Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

kitakaze wrote:

Well...I can't speak for other guys, but usually the "butt jiggle factor" will make my pants a few sizes smaller. So the looser the jammies, the better along with regular panties instead of commando or thong. Unless you want the jiggle factor, lol. Oh, and I'm speaking of jiggle as being good, not bad.

Okies so wait. If this was a scenario, and you had a female friend you had to share a room with, and you weren't initially attracted to her, this would change if you saw her butt in jammies? (obviously yer a butt guy ;))

Hmm. I'm a butt girl too, but I don't think seeing a guy I'm not initially attracted to in tight jammies in the same bedroom as me would change my attraction to him.

Wynter wrote:

Okies so wait. If this was a scenario, and you had a female friend you had to share a room with, and you weren't initially attracted to her, this would change if you saw her butt in jammies? (obviously yer a butt guy ;))

Hmm. I'm a butt girl too, but I don't think seeing a guy I'm not initially attracted to in tight jammies in the same bedroom as me would change my attraction to him.

Yeah...it probably would change, lol. ;). Or at least I'd be sneaking peeks. :hehe: I'm harmless though...I might make a few flirty comments if she's a friend, but I probably wouldn't say much else unless I knew she was interested in me. Hopefully any guy you shared a room with travelling would be a gentleman.

kitakaze wrote:Hopefully any guy you shared a room with travelling would be a gentleman.

If not, he'd get up close and personal with Wyn-chan's knee.

bmwracer wrote:
If not, he'd get up close and personal with Wyn-chan's knee.

He'd get a few fists to the face from me too.

kitakaze wrote:

Yeah...it probably would change, lol. ;). Or at least I'd be sneaking peeks. :hehe: I'm harmless though...I might make a few flirty comments if she's a friend, but I probably wouldn't say much else unless I knew she was interested in me. Hopefully any guy you shared a room with travelling would be a gentleman.

That's good to know. :glomp:

Cori needs to post here with another female's perspective. I think I can understand it from a guy's point of view. I mean, after all, I think they're more prone to give in to that lusty feeling one gets.

bmwracer wrote:
If not, he'd get up close and personal with Wyn-chan's knee.

And a hearty dose of pepper spray in the eyes.

kitakaze wrote:

He'd get a few fists to the face from me too.

:glomp: :muack:

In China I'll be rooming with the other girl, so no worries. Both guys said they wouldn't feel comfortable sharing the room with a girl. :)

That's good, so they are gentlemen :).

kitakaze wrote:That's good, so they are gentlemen :).

Until they see some booty.

kitakaze wrote:That's good, so they are gentlemen :).

I'd like to think so. They're both teachers. :hehe:

Ugh, tho there is a male teacher at my school who's dated female stduents before. :bleh:

Wynter wrote:Ugh, tho there is a male teacher at my school who's dated female stduents before. :bleh:

How can they allow that? :shocked:

bmwracer wrote:
How can they allow that? :shocked:

The students never complained/confessed/admit it.

Edit: and I believe the one had parent consent.

Wynter wrote:The students never complained/confessed/admit it.

Whoa.

That's paper-thin ice there. :sweat: :sweat: :sweat:

bmwracer wrote:
Whoa.

That's paper-thin ice there. :sweat: :sweat: :sweat:

I know. He's totally creepy. I mean, he's a young guy. In his 30s, but ugh. I always gives me that slimey feeling when he talks to me.

Wynter wrote:

I know. He's totally creepy. I mean, he's a young guy. In his 30s, but ugh. I always gives me that slimey feeling when he talks to me.

That's...nasty. I hate creepy guys. They give us semi-creepy guys a bad name.

Seriously...that seems kind of weird though to have a teacher date a student when it's not college

kitakaze wrote:Seriously...that seems kind of weird though to have a teacher date a student when it's not college

Even in college, it's weird.

And unethical.

bmwracer wrote:
Even in college, it's weird.

And unethical.

Agreed.

I don't think he's dating any one right now, but still. And it bugs me, because I get in trouble for wearing a low-cut shirt, and yet he doesn't even get a raised brow. :shakehead:

Wynter wrote:I don't think he's dating any one right now, but still. And it bugs me, because I get in trouble for wearing a low-cut shirt, and yet he doesn't even get a raised brow. :shakehead:

Why would he wear a low-cut shirt in the first place? :beaten:


Seriously, that sounds like gender bias. :shakehead:

Wynter wrote:Cori needs to post here with another female's perspective. I think I can understand it from a guy's point of view. I mean, after all, I think they're more prone to give in to that lusty feeling one gets.

Are you referring to that sharing a room with a guy thing? I'll just answer it anyway. :mrgreen:

For myself, I think that there is a chance that there could be sexual tension especially if I were attracted to the guy in the first place. However, I don't think that seeing the guy in just boxers would do it for me. I'd probably look, but wouldn't feel tempted unless I were horny (sorry for the tmi). :ashamed:

Now if I weren't attracted to the guy, it wouldn't change even if I did get a better look at his assets. The only way I would get attracted to someone like that is if his personality won me over. I don't care if he had the best body in the world. I find myself choosing personality over that.

bmwracer wrote:
Why would he wear a low-cut shirt in the first place? :beaten:


Seriously, that sounds like gender bias. :shakehead:

He's also a really good looking guy, and our VPs are all females. :shakehead:

cori wrote:

Are you referring to that sharing a room with a guy thing? I'll just answer it anyway. :mrgreen:

For myself, I think that there is a chance that there could be sexual tension especially if I were attracted to the guy in the first place. However, I don't think that seeing the guy in just boxers would do it for me. I'd probably look, but wouldn't feel tempted unless I were horny (sorry for the tmi). :ashamed:

Now if I weren't attracted to the guy, it wouldn't change even if I did get a better look at his assets. The only way I would get attracted to someone like that is if his personality won me over. I don't care if he had the best body in the world. I find myself choosing personality over that.

Okies good, we're on the same page. I thought I was just weird lol Glad to see another female think this way. :victory:

Wynter wrote:

Okies good, we're on the same page. I thought I was just weird lol Glad to see another female think this way. :victory:

Me too....

*jumps down to do a few hundred sit ups*

Gotta stop drinking beer. Too man carbs.

MissMonika wrote: I'm probably a boring person. I love to stay at home and am normally very quiet and introverted.

Yeah, right MM. I been to your blog. There's this picture of these 3 gorgeous young women "sampling" some margaritas. "boring", "quiet", and "introverted" are not the words that come to mind when I look at that picture. :drink: [/list:u]