Tekanan wrote:
:applaud: well said.
but i have a friend who does not bother about his appearance or the looks of his inner soul. and it gets very irritating [worst than me in fact.]. he just doesn't know when to shut up and he always gives horrible remarks.
as for vanity, i don't see anything wrong with it. i see it as a way for them obtaining their own self-sonfidence. BUT vanity tends to leave mix impressions on people. period.
In my opinion, we should not judge a person by just knowing that person for a couple of months unless we hang out with that person often. if we want to, then by all means go ahead. noone's stopping you. but this makes another person judge your actions. and so forth. it's like a cycle. BUT judging can be good as it also points out some things in society that are morally wrong.
and, there ARE selfless people in this world. just not many...
interesting discussion here. :sweat:
Exactly! Thank you for being actually open-minded. See I was only trying to say that pursuit of beauty may be a way of coping for many people - to cure their aching soul. I never said blind-pursuit of beauty is right. However, it is also wrong to claim that all people who pursuit beauty are shallow, right? Just like you said, we cannot judge people simply by one action, we need to know them more and understand them more. Even then, we can still only comment, not judge. For only people themselves have the right to judge their own soul.
Oh, and yes, there definitely are selfless people in this world, very very few, those who are are truly the ones with the aching souls.