Would You Date Someone Of A Different Ethnicity?

Started by lifunk · 5 May 2005 · 243 replies

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8 Sep 2009, 23:12 #201
:victory: I would date and I haved dated people around the world.

But I would lie if I said that values (such as honesty and open-mindness) and education don't matter. It seems I mostly date people from the same social class or income bracket.
8 Sep 2009, 23:26 #202
Super No. 1 wrote:Sure I would.

Would a woman of another race date me?? Probably not. When you're an Asian male in the US, it's hard enough to get women of your own race to date you. :bleh:

An Asian male dating a non-Asian woman is rarely seen. Asian women date non-Asian men all the time. That's just the way it is. The Asian women don't even want us.


Haha how true. Gotta learn some techniques from those non-Asian men. ;)

Edit: Wow just realized I've just quoted someone from page 1.... :doh:
9 Sep 2009, 00:44 #203
duskyduck wrote:Haha how true.

VERY true. :sweat:
9 Sep 2009, 00:58 #204
EstherM wrote::victory: I would date and I haved dated people around the world.

But I would lie if I said that values (such as honesty and open-mindness) and education don't matter. It seems I mostly date people from the same social class or income bracket.
rare is true .. i don't see it at all ... my question is why is that ??? :headscratch: :confused:
9 Sep 2009, 01:51 #205
EstherM wrote:It seems I mostly date people from the same social class or income bracket.


It does make a relationship easier, if your incomes and levels of education are similar. Also, if you have similar work schedules, and if you have similar things to talk about when you get home from work.... :doh:

On American TV commercial ads, when they show interracial couples at all, have you noticed that it's primarily a Caucasian man with an Asian woman. It has become something of a stereotype, I think. (Not that there's anything wrong with it.)
9 Sep 2009, 05:40 #206
bmwracer wrote:
VERY true. :sweat:


There's about a million fangirls who would date certain asian men if they got the chance... I wonder why it doesn't translate to them dating the average guys?
9 Sep 2009, 05:45 #207
Anime Dad wrote:There's about a million fangirls who would date certain asian men if they got the chance... I wonder why it doesn't translate to them dating the average guys?

'Cause average guys aren't girly men. :beaten:
9 Sep 2009, 05:50 #208
bmwracer wrote:
'Cause average guys aren't girly men. :beaten:


Sou desu ne!
9 Sep 2009, 08:52 #209
bmwracer wrote:
'Cause average guys aren't girly men. :beaten:


Conclusion... girls like Asian for girly men, non-Asian for manly men, if we don't fit in those categories...welll....lol.....
9 Sep 2009, 10:04 #210
duskyduck wrote:

Conclusion... girls like Asian for girly men, non-Asian for manly men, if we don't fit in those categories...welll....lol.....
:hehe: I like how u said that :hehe:
9 Sep 2009, 20:30 #211
EstherM wrote:
But I would lie if I said that values (such as honesty and open-mindness) and education don't matter. It seems I mostly date people from the same social class or income bracket.


The same for me actually. :mrgreen:
9 Sep 2009, 22:13 #212
Eve wrote:The same for me actually. :mrgreen:

That's typical, since one probably works/interacts with that same group/bracket...
9 Sep 2009, 22:26 #213
bmwracer wrote:
That's typical, since one probably works/interacts with that same group/bracket...


I think so.
Similar tastes too.
9 Sep 2009, 22:28 #214
Eve wrote:Similar tastes too.

Almost: no one here at work watches J-dramas. :(
10 Sep 2009, 00:29 #215
bmwracer wrote:
Almost: no one here at work watches J-dramas. :(


Yeah but do you want to date somebody from work? :beaten:

I'd rather not! :mrgreen:

duskyduck wrote:

Conclusion... girls like Asian for girly men, non-Asian for manly men, if we don't fit in those categories...welll....lol.....


No, in my experience it has more to do with the fact the men (in general often Asian) tend to be more conservative/shy/not attracted when it comes to getting out of their dating comfort zone. When I was in Japan I had a few dates where the men kept on commenting how I wasn't skinny and how I wasn't interesting in cooking. Who wants to date somebody who is looking for something else. :mrgreen:
10 Sep 2009, 00:33 #216
EstherM wrote:Yeah but do you want to date somebody from work?

True. :sweat:
10 Sep 2009, 05:38 #217
EstherM wrote:
When I was in Japan I had a few dates where the men kept on commenting how I wasn't skinny and how I wasn't interesting in cooking.


That's a bit rude!
10 Sep 2009, 07:11 #218
duskyduck wrote:

Conclusion... girls like Asian for girly men, non-Asian for manly men, if we don't fit in those categories...welll....lol.....


LOL! That is kinda true...Here in the US, I find Asian men to be a little more feminine than non-Asian men and I always see Asian girls with non-Asian guys...Yellow fever!
However, if I do see Asian men with non-Asian women, the Asian dude's whitewashed. lol
10 Sep 2009, 08:36 #219
kokoandkiko wrote:LOL! That is kinda true...Here in the US, I find Asian men to be a little more feminine than non-Asian men

You need to meet more Asian men. :sweat:

However, if I do see Asian men with non-Asian women, the Asian dude's whitewashed. lol

Whitewashed? :headscratch:
10 Sep 2009, 17:59 #220
bmwracer wrote:
Whitewashed? :headscratch:


Asian men behaving like non-Asian? :hehe:

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