What things bother you the most?

K.T.Tran wrote:Still can't believe that someone who is half Japanese would say they themselves are half Jap :shakehead: :shakehead:

I can, if they're idiots. :shakehead:

K.T.Tran wrote:over heard two folks at my school yesterday.

They said "I'm half Jap and half...." whatever it was their other half is.


Still can't believe that someone who is half Japanese would say they themselves are half Jap :shakehead: :shakehead:

same reason african-americans call themselves "n****"

christmas shoppers! they're a pain in the a***! you can't park anywhere, you can't walk where you want to go! aaargh! :shakehead:

that's why i'm doing mine online. :mrgreen:

kenjilina wrote:christmas shoppers! they're a pain in the a***! you can't park anywhere, you can't walk where you want to go! aaargh! :shakehead:

that's why i'm doing mine online. :mrgreen:

Haha...I don't celebrate Christmas, so there is no need to buy presents..^-^ the best solution...

Computer hang ups :argh:

Saito_Hajime wrote:Computer hang ups :argh:

There there :patpat:

At this moment, Sisters.

krim wrote:

same reason african-americans call themselves "n****"

uh huh, i really dont like when African-Americans call themselves that word, i share heritiage with them, and it is so sad for me to hear this, no African-Amercian is an N***** , they are just citizens struggling to make it in this Stereotypical Country called United States! :puppydog:

akane_MYV wrote:

Hehe, yeah then...where is your home country?

The Carribean & China! :victory:

K.T.Tran wrote:over heard two folks at my school yesterday.

They said "I'm half Jap and half...." whatever it was their other half is.


Still can't believe that someone who is half Japanese would say they themselves are half Jap :shakehead: :shakehead:

People who say this stuff like this do not know any better saying i am half Jap is just disrespectful to the Japanese u know?, if they do they would respect their culture more, and dont say things like this... i wonder what is their other half.... :headscratch:

When my Athazagoraphobia starts up and I get all depressed...

Raining JHan wrote:

People who say this stuff like this do not know any better saying i am half Jap is just disrespectful to the Japanese u know?, if they do they would respect their culture more, and dont say things like this... i wonder what is their other half.... :headscratch:

This is how I look at it: if they aren't bothered by it, why would you make a point of it? I especially hate it when non-japanese get all worked up about the word "jap".

You won't find any japanese getting upset, when a black guy is being called a n***a. or an asian being called gook.

Terryb wrote:This is how I look at it: if they aren't bothered by it, why would you make a point of it? I especially hate it when non-japanese get all worked up about the word "jap".

See this discussion thread: http://jdorama.com/viewtopic.22.htm

You won't find any japanese getting upset, when a black guy is being called a n***a. or an asian being called gook.

That's a rash generalization.

Maybe some won't be offended, but others will be... So do you just ignore those who are offended?

That's wrong.

Raining JHan wrote:

People who say this stuff like this do not know any better saying i am half Jap is just disrespectful to the Japanese u know?, if they do they would respect their culture more, and dont say things like this... i wonder what is their other half.... :headscratch:

One of them was half Japanese half Korean.
The other one, i don't remember

Terryb wrote:

This is how I look at it: if they aren't bothered by it, why would you make a point of it? I especially hate it when non-japanese get all worked up about the word "jap".

You won't find any japanese getting upset, when a black guy is being called a n***a. or an asian being called gook.

I know this, but African-Americans do get offended when u say N word, but they will not tell u this, it has gone on for years, it just get more sadder and sadder, why do u think alot of African-Americans are so angry and they act how they do, they have gotten so lost over the years they are losing there own identity. so u cannot say we will not get upset, becaus we will. i myself have been called alot of bad names growing up, and i could not defend myself, but i am proud to be Carribean & Chinese because this is who i am and i love it, so i hate it when other Minorites of Asian American or African American decent are put down, it hurts so bad, so please dont say we dont get hurt, or just blow it off, because it stick with us forever! :shakehead:

People how make general comments due to their own ignorance.

Ah, don't get me wrong, I don't go around using racial slur or something. But my point is if they don't mind themselves, why worry about it on behalf of them? Just let them be.

Especially when it's something personal.

Terryb wrote:Ah, don't get me wrong, I don't go around using racial slur or something. But my point is if they don't mind themselves, why worry about it on behalf of them? Just let them be.

Especially when it's something personal.

But the point is, it doesn't bother SOME. I'm sure it bothers many others. So to say that "they" don't mind, is a huge generalization.

And, to take it a step further, you're actually discriminating against a group of people based on a few individuals.

I know you mean well, but sometimes you need to reevaluate what you say so that you DON'T offend peeps, ya know? :victory:

Wynter wrote:

So to say that "they" don't mind, is a huge generalization.

er..I think you guys are misunderstanding me, with "they", I meant the ones who don't care, they. Leave them be? Especially when they are Japanese themselves and we are not, what gives us the right to judge?

either way enough of this, let's talk about something else:

is that lipstick yours? :hehe: :hehe:

Terryb wrote:

er..I think you guys are misunderstanding me, with "they", I meant the ones who don't care, they. Leave them be? Especially when they are Japanese themselves and we are not, what gives us the right to judge?

either way enough of this, let's talk about something else:

is that lipstick yours? :hehe: :hehe:

That's a secret. :P :muack:

Wynter wrote:


That's a secret. :P :muack:

naisho = secret

himitsu = secret