Tu_triky wrote:
well it's your call but i agree with dochira, might as well exchange a few e-mails with her prior to her arrival in soCal and try to meet up with her if she has the time...dude, you only live once and might as well give it a shot...it ain't like she's going to visit often so you might as well try!
i mean...you guys could kick it and just hang out....it's not like it's an omiai meeting, yo.
yeah, i totally agree with you on that, it's not a real big thing, but it would be nice to hook up with her and hang out. I will try to email her again, and if she replies, and keeps responding, then i may bring it up. I am just surprised that she even replied back, which was nice. She said she was leaving in about a month, or maybe less now, to San Diego for a visit. Yeah, just see how it goes with the email and maybe ask her what her plans are in SD, if the chance comes along. Did talk to her a bit longer than a few seconds, more like maybe 10 min's total. A very sweet gentle girl, with a nice beautiful smile, that is the impression she left on me :smitten: , but not too get too carried away. And like you said, i am just a guy and she is just a girl.....i think i would be just happy enough if somehow i was able to keep in contact with her as my friend.
Thanks for your support and suggestions...much appreciated.
btw: i know how some of the J-girls swoon over the "white" gaijin, but i am not sure how they react to other asians-gajin, like myself, but hope they are open to friendships with other asians that cannot really speak Japanese. I guess most of us have good tastes in girls, J-girls that is. :hehe: