If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was meant to be.
If she never had those feelings for you, then you were wasting your time dreaming when you could be cornering a honey who actually cared for you.
Sorry to be harsh, but you'll get over her. You are always right to love, and not to hold back. But that never means that she owes you anything. When mutual love arrives, it's a beautiful miracle. I believe that it is on it's way to you as well!
Very easy to told someone like that but for me it to hard to do it. My Chinese froend want to help me to get her heart but i'm not sure i will get her because she already say " You are just my friend " . can i get her heart back with my Chinese friends help ? Should i give up of her ?
Don't pursue this love for this lady. She has made it clear that she only feels friendship. Believe me that this is how she feels.
You will always remember your own love for her because it was a deep emotion. However, you must realise that LIFE GOES ON. You can't stand still. Time will soften this event and some day, after you have found someone who loves you very much, you will be content to look back and see that you were blessed with having such a deep capacity for true emotion.
inamoto_yoi wrote:Very easy to told someone like that but for me it to hard to do it. My Chinese froend want to help me to get her heart but i'm not sure i will get her because she already say " You are just my friend " . can i get her heart back with my Chinese friends help ? Should i give up of her ?
I did not realize this was the same girl who just wanted to be friends.
I am sorry. If people just want to be friends then that is that.
:patpat: It is time to give up and try to remain friends.....
inamoto_yoi wrote:Very easy to told someone like that but for me it to hard to do it. My Chinese froend want to help me to get her heart but i'm not sure i will get her because she already say " You are just my friend " . can i get her heart back with my Chinese friends help ? Should i give up of her ?
No, it's not easy. I still get my heart broken regularly. Biut I get up, dust myself off, and shout Gambatte! - and I charge forward like a love samurai.
Very easy to all of you say like that . This is my first love and before this i never meet girls like her . i try to forget her but until now i can't forget her . How i can forget her ? No have girl so close with me before this and i think like have something left in my head . Maybe I too much but i will try back at the end of this year to make a second time with help from her best friend and after that if she still not accept me , let God do what he want .
inamoto_yoi wrote:Very easy to all of you say like that . This is my first love and before this i never meet girls like her . i try to forget her but until now i can't forget her . How i can forget her ? No have girl so close with me before this and i think like have something left in my head . Maybe I too much but i will try back at the end of this year to make a second time with help from her best friend and after that if she still not accept me , let God do what he want .
Sorry, pal. We have ALL been there. Think of it as a chance to learn and grow. :mecry:
I will do it again . Maybe you will think that i'm crazy but I must do that . Sorry , I can't forget her . I will stop if she married with someone or maybe i will find another girl or i will stop it if i die . SORRY.
You have to know when to stop. I had about four or five proposals in my young days. I refused them all. Nice guys but not for me. They all went on to other relationships and none of them thought of taking a long walk on a short pier from broken hearts. As far as I know they all got married later, as did I when I met my own true love.
Like i say before this " let God do what he want after this " . I will try again at the end of this year , if she say same thing. Maybe i will stop . SORRY.
Since i child , no women so close with me and all people hate me and don't want talk with me . She only one close with me . All of you say understand my feeling but just God and me know how is my feeling . Have so many beautiful women in this world but she is only one. All people around me not help me when I in trouble , she will help me and give me support and she know what time i will cry and what time i will happy . She only one in this world . I not like another guy who so hansome and good looking . YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND MY FEELING SINCE I WAS BORN . You don't know about my life .
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I found these suggestions from Jennifer Hoffman. Seems like good advice, especially if you are alone on Valentine's Day.
Make a list of the qualities you want the person to have and include everything that is important to you. Refer to the list often as you are changing your mindset and you need to remind yourself of the transformation you are making.
Now make a list of the wonderful things you bring to this relationship, including all of your special gifts that your partner will appreciate in you. Be sure to keep your lists positive because any negative comments reflect your fears and you will attract them to you.
Remember that your partner is seeking you as much as you are seeking them, they want a relationship with a special someone and that person is you. Stay focused on what you want, be open to receiving and use your co-creative powers to manifest the relationship of your dreams.
Make today special, even if you are not going to receive flowers or candy or do not have a special someone in your life. Do something nice for yourself, give yourself a gift or call someone you love who is alone and let them know how much you appreciate them. This is a day for love, which is more than romance. So send love to yourself, to those you love, to the earth and all of humanity.
Happy Valentine's Day and I send you my best wishes that you find the love that lights your heart and brings you joy.
Hello Everyone.
According to me Love mean Faith on each other and good understanding with each other. If we are in true love with someone then we just think that he/she must be happy in any situation and we just think how can we help and support to him/her in bad situation. so that's correct definition of love.
What do you think about love? or what is your definition about it?
Trust is key. Start with that. Let me think about my current amour.
Chemistry. I didn't know what people meant by this, until I met her last month. We are like positive and negative electrical forces. I am excited just to hear her voice. She gives me energy and I offer her a grounding force.
Acceptance. I accept her just the way she is, and I do not need her to change to make me happy. If she changes, I know that it is just ger outside features that change, and the inner spirit that I adore will live forever.
Complementary. She is on the opposite side of the zodiac chart from me. It sounds like a cliche, but we do complete each other.
Shared experiences. She is a widow; I am a widower. We don't feel that anyone else understands what we have experienced.
She has beautiful, dancing eyes, a smile like a pirate, and a sexy voice.
I'm hooked. :smitten: