I understand what has been discussed in Malay thread so I believe you that there was not any insulting or promoting hatred against non-Malays since you guys/girls mainly discussing about j-ent.
And...
This matter is currently being resolved amicably so until the final decision is out I think we should just remain calm and perhaps it would be better if we don't discuss about it again here. I don't want this thread turn into another flaming thread thus resulted being locked.
I think this goes to everyone (including myself of course) wouldn't it best to stop this for now in this thread too? Onegaishimasu.
Thanks Akakage-san for being understanding.
Unfortunately, my feelings about this has already been made up. I don't think I'll ever post in the "Hello All Malaysian" again even if the thread gets unlocked. I'd feel like I'm being watched by the secret police or something...just waiting to pounce if I accidentally mistyped something. I love that thread with all my heart, I learned a lot there...and now the feeling's just not there anymore. Some people have totally ruined it for me.
Let me tell you guys a story about a friend of mine...she learned japanese characters on her own so that she can participate in a Japanese speaking thread. O well, I guess for some people, learning other languages is an impossibility.
However, I'm glad this chaotic episode happened. It teaches me a lot about friendship, prejudice, idiocy, etc. Thanks everyone.
Deragoth wrote:bmwracer, can I ask why do you insist on being part of a thread that is dedicated to Malay speaking people. I am not a native speaker nor do I actually post in that thread but it seems to me you are making a mountain out of a molehill. So a single thread in Jdorama is used to speak Malay. It not as if insulting or promoting hatred against non-Malays.
I was curious about the thread and wanted to find out what was being discussed, that's all.
I didn't know that it was in another language, so my question was why is it in another language... Why the exclusivity of it all?
As for the participation issue, it would seem rather unfair if a whole community had to bend to the wishes of one or a few individuals.
One of my points is that the whole community is Jdorama and it speaks English.
It not like that thread is absolutely essential for your well being
when my coworkers open my database and try to make changes while i have saves pending, thus crashing my end and cause loss of about an hour of work.
:beatyou: :beatyou: :beatyou:
i hope you guys would put this past behind us and not leave totally and make it a memory.. better yet just forget it and call it taboo..
anyhoo, one thing that bothers me the most right now that people who are flakes and users! im just too nice or stupid? DONT ANSWER THAT IF U HATE ME.. when you think you're not gonna hang around with people like them, yet you meet peeps like that and u dont realize that theyre doing to you. argh.. just a week ago, i ditched a friend and gave her a closure cuz i got fed up treating me like shit.
the things that bothers me...stooopid pms wrecking havoc with my nerves, unabling me to get a grip on my emotions. Its hard to be a lady.
cghu007 wrote:
Thanks Akakage-san for being understanding.
Unfortunately, my feelings about this has already been made up. I don't think I'll ever post in the "Hello All Malaysian" again even if the thread gets unlocked. I'd feel like I'm being watched by the secret police or something...just waiting to pounce if I accidentally mistyped something. I love that thread with all my heart, I learned a lot there...and now the feeling's just not there anymore. Some people have totally ruined it for me.
Let me tell you guys a story about a friend of mine...she learned japanese characters on her own so that she can participate in a Japanese speaking thread. O well, I guess for some people, learning other languages is an impossibility.
However, I'm glad this chaotic episode happened. It teaches me a lot about friendship, prejudice, idiocy, etc. Thanks everyone.
Gawd Ami! you made me cry! i'm in the office for god's sake!
People who asked for my help on a problem and then, after I spent a bit of my precious time agonizing over it, rudely discard my solution and being so righteous about their action too.
seems like a lot right now, annoying people, getting brush aside and given the cold shoulder, rude f*cking people, getting lectured, bullshit that people have to put up with in life, ok, got that off my chest, ..... :hehe:
SubaruWRX wrote:sorry I can't but I gotta say it... Alot of Maylay's are posting more around the fourm now.
You spell Malay wrongly.
So what if they post here? It's their right too. You may create another misunderstanding here with that post. Perhaps you might saying that in general but don't you know the effect to it? Unless you have a better explanation? Plus apologizing should be good too.
@cghu007 ..Jeez, I know how you feel. It's like wasting your energy and you did not get any appreciation.