This thread is for you girls to make peace and shake hands, Remember that and STOP SQUABBLING LIKE KIDS!
And to each of you...
MixxDreamer
Don't expect anyone to make peace with you when you're still passing snide remarks in sarcastic tones in almost all of your posts here.
Others are free to post whatever they want on their blogs and you have no business questioning them.
Resist the temptation to take a quick jab at the others if you sincerely wish to put a stop to this. Don't just say it. Do it.
You owe marinakyo a sincere apology for your first posts that triggered this. Just a
simple direct apology to her about what you've done specifically without adding in all the other accusations and sarcastic remarks.
Is it that difficult?
yt
Translation from http://translate.google.com/translate_t (not completely accurate translations, but the gist is there)
yt wrote:you do not need to explain to the people idiots like them.
They do not have anything with better doing than to select on people.
The first is a bitch and the second is a following dog
as I said I studied French a little, but I cheated a little on what precedes,
I use the translator on line. If all is well these imbeciles above does not know only I
Your posts in French were outright inciteful and are a disgrace to the French language. I'm sure you've offended more than the 2 whom you were directing your posts at.
I opened this thread so that you girls could talk over peacefully -- it didn't work between marinakyo and MixxDreamer and got locked. However, you requested for the thread to re-open so that you could hurl more insults and add more flames by digging up others' blogs and making more personal attacks. In addition to that, you just couldn't stop and continued your malicious stabbing in the H2 thread -- which bmwracer had quickly removed. I see no bit of remorse in you nor any apologetic intention for your intolerable behavior.
Behavior of others is never a valid excuse for your own mis-deeds. What do you have to say for yourself?
marinakyo
The rest were angry at yt's posts in French --
NOT YOURS. I've worked and lived in France before and understand that the rude remarks were not made by you. I should have made that clearer in my earlier post, so that others would not have linked your posts to those of yt's. With that, you should stop defending on that already.
marinakyo wrote:If u didnt barge nothing like this would happened...
We all already know who did what. Lets stop the "you started it!" or "you did xyz again!" lines and come to a truce ok?
About posting in French, stop it. Keep it within the French thread as Akakage had pointed out. We have nothing against the French language, but this is an English-based forum and we will appreciate if you'd stick to English.
If a foreign language must absolutely be used somehow, accompany it with its English equivalent. Respect other visitors who do not understand your language, and avoid the misunderstandings.
You had been an innocent party at the start, and those who started the "intrusive" posts were wrong on their part. However, your retaliation had been carried way too far. Remarks like
"I'm sorry but i dont say u are a sad v*****, or wh***" are totally uncalled for.
Give yourself a little more respect, don't go with the flow of the heat.
Akakage
You're the only one who has kept your cool after the thread was moved. Good for you. Your posts with MixxDreamer were indeed disruptive to those who had tried to keep a healthy discussion in the H2 thread. Even though their retaliation had been rude, a direct sincere apology is still due on your part.
To ALL involved
This thread shall remain locked before you further disgrace yourselves. Anymore of this nonsense elsewhere and you'll be out of here for good.
Send me a PM if you disagree to any of the above, but forget it if you're only interested in defending yourself, accusing others and not sincerely seeking truce.
I also want to add that if you've any intention of apologizing, be
direct,
sincere, and don't let yourself add sarcastic remarks or things that suggest that
"you're in the wrong, but i'll apologize for my part anyway". In an apology, you only bring up what you've done wrong and NOT on how the other party has angered you. If you've done anything like the latter, the apology is as good as none.
I'll reopen the thread when all are ready to
forgive and forget.