I know most of you prolly haven't thought that far yet, but I just wanna know...
- At what age do you wanna get married?
- Any plans for the ceremony? (the venue, atmosphere, costume, etc)
- Where would u go for your honeymoon? =]
- At what age do you wanna have a baby?
- How many children do you wanna have?
I think marriage is sacred, so it'll be interesting to hear some of your ideas!
hmmz.. i'm not sure if i want to get married.. i guess this thinking will change after i meet the right person but who knows? :mrgreen: becoz there's lots of things i want to do on my own first..
ne Marriage for me is a sacred thing....yep maybe it strange come from a guy...Well We can love someone yep but without any clear bounding....We can break up because of alot small things and then love another one all over again..No commitment!!! Dat's fpr sure..In marriage we try to keep stable commitment to love Dat's person that we choose and stick with it..cause nobody's perfect,..PPl's feeling & mentally can be high and low we just try to understand more about someone we love day by day untill we die...That's why we say TIll death do us apart...in the altar
For the question above...Have silly thingsIn mind like having party in Video conference and when u see me marriage there there is an ad line my credit card say if u happy for us We accpet Cash Check or credit card and for the food we just sent all them some nice burger..Crazy ne [Yep My grandma will kill me for sure if I do that in my wedding ]
N for the Honeymoon...I'll chose Barabados PPl said it is beautiful there :)
Kids Yep who do not want them..Sure want to have pair of them Twin girl If I can really work on the technique to make them :mrgreen:
yep twin baby girls that I want..Maybe I can name them Matsu Takako or Tokiwa Takako.
ne..It just my dream Hopefully can grab them and make it real :mrgreen:
hmmm... let's see...
for me, the ideal age to get married would be 28 or 30... don't know why... but that's what i think...
hopefully nothing too troublesome... a simple wedding will do...
and my ideal honeymoon plce will be Europe.... :D
Hmm... I don't know why, but I don't have abit feeling about marriage as for now. I think it's because my nature of "I am not the type of settle down, I am more like adventure, challeges"
But then, even Sari (for the indo, remember her? from old CCS) got settled down.
Yes i agree marriage is sacred. When i was 15 i want to get marry at the age of 18. Now that i am 21 i want to get marry when i am well off with a nice job and owned a house. I would love a small wedding with close friends and family only. But most important of all i think everyone wants a marriage that will last a life time. Honeymoon will be in Alaska. I want to have kids a year after marriage. I want to have 10 kids.
I estimate that i would probably get marry at the age of 50. :crazy:
Why we have to wait untill we Have the house good job so we can get married...Sometimes things like that make it longer for us to get marriage..As my Grandma said Couple who get married have their oqn blessing and Maybe cause they together at [ Not really Dat rich situation ] THe bound will be stronger :mrgreen:
Bsalez wrote:Why we have to wait untill we Have the house good job so we can get married...Sometimes things like that make it longer for us to get marriage..As my Grandma said Couple who get married have their oqn blessing and Maybe cause they together at [ Not really Dat rich situation ] THe bound will be stronger :mrgreen:
Your right, man. And to some people, by the time they have everything they want, they'll be too old/tired to be enjoying life with their BF/GF/spouse.
Altho I'm not saying that being lazy is good, but a LOT of asians have a misconception that you should have the means (money/career) first, then get married. While it is a no-brainer to work hard in achieveing your goal (look at me, the lazy a$$ talking), you should also know to enjoy your life. Key is balance.
i never wanted to get married as child... but now that i meat some 1 older i can't stop thinking about them..... WHY DO PEOPLE GET MARRIED ANYWAY? is it because society expects us to?
Nope Loveless kun Who give a shit what ppl say :hehe: if u don't get married....Demo ne Marriage is one symbol that make u certain to urself to ur GF that u really belong to each other [ Leave all those time watching Jdrama alone laughing alone crying alone :crazy: ]
Share ur life to the one u love, u can tell her all those new Jpop u just d/l or u can make her jealous knowing that u a re die hard fan of one of Jdrama queen [ In my case it is definetly Matsu Takako ], Playing 2 p games instead playing those rpg that can be play only by you. Da word is sharing...yeah u said u can experience that even u don't get married...How bout If u love this woman...maybe ur Japanese teacher or kook chan ne :mrgreen: ...and u feel fit to each other and because u don't get married one day Kook cahan or ur Japanes teacher fall in love with someone....What'll gonna happen if there is no bounding line such as marriage...Not agree on this type Try first decide later kind of relationship...It always fail man..Always....Kind like a trend these days..Guys staying single free like a bird hate commitment but see lovelss if U are 40 or 80 [ If u live that long ] bite a nail alone ..No kids, no one to share ur life...for me it sucks man...I prefer marriage so I can constantly love share our life growing older watching our grandchildren grow and Live the life TILL death do us apart..ne :mrgreen:
age - after 26
no plan for the ceremony... prolly somewhere romantic, peaceful and quiet :inlove:
honeymoon- in an island, only the 2 of u there :hehe:
baby?? after 2-3yrs of marriage
not more than 4 kids ;)
Well said Bsalez. When i young i was sentimental and wish for all of that, I still do in way. :D I wanna grow old with someone by my side. Life is too loney sometime.