Japanese Girl/Boyfriends - Dating in Japan

kenjilina wrote: yeah it annoys me when i hear western guys in bars in japan talking like japanese girls are trophies! :shakehead:

I think it applies to all women, not just the Japanese ones. :shakehead:

I can think of a couple of members here who have that mentality.

bmwracer wrote:
I think it applies to all women, not just the Japanese ones. :shakehead:

I can think of a couple of members here who have that mentality.

Yep... I wont name names.

go ahead and say it...

"krim, for example."

krim wrote:go ahead and say it...

"krim, for example."

hahahahahahahaha... the trophy japanese girlfriend.

it may have been the other way around.. US-Citizen-so-i-dont-have-to-go-back-when-my-student-visa-runs-out-Boyfriend

krim wrote:it may have been the other way around.. US-Citizen-so-i-dont-have-to-go-back-when-my-student-visa-runs-out-Boyfriend

whoa! seriously???

yeah, i got that feeling when we had those "serious talks about our future". :shakehead:

krim wrote:it may have been the other way around.. US-Citizen-so-i-dont-have-to-go-back-when-my-student-visa-runs-out-Boyfriend

Reverse the genders and you have my marriage.

bmwracer wrote:
I think it applies to all women, not just the Japanese ones. :shakehead:

I can think of a couple of members here who have that mentality.

*raises hand*

guilty as charged :beaten:

ahochaude wrote:

*raises hand*

guilty as charged :beaten:

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Wynter wrote:

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wow! i got reamed a new @$$hole by wynter! :sweat: :beaten: :hehe:

funny emoticon. :hehe:

krim wrote:yeah, i got that feeling when we had those "serious talks about our future". :shakehead:

hahahahahahahaha.. the one where it starts, "hey I need to talk to you about something" then goosebumps just start creeping on the back of your neck..

kowaii :puppydog:

kenjilina wrote:
yeah it annoys me when i hear western guys in bars in japan talking like japanese girls are trophies!

bmwracer wrote:I think it applies to all women, not just the Japanese ones. :shakehead:

I can think of a couple of members here who have that mentality.

Trophy girls or wives are true all over the world, not just Japan. My ex-husband treated me like I was a trophy. It had to do with his own insecurities. Some people try to get their own exotic factor (whatever that means to them) through their choice of mates. :shakehead:

ahochaude wrote:

wow! i got reamed a new @$$hole by wynter! :sweat: :beaten: :hehe:

funny emoticon. :hehe:

Sometimes it's a lil' TOO appropriate... :mrgreen:

Enna wrote:
Some people try to get their own exotic factor (whatever that means to them) through their choice of mates. :shakehead:

Wow, I never thought of it that wait. Good point!

Enna wrote:

Trophy girls or wives are true all over the world, not just Japan.

oh i agree. however, as my mother is japanese and obviously japan and its people and culture are a huge part of my life i feel more sensitive to people's behaviour in japan. is this wrong? i don't know.
whenever i visit another country i consider myself a guest and behave accordingly rather than treat it as some place to be conquered.

kenjilina wrote:

oh i agree. however, as my mother is japanese and obviously japan and its people and culture are a huge part of my life i feel more sensitive to people's behaviour in japan. is this wrong? i don't know.
whenever i visit another country i consider myself a guest and behave accordingly rather than treat it as some place to be conquered.

Sorry kenjilina I didn't mean to give the impression that I didn't understand or sympathize with your point of view. I do! Just think of the type of guys that go to Japan to 'conquer' the women there as jerks. They are jerks or wankers, while in Japan and they will still be jerks, who probably can't 'conquer' any women back in their home countries and who haven't got a clue! :shakehead:

Enna wrote:

Sorry kenjilina I didn't mean to give the impression that I didn't understand or sympathize with your point of view. I do! Just think of the type of guys that go to Japan to 'conquer' the women there as jerks. They are jerks or wankers, while in Japan and they will still be jerks, who probably can't 'conquer' any women back in their home countries and who haven't got a clue! :shakehead:

please no need to apologise i totally understand your point of view. i didn't want people to think that i only think this kind of behaviour happens in japan. i know it happens all over the world. i was just trying to get across that it annoys me more in japan for the reasons explained. :mrgreen:

kenjilina wrote: please no need to apologise i totally understand your point of view. i didn't want people to think that i only think this kind of behaviour happens in japan. i know it happens all over the world. i was just trying to get across that it annoys me more in japan for the reasons explained. :mrgreen:

To quote Captain Jack Sparrow.......We have an accord! :mrgreen: :woot: