What things bother you the most?

Wynter wrote:

So true! I always thought I'd like to get married, but after having a bad one, I'm not so sure anymore. I do want to have a child, tho. I just don't want the extra baggage.

Baggage = Man.

Anime Dad wrote:Hey, we're not all bad. The trick is finding the right one


And I hate to tell you this, but if you want a child, there needs to be a man involved somewhere along the line

Wynter I agree with Anime Dad, "One rotten apple don't spoil the whole bunch." Yeah if you want a child you will definitely need something from a man. :naughty:

Enna wrote:

Wynter I agree with Anime Dad, "One rotten apple don't spoil the whole bunch." Yeah if you want a child you will definitely need something from a man. :naughty:

LOL! I know I know. I don't think ALL men are bad. When I meant "baggage" I was referring to the fact that I want a child without the child's father around. Selfish, but that's how I feel right now.

If I'm meant to get married in the future, that's fine. I'm meant to never be married, that's fine. I'm just not looking at the moment. But yea, I DO wanna have a kid in the next five years, and I understand the science that goes into making one. I don't think that'll be a problem. ;)

Wynter wrote:

LOL! I know I know. I don't think ALL men are bad. When I meant "baggage" I was referring to the fact that I want a child without the child's father around. Selfish, but that's how I feel right now.

I dunno, for me personally, I would want to be around and help raise the child. (guess that eliminates me from the pool, Wyn-chan) I would want to be there when the child takes it's first step, starts to talk, etc. Of course that also means being around when the kid is driving you nuts! [/list:u]

gaijin mark wrote: I dunno, for me personally, I would want to be around and help raise the child.

Me too

(guess that eliminates me from the pool, Wyn-chan)

Don't count on that, mark-san :)

I would want to be there when the child takes it's first step, starts to talk, etc.

That's some of the best parts, definitely :)

Of course that also means being around when the kid is driving you nuts!

And that's some of the worst bits :P

Wynter wrote:

LOL! I know I know. I don't think ALL men are bad. When I meant "baggage" I was referring to the fact that I want a child without the child's father around. Selfish, but that's how I feel right now.

If I'm meant to get married in the future, that's fine. I'm meant to never be married, that's fine. I'm just not looking at the moment. But yea, I DO wanna have a kid in the next five years, and I understand the science that goes into making one. I don't think that'll be a problem. ;)

Getting involved with a man to have a child is a mistake I feel. Being a happy single parent is much better than being with someone you arent truly in love with, who does a poor job raising a child. Having had both a selfish, mean father and ex-husband I can attest to this fact.
However, I didnt lose hope. I now believe not all men are pigs. ;)
I now have a BF I refer to as my Guardian Angel. Life really begins after the first husband leaves the house!!
So go for it, Wynter!! IF a child is really loved consistently that is more than most get. Im sure you'll do a great job raising it. Man or no man. My cousin did.

Damaged HD partition tables.

Eve wrote:

Getting involved with a man to have a child is a mistake I feel. Being a happy single parent is much better than being with someone you arent truly in love with, who does a poor job raising a child.

Yesh exactly. I would never get into a relationship for the soul purpose of having a child. I was thinking more donor clinic, because like Musa and Otosan pointed out, there are so many guys out there who WOULD want to father the child. If I could find one of those men who would love me for me, than that would be perfect. I would never ask a guy to help me have a kid and then keep the kind from him if he was willing to father it. >>chains Musa to her<<

Having had both a selfish, mean father and ex-husband I can attest to this fact.

:hug:

However, I didnt lose hope. I now believe not all men are pigs. ;)
I now have a BF I refer to as my Guardian Angel. Life really begins after the first husband leaves the house!!

Amen! I'm really glad you've healed and found someone so special. You rock.

So go for it, Wynter!! IF a child is really loved consistently that is more than most get. Im sure you'll do a great job raising it. Man or no man. My cousin did.

All in good time. :victory:

On Topic: Selfish stupid lazy teachers. Three of my previous students came to me in near tears because their teacher was being incredubly unreasonable. And LYING to them so that she wouldn't have to do anything. I went ahead and told her off. :grumble: I hate it when teachers forget why we're in this job.

Wynter wrote:

On Topic: Selfish stupid lazy teachers.

My japanese teacher is like that I sometimes I just feel like forgetting about all my plans to live ther because she doesn't teach us at all and I don't know what we are doing half the time because we have to do the work ourselves but she does help us rarely and I just wanna drop that class... (I am the queen of run on sentences! :bonk: ) I wish you were here to tell my teacher off. :beaten:

TandemPonyRide wrote:

My japanese teacher is like that I sometimes I just feel like forgetting about all my plans to live ther because she doesn't teach us at all and I don't know what we are doing half the time because we have to do the work ourselves but she does help us rarely and I just wanna drop that class... (I am the queen of run on sentences! :bonk: ) I wish you were here to tell my teacher off. :beaten:

Send her over. :angeldevil:

Wynter wrote:

On Topic: Selfish stupid lazy teachers. Three of my previous students came to me in near tears because their teacher was being incredubly unreasonable. And LYING to them so that she wouldn't have to do anything. I went ahead and told her off. :grumble: I hate it when teachers forget why we're in this job.

Careful Wyn-chan, she might pull an end around to your favorite VP. :sweat: Sounds like she's into teaching just so she can get a retirement check someday :beatyou: [/list:u]

Two days ago: "Error Loading OS" :grumble:

They completely reorganized the sections at Kinokuniya SJ. I was so confused as I had to figure out where they placed things.

gaijin mark wrote: Careful Wyn-chan, she might pull an end around to your favorite VP. :sweat: Sounds like she's into teaching just so she can get a retirement check someday :beatyou: [/list:u]

I know. I realized that AFTER I yelled at her. Still... I live in no fear. :sweat:

On Topic: Waking up an hour too late and nearly being late for work. :grumble:

Wynter wrote:

I know. I realized that AFTER I yelled at her. Still... I live in no fear. :sweat:

Ganbarre yo Sensei!!! :victory: [/list:u] But remember this quote "Age and treachery will defeat youth and enthusiasm everytime" -Paul Newman (yes, THAT Paul Newman, the actor)[/list:u]

1. Waking up extremely late at 12:34 PM and realizing all my clean clothes are still in the washing machine.

2. Spending a whole day with clothes you're not sure fits together, because you picked up old junk in the closet. :ashamed:

having a nice headache and having to work through the night with it :beaten: :shamefulcry:

K.T.Tran wrote:having a nice headache and having to work through the night with it :beaten: :shamefulcry:

Feel better, KT!
Im still sick too. Have had a fever now for 5 days!! :bleh:
Sent my BF off to ride with friends this afternoon so I could take it easy. :puppydog:

Coffee and fresh air cure most of my headaches.

Everybody is sick. I've even seen a 5$ mail in rebates for cough syrup with the Ice Age 2 DVD. :sweat:

bmwracer wrote:Right now, Wynter's fascist parents.

:patpat: :puppydog: I HAVE figured out a way out tho. All I have to do is marry a man and I've got my ticket out. God forbid a 25 year old girl live alone in the subs. Who knows what danger is out there waiting to corrupt her.

Wynter wrote:

:patpat: :puppydog: I HAVE figured out a way out tho. All I have to do is marry a man and I've got my ticket out. God forbid a 25 year old girl live alone in the subs. Who knows what danger is out there waiting to corrupt her.

sounds like a bollywood drama.....