Marriage

ahochaude wrote:Yep. Divorce rate is super high nowadays.

I myself don't plan on getting divorced, but then there is always amrayu and Rina................ :beaten:

:flyingkiss:

amrayu wrote:

:flyingkiss:

LOL :hehe: as Amrayu exercises her hold over Ahoch'
-PCM

amrayu wrote:

:flyingkiss:

Don't encourage him now! :hehe: :hehe: :hehe:

pcmodem wrote:
LOL :hehe: as Amrayu exercises her hold over Ahoch'
-PCM

eightysix wrote:
Don't encourage him now!

:doh:

amrayu wrote:

:doh:

Amrayu Jolie, it's bad karma to tempt a married man. :beatyou: :naughty: :hehe:
-PCM

MARRIAGE PLANS?! Don't even get me started! *LOL* :love_eyes:

- At what age do you wanna get married?
~> 24 ^^, or whenever me and my boyfriend finish college and we become financially stable

- Any plans for the ceremony? (the venue, atmosphere, costume, etc)
Since I'm from Chile and my boyfriend is American, I'd like to get marry here in the U.S as well as in Chile ^^...but I don't know in which place the big party is gonna be :D

- Where would u go for your honeymoon? =]
...That's a difficult decision! I'd like to go to Japan (Duh!) But my boyfriend would rather go to New Zealand (I guess we would agree on going to Ireland)

- At what age do you wanna have a baby?
Whenever I'm ready...I wouldn't mind if I have them when I'm young (as long as we are married)

- How many children do you wanna have? 4 or 3! I'd like my first baby to be a boy...but I still would like to have girls too ^^

That's it....I tried to make it brief! :thumbsup:

bmwracer wrote:Marriage?? Don't do it...! :shakehead:

LOL, this statement doesn't help people like me and Slackey feel better :hehe:

amrayu wrote: :flyingkiss:

OMG!!! :bonk: I'm not worthy!!! :bow:

I'd marry you in a heartbeat!!!!! :love_eyes: :love_eyes: :love_eyes:

:flyingkiss: :hug: :love2: :kiss2: :kiss:

I love you too!!!! :inlove:

amrayu = aho :inlove:

:bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :love_eyes: :love_eyes: :love_eyes:

So when are we setting our date, lover?! :beaten:

ahochaude wrote:OMG!!! :bonk: I'm not worthy!!! :bow:

I'd marry you in a heartbeat!!!!! :love_eyes: :love_eyes: :love_eyes:

:flyingkiss: :hug: :love2: :kiss2: :kiss:

I love you too!!!! :inlove:

amrayu = aho :inlove:

:bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :love_eyes: :love_eyes: :love_eyes:

So when are we setting our date, lover?! :beaten:

LOL DAMN that's thorough!! If only I had that much power over men! :bow: :hehe:

ROFL at aho.. :rofl:

Down boy...:hehe: :bow:

KouSeiya315 wrote:If only I had that much power over men! :bow: :hehe:

Don't underestimate........ :hehe:

I don't think about it now....

The only thing I'm sure is : I don't want to have children before travelling and having done all the things I want to do....

I don't mind how will be the ceremony... and about the honeymoon...

I think 2 children is enough...

~At what age do you want to get married? - At 23.

~Any plans for the ceremony?(the venue, atmosphere, costume, etc) - Not really sure yet?

~Where would u go for your honeymoon? - That would be either in Japan or in Ireland.

~At what age do you wanna have a baby? - Maybe about a year or so after I'm married.

~How many children do you wanna have? - Three or Four.

why some of you wanna do their honeymoon in Ireland ?

It's maybe the last place i'd like to go after england. Maybe, i'd go there for a burial or to be buried, never for a wedding.

KouSeiya315 wrote:

bmwracer wrote:Marriage?? Don't do it...! :shakehead:

LOL, this statement doesn't help people like me and Slackey feel better :hehe:

shouldn't BM's comment confirm your findings about don't get married?

bmwracer wrote:

KouSeiya315 wrote:If only I had that much power over men! :bow: :hehe:

Don't underestimate.......

....in the power of flashing. LOL!

niko2x wrote:shouldn't BM's comment confirm your findings about don't get married?

It does, but I was hoping to be proven wrong so I can get over this someday, LOL! :nut:

KouSeiya315 wrote:It does, but I was hoping to be proven wrong so I can get over this someday, LOL! :nut:

The only way you can prove it wrong is to jump in to refute it... I found out first hand it was a mistake... :bleh:

bmwracer wrote:
The only way you can prove it wrong is to jump in to refute it... I found out first hand it was a mistake... :bleh:

Awww, sorry to hear it BMW....:sweat:

In my thoughts, I see men as fearing commitment to one person, or committing and changing their minds way later which hits the woman like a ton of bricks. I fear commitment only due to the fact that I fear the other person changing their mind later or aren't really serious in the back of their mind but pretend to be.

And, it's not like I haven't had serious relationships either. Not many relationships at all and not for a long time, but I've had good ones. But, I had thoughts in the back of my head and never fully trusted them and thought "too good to be true...what the hell is this guy doing with me still?", in addition to other thoughts. Call it lack of self-confidence and self-esteem as well as paranoia if ya's want...because I fully admit to having those problems :sweat: I've also had two VERY bad relationships, ones that messed me up even more and added to my issues with men. Plus seeing other relationships of friends and relatives that just back up my claims...mreh.

Sorry guys of this forum, like I said, I have issues. This is not meant to be derogatory to all men, it's just what goes on in my head. I'm sure there are good guys out there, I just haven't found any in my league :banghead:

KouSeiya315 wrote:
...I just haven't found any in my league :banghead:

That's an important thing to realize...

Folks are often unhappy and have unsuccessful relationships because they go for people that are not in their league... that is to say, very bad for them, too good for them, or otherwise too different in a variety of ways that prevent them from growing together over time.
-PCM

Xavio wrote:why some of you wanna do their honeymoon in Ireland ?

Becuase it is very peaceful and beautiful there. I find it very relaxing.

Maybe, i'd go there for a burial or to be buried, never for a wedding.

I don't want to be buried anywhere. Instead, I would have my family burn my body and like my ashes blow across the land.