What things bother you the most?

Wynter wrote:People who don't come out and just say their true feelings. I hate mind games.

Perhaps it's a bit hard for them? You probably wouldn't understand if you were the other side though. :mrgreen:

Lifo wrote:Perhaps it's a bit hard for them? You probably wouldn't understand if you were the other side though. :mrgreen:

Good point.

Wynter wrote:People who don't come out and just say their true feelings. I hate mind games.

If this is in regards to a romantic relationship, maybe the other person is afraid of sharing his feelings because he fears rejection or another negative reaction.

suzzy wrote: agree agree agree its such a pain :shakehead:


how about when u are doing and someone who has no clue on what ur doing is telling u how to do it
moron :banghead:

Yes, that is TOTALLY annoying, as well!

Lifo wrote:

Perhaps it's a bit hard for them? You probably wouldn't understand if you were the other side though. :mrgreen:

I can understand that it depends on the situation. But if I'm mad at someone, with a just cause, I let them know how I'm feeling so that there isn't a misunderstanding, instead of stewing and making up shit in their own heads to justify the anger.

sadacori wrote:

If this is in regards to a romantic relationship, maybe the other person is afraid of sharing his feelings because he fears rejection or another negative reaction.

Awwwww. But no, this is never the case where I'm concerned.

Wynter wrote:I can understand that it depends on the situation. But if I'm mad at someone, with a just cause, I let them know how I'm feeling so that there isn't a misunderstanding, instead of stewing and making up shit in their own heads to justify the anger.

Damn Sensei, I don't think I've ever seen you use the "S" word before. :glomp: Why not go to your blog and vent? That's what blogs are for. [/list:u]

gaijinmark wrote: Damn Sensei, I don't think I've ever seen you use the "S" word before. :glomp: Why not go to your blog and vent? That's what blogs are for. [/list:u]

I'm gonna send you a PM about my blog, because I think I'm going to discontinue it.

I don't usually swear or use improper language unless I'm really mad, or really orgasmic. ;)

On Topic: Counting down to Christmas. When will it come?!

Wynter wrote:I'm gonna send you a PM about my blog, because I think I'm going to discontinue it.

How come?

I pulled the plug on mine, since the novelty wore out... At least with Facebook, I can talk to my niece and nephews. :victory:

bmwracer wrote:
How come?

I pulled the plug on mine, since the novelty wore out... At least with Facebook, I can talk to my niece and nephews. :victory:

I think it's the same deal as with you. The novelty wore out. Also, I'm not sure I like revealing so many details. If I keep my blog, it will most likely become a travelogue... tho I have my site for that. I dunno.

Musa always religiously read and replied, so if I ever need an ear or a place to vent, why not just rant to him? Or here? Ya know?

Besides, I don't need another reason for people to judge me. :)

Wynter wrote:I think it's the same deal as with you. The novelty wore out. Also, I'm not sure I like revealing so many details. If I keep my blog, it will most likely become a travelogue... tho I have my site for that. I dunno.

Musa always religiously read and replied, so if I ever need an ear or a place to vent, why not just rant to him? Or here? Ya know?

Besides, I don't need another reason for people to judge me. :)

I've found that the blog venting only goes so far from a satisfaction standpoint...

I think I've gotten better at just dealing with things rather than venting on a blog and waiting (hoping) for a response from someone. :sweat:

Wynter wrote:
I don't usually swear or use improper language unless I'm really mad, or really orgasmic. ;)

So, you start in with the dirty talk, eh, , ,http://jp.youtube.com/watch?v=8LafoDMH6Tw[/list:u]

fangirls that are waaaaay too proud of their idol, too much boasting it's getting over-exaggerating.. :bleh:
i even don't like it when they try to defend that certain idol then somewhat makes a backlash on the others being compared with.. :grumble:

meoinkie2 wrote:fangirls that are waaaaay too proud of their idol, too much boasting it's getting over-exaggerating.. :bleh:
i even don't like it when they try to defend that certain idol then somewhat makes a backlash on the others being compared with.. :grumble:

Fanboys, too.

Wynter wrote:

I think it's the same deal as with you. The novelty wore out. Also, I'm not sure I like revealing so many details. If I keep my blog, it will most likely become a travelogue... tho I have my site for that. I dunno.

If I reveal personal stuff on my blog, I usually make it a "friends only" entry or I select which people on my friends list I trust enough to read certain things. I don't know if you're able to do that with your blog though.

On topic: I forgot to buy some Christmas gifts and now I gotta find out if the mall's open. If it is, I hope it ain't crowded. I gotta stop this procrastination crap. :banghead:

sadacori wrote:
On topic: I forgot to buy some Christmas gifts and now I gotta find out if the mall's open. If it is, I hope it ain't crowded. I gotta stop this procrastination crap. :banghead:

If it's anything like my work today, you'll probably be able to tie the mall to the back of your car, drag it home, unload everything, take the mall back and no will ever notice. [/list:u]

gaijinmark wrote: If it's anything like my work today, you'll probably be able to tie the mall to the back of your car, drag it home, unload everything, take the mall back and no will ever notice. [/list:u]

So no people, eh? Ooh, sounds like a good thing. I hope that the post office tomorrow will be similar since I STILL need to send out stuff to people. I swear, I'm getting worse and worse with the procrastination stuff. :sweat:

bmwracer wrote:
I've found that the blog venting only goes so far from a satisfaction standpoint...

I think I've gotten better at just dealing with things rather than venting on a blog and waiting (hoping) for a response from someone. :sweat:

Yes exactly. There are only three (kit-kun would have been the fourth) that actually gave helpful feedback: Musa, Enna, and A-Oyaji.

If I need support, I could just discuss things with them personally.

gaijinmark wrote: So, you start in with the dirty talk, eh, , ,http://jp.youtube.com/watch?v=8LafoDMH6Tw[/list:u]

:rofl: How appropriate.

But no. I don't talk much. ;)

sadacori wrote:
I swear, I'm getting worse and worse with the procrastination stuff. :sweat:

Everyone has something they are good at :)

Today (Boxing Day) is traditionally bedlam at the shops, so i'm avoiding them like the plague. I heard some shops in Sydney were opening at 5AM this morning :sweat:

Anime Dad wrote:

Everyone has something they are good at :)

Today (Boxing Day) is traditionally bedlam at the shops, so i'm avoiding them like the plague. I heard some shops in Sydney were opening at 5AM this morning :sweat:

lol uhhh. don't read my post in Got Something thread. :beaten:

Wynter wrote:

lol uhhh. don't read my post in Got Something thread. :beaten:

Don't you hate shopping?? :headscratch:

Anime Dad wrote:

Don't you hate shopping?? :headscratch:

YESH!

But it's tradition. Me, Mum, and my Aunt. We go every year. I'm the Christmas junky who always deco's the house, so I usually stock up on Boxing day.

Once a year, Oyaji. Once a year.