone who innocently shortens a word, just because some one *thought* they meant something else, or because someone *thought* they heard a different word, is just as bad, if not worse than what they are being accused of.
Which is why we are trying to "educate" rather than judge people about the (unknowingly) use of the term.
lazerus wrote:Unjust, negative treatment, based on superficiality is really no different than being racist. Superficial condemnations are superficial condemnations. And I was highly offended, saddened, and angered at how insensitive and abusive some people were (or said they would be) towards someone who could potentially be innocent and nice.
Again, I apologize if I or any other users came across as "harsh". Like I said, we are only trying to educate.
Please note that not all people were ignorant on the use of the term. Some just didn't give a flying f**k, whether it offened others or not anyway. Which, I guess may have "lit the fuse" for some.
So once again, I apologize for those who may have came across as "too harsh".
lazerus wrote:Now, for the record, I never heard of J** as being a slur until reading this. And now that I know about it, I would never use that term. At some time in the past, I might have typed J**. (with a period to abbreviate), and then again I might not have. I donft know, because before learning about it from this site, I never really had a reason to pay attention to it.
Good. Now you know. I'm not going to "attack" you on your "ignorance" of the term.
At least you aren't using it as an excuse to keep on using the term, or justifying your use of it.
lazerus wrote:I was surprised that no one mentioned being offended if the J in Japanese wasnft capitalized. (I am being serious. Donft take it the wrong way) I know people in England that get offended if the E in England isnft capitalized.
Haven't heard of such, but if I do, I'll be sure to make a sticky out of it. ;)
lazerus wrote:Please donft start another huge argument on this. I see your points. Letfs try and get along, with some patience and understanding.
No arguments here. As long as the person isn't using ignorance as a justification for their shortcomings.
lazerus wrote:Someone told me that if someone bumps into you in Japan, and you apologize, it is like admitting that you willfully intended on bumping into them, and they will sometimes yell at you, even if it was their fault for not watching where they were going. Is that true?
Japanese apologize that way because Japanese, as a whole are very humble people. They will admit they are wrong even when they are not (at most times, especially when they make the mistake but didn't intend to).
lazerus wrote:If so, does it apply to this topic?
No.
lazerus wrote:If someone was to use the term J**, thinking only of it as an innocent contraction of Japanese, and used in a positive manor, is apologizing for it taken as an admission that you willfully intended to offend them? In Japan, if you unknowingly do something that offends someone, what is the best course of action?
Apologize apologize apologize.
DO NOT try to justify or come up with excuses. Take it like a man! :)