Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

shotgun_divorce wrote:I say marry them both and turn it into a reality show. I'd watch.

not another reality based show!!! ;)

ITS OVER-ALL OVER, I went to see one of my teachers which I thought I can trust. In fact, she went to tell he school officer. I cannot attend her class anyone..TEACHER STAFFES think I m a DAMN Stalker. Now even the officer wants to investigate me..well its a conversation only..

ITS OVER, I see...no one understand how i feel well...

this is what we have to be careful about, u guys (im not naming them but u know who u are) were so sure that all girls think alike, WRONG! there are some women who wouldnt feel comfortable having relationships with a student..

Fans91 wrote:no one understand how i feel well...

im sorry that it turned out like that...since it didnt work out for the both of u, why not just find someone your own age or around that level

Fans91 wrote:ITS OVER-ALL OVER, I went to see one of my teachers which I thought I can trust. In fact, she went to tell he school officer. I cannot attend her class anyone..TEACHER STAFFES think I m a DAMN Stalker. Now even the officer wants to investigate me..well its a conversation only..

Look at it this way. Now that it's over you can focus your attention on becoming a skilled bank robber like I suggested earlier. You'll be rich in no time, or possibly dead. Either way it'll be a fun learning experience.

Fans91 wrote:ITS OVER, I see...no one understand how i feel well...

Of course people understand. Society doesn't view it as an acceptable relationship, that's all.

wow. just wow.

Well, Fans91, now why in the world would you go and consult a teacher about such a matter as this? No matter how much you think you can trust a teacher, it is their job, no, it is their DUTY to report matters such as this.

Ah well, it's probably all for the best now. You still have your whole life in front of you, so don't get so hung up about it.

nagaioyasumi wrote:Well, Fans91, now why in the world would you go and consult a teacher about such a matter as this? No matter how much you think you can trust a teacher, it is their job, no, it is their DUTY to report matters such as this.

But if this were a porno, the result would no doubt have been a gang bang.

shotgun_divorce wrote:
But if this were a porno, the result would no doubt have been a gang bang.

Perhaps. :rolleyes: But is it not.

nagaioyasumi wrote:Perhaps. :rolleyes: But is it not.

And it will never become one with that attitude.

Well. I m not satisfied people at school are not listening to what I have to say..I went to the officer to explain they say tommorow we will discuss it...
and tell me its not serious... we are only concern about you. Its more like they are concern of maintaing your job then your students...anyways I still cannot get rid of my feelings for her...i m positive of myself that I will n'not do something irrational...why are they so damn paronoid? Well I need to talk my way out of it before so I can still attend my tutoring at the least...anyone give me some logical advises that will convince them that they have the wrong idea :sweat:

shotgun_divorce wrote:
And it will never become one with that attitude.

Hmm... why must all your answers be so cryptic ne?! :crazy:

Fans91 wrote:Well. I m not satisfied people at school are not listening to what I have to say..I went to the officer to explain they say tommorow we will discuss it...
and tell me its not serious... we are only concern about you. Its more like they are concern of maintaing your job then your students...anyways I still cannot get rid of my feelings for her...i m positive of myself that I will n'not do something irrational...why are they so damn paronoid? Well I need to talk my way out of it before so I can still attend my tutoring at the least...anyone give me some logical advises that will convince them that they have the wrong idea :sweat:

The officers are very busy you know, don't accuse them of blowing you off just yet, see what tomorrow's talk comes to first. Dude, you've made your life oh-so-complicated. Don't know how I can help you straighten things out, but the thing you do NOT want to do tomorrow is declare your un-dying love for her.

nagaioyasumi wrote:Don't know how I can help you straighten things out, but the thing you do NOT want to do tomorrow is declare your un-dying love for her.

And don't tell them about our little bank robbing scheme either. We don't want to tip them off to it just yet.

Fans91 wrote:ITS OVER-ALL OVER, I went to see one of my teachers which I thought I can trust. In fact, she went to tell he school officer. I cannot attend her class anyone..TEACHER STAFFES think I m a DAMN Stalker. Now even the officer wants to investigate me..well its a conversation only..
ITS OVER, I see...no one understand how i feel well...

so it's over...anyways this is the possible risk that u should take it whether u like it or not...
learned how to love is one package with learned how to cautious with its pain....

i hope u can get over it soon...
;)

Fans91 wrote:Well. I m not satisfied people at school are not listening to what I have to say..I went to the officer to explain they say tommorow we will discuss it...
and tell me its not serious... we are only concern about you. Its more like they are concern of maintaing your job then your students...anyways I still cannot get rid of my feelings for her...i m positive of myself that I will n'not do something irrational...why are they so damn paronoid? Well I need to talk my way out of it before so I can still attend my tutoring at the least...anyone give me some logical advises that will convince them that they have the wrong idea :sweat:

Of course, you're just a teenager they only think of you as a little boy. If you want to convince to the officer, perhaps you have to make a deal with him that you promise not to bug your tutor (that's your total loss because why would you tell your other teacher about you being a secret admirer). Well at least by doing this you still be seeing her tutoring. However, If you get caught of making any move to your tutor ...the consequences will be quite fatal.

Now, given the choice..forget about your tutor, find other girl in the meantime you can still attend her class..and forgot sake stop trying too hard on yourself...she's not the one for you at the moment..maybe in another zillion years later or perhaps less than zillion years later.

So..what say you?

shotgun_divorce wrote:
And don't tell them about our little bank robbing scheme either. We don't want to tip them off to it just yet.

shotgun-kun (sorry, taking the liberty of assuming your gender here) is very keen on this grand "bank robbery" thread of thought, ne?

ummm...I did squeel on myself, so I have no one to blame except for me. Its my fault, I really don't wanna give up on her...It may seem even
dumber to do something that I will get into more trouble while i m deep waters already. I also I don't wanna be accuse of future faults if things happen to her. So I want to know how to create a good scenario or story so I reverse the fault on the teachers and clear myself.

Are u saying u're going to blame the teacher for this incident? Or am I getting the wrong msg?

Fans91 wrote:ummm...I did squeel on myself, so I have no one to blame except for me. Its my fault, I really don't wanna give up on her...It may seem even
dumber to do something that I will get into more trouble while i m deep waters already. I also I don't wanna be accuse of future faults if things happen to her. So I want to know how to create a good scenario or story so I reverse the fault on the teachers and clear myself.

Er... I'm having trouble understanding what it is that you are trying to say here. So you're trying to fabricate a story so that it will appear that the teacher that you had talked to had mistaken what you meant and that your grades are sufferring unnecessarily coz they took you out of the tuition class?!

no no, I still love her and still have feelings for her...I want advise on what should I say to the officer so I can clear myself up. And ressume to
leading my life like normal like a few days ago...