Marriage

z123_us wrote:
guess i just am gonna have to make more than one french women "happy" ... just being a good samaritan :naughty: :):)

Cheering you on, "You da man!" :woot: :naughty: :hehe:
-PCM

pcmodem wrote:

"You da man!" :woot: :naughty: :hehe:
-PCM

AHEM AHEM !!! .... Weelllllll if u insist .... I will try to work harder .. by the way paris has lots of asians also .. seen many japanese girls out here ... and well u know -->

chiik french + cuuute japanese ... in a MIXER --> result --> good samaritans like me forced to work OVERTIME ... :hehe:

z123_us wrote:

AHEM AHEM !!! .... Weelllllll if u insist .... I will try to work harder .. by the way paris has lots of asians also .. seen many japanese girls out here ... and well u know -->

chiik french + cuuute japanese ... in a MIXER --> result --> good samaritans like me forced to work OVERTIME ... :hehe:

No problem, just take some extra vitamins and do lots of sit-ups for exercise, we're counting on you. :D

Actually, a buddy of mine lives in Paris. She's Thai and gorgeous, a former actress in Thailand.
-PCM

pcmodem wrote:

Actually, a buddy of mine lives in Paris. She's Thai and gorgeous, a former actress in Thailand.
-PCM

PCM guess what U just became my best friend :naughty: :bow: .. so now lets gets serious OK ... quit jokin around .. after all it deals with the "bright future" of a thai actress with ME :):) ahem ahem ! .. so she is beautiful, thin, NOT 180 cm tall .. and SINGLE .... right !! :dancing:

vitamins -- well i drink a lot of french mineral water .. play squash .. dont worry about energy man .... girls n fun .. i got unlimited reserves hidden at .... "places" .... ;);)

so going with the good spirit of helping out people why dont u PM me some more detailed info ... welll PM is better cause gotta be discrete ... u know there r other french people also around ... in these matters of personal development ... too much competition can be distracting ... :beaten:

z123_us wrote:

PCM guess what U just became my best friend :naughty: :bow: .. so now lets gets serious OK ... quit jokin around .. after all it deals with the "bright future" of a thai actress with ME :):) ahem ahem ! .. so she is beautiful, thin, NOT 180 cm tall .. and SINGLE .... right !! :dancing:

vitamins -- well i drink a lot of french mineral water .. play squash .. dont worry about energy man .... girls n fun .. i got unlimited reserves hidden at .... "places" .... ;);)

so going with the good spirit of helping out people why dont u PM me some more detailed info ... welll PM is better cause gotta be discrete ... u know there r other french people also around ... in these matters of personal development ... too much competition can be distracting ... :beaten:

Heh, unfortunately, she is not single. :hehe:

She lives with her BF, David, who is a tall and very cool guy, an American living in Paris. Investment Banker or Stock Broker or something like that.

FYI, you'd not want to date an ex-actress or ex-model anyway... they are always EXPENSIVE.
-PCM

pcmodem wrote:

Heh, unfortunately, she is not single. :hehe:

She lives with her BF, David, who is a tall and very cool guy, an American living in Paris. Investment Banker or Stock Broker or something like that.

FYI, you'd not want to date an ex-actress or ex-model anyway... they are always EXPENSIVE.
-PCM

SINGLE --> my dictionary means --> NOT MARRIED ...

well who knows i might end up meeting his bf somewhere ... its a small business world especially when u in the money business .. i will keep my eye out for a thai actress ... :)

i take your advice Sir ! ... as it is I am totally focussing on japanese girls ... :puppydog: hahah ... cheers man , have fun.

n u know what .. i was speakin to a russian friend of mine ... he told me that more than 50% russian women are single and is actually getting higher... they prefer to be single than married ??... said that they r more agressive than the men in russia ...

yeah i dunno but on tv they make the russian women manly n stuff.
when u get married i wonder how it changes ..so u say "morning husband"
instead of " goodmorning lover, boyfriend and/or sexual partner"
my best freind wants her boyfriend to ask her ta marry him. uuggg :shakehead:
that will be such a bummer, then ill have to go to the wedding and try my best not to throw up when they kiss. :shakehead:

TANG wrote:yeah i dunno but on tv they make the russian women manly n stuff. ......

donno abt you .. i would luv to get married .. but once i find someone for life .. as for russian girls .. well i have one of my best friends out here who is russian .. well one thing is sure .. they r very competitive .. donno if it is too competitve to have a good personal life side by side ..

but this russian guy who told me this 50% figure .. married an indian girl .. :):)

KouSeiya315 wrote:

In my thoughts, I see men as fearing commitment to one person, or committing and changing their minds way later which hits the woman like a ton of bricks. I fear commitment only due to the fact that I fear the other person changing their mind later or aren't really serious in the back of their mind but pretend to be.

so desu ne... i agree. lots of the guys i met are like that. they keep saying they want to earn more money and have a house and then they will seriously date and get married. these guys don't even bother to date at all. makes me think they are lazy and just fear commitment and fear to make the next step of adulthood. yeah the changing mind thing is truly bothersome. there are so many failed relationships and marriages out there, it is kind of scary.

KouSeiya315 wrote: And, it's not like I haven't had serious relationships either. Not many relationships at all and not for a long time, but I've had good ones. But, I had thoughts in the back of my head and never fully trusted them and thought "too good to be true...what the hell is this guy doing with me still?", in addition to other thoughts. Call it lack of self-confidence and self-esteem as well as paranoia if ya's want...because I fully admit to having those problems :sweat: I've also had two VERY bad relationships, ones that messed me up even more and added to my issues with men. Plus seeing other relationships of friends and relatives that just back up my claims...mreh.

i think you should ask yourself: what good qualities do i have? and list them. i'm sure you have good qualities or else you would not have had good relationships in the past ne. don't let those bad relationships get you down or get in your way of finding true happiness, think of those as learning experiences. after all, dating can be fun and at times things can get tough and hard, but that is how love is. love is a double edge sword, one side is really sweet and the other is very painful and hurtful. but that is how it is. if you allow yourself to accept and go through those good and bad times, it will bring you steps closer to finding a good partner and it will make you a better partner. you learn from your mistakes from your past relationships, this way you try not to make the same one in your next future relationship.


as for me, i've totally given up on Chinese guys because they are too picky with me. and look, i'm Chinese. but what can i do? i find that i have better conversations with Korean and Japanese guys and they are not bothered with the fact that i was born in the US and have a degree. and they don't require me to make $100,000 USD a year.

ah...! i dunwan to date a chinese too..i been to ard 7 relationships since age of 15 and im kinda very sad for singapore guys (sorry if there r any of u here...). alright im 18 this yr..but i really wish i can meet a japanese guy!!! i have prob with guys same age as me, i usually can 'click' betta with guys 3 yr older and 5 yr older is the longest relationship i have with.

sg guys r mostly naive and dun really care so much abt their future, they hardly truely believes in Dream Come True thingy. and most of them only after National Service then they started learning responsibilities..which is tooo late..! :shakehead: they juz wan a stable income and work in singapore probably hope to relate with their graduated cert (which they didnt even chose the course properly in the first place).

Japanese guys give me a more carefree and 'dare to dream' feel! i met a lot alot of 'desperate for girlfriend' guys in singapore and i really got a very sickly impression about them now... :crazy:

ok, this is suppose to be about marriage but i think u guys shld read my view on singapore guys (when relationship is definitely before marriage). and so i cant really find a soulmate here *looking at the situation*...i shld end this post with my conclusion: i dun wish to marry young and i agree with some past posts that marriage is NOT a MUST! and i also realise those who wish to marry late will end up marry young..vice versa.

i might come back if i am not stone-to-death. the above is only my own personal opinions becuz im a really really frank person!

sodesuka wrote:as for me, i've totally given up on Chinese guys because they are too picky with me. and look, i'm Chinese. but what can i do? i find that i have better conversations with Korean and Japanese guys and they are not bothered with the fact that i was born in the US and have a degree. and they don't require me to make $100,000 USD a year."

Sounds like you are not dealing with ABCs, sodesuka? Most ABCs I know expect the woman to have a college degree. Oddly, in the pecking order, most Chinese view ABC's as being snobs, which to an extent is true and Chinese from China look up to ABC's as they expect them to be the rich Chinese-from-America stereotype. But at the same time, Chinese from HK and China give ABCs a bad time about not being Chinese enough, or calling them bananas or Twinkies.

atata wrote:Japanese guys give me a more carefree and 'dare to dream' feel! i met a lot alot of 'desperate for girlfriend' guys in singapore and i really got a very sickly impression about them now... :crazy:

Hrm, I guess I shouldn't be surprised to find women interested in Japanese men here at forum dedicated to Japanese entertainment.

Too bad there are so few nihonjin here. We can auction off dates with Ahoch'! :woot: :hehe:



True love never runs smooth,
PCM

pcmodem wrote:

Too bad there are so few nihonjin here. We can auction off dates with Ahoch'! :woot: :hehe:
PCM

INFO : after this initial auction of Ahoch' ... if there are still interested parties left unattended then we will be holding a second auction with international Non-nihonjin variety on display :):):):)

venez nombreaux ... come is big numbers !!! :);)

pcmodem wrote:Too bad there are so few nihonjin here. We can auction off dates with Ahoch'! :woot: :hehe:

...or yourself. you're JPNese, ne? as i recall, there are girls here panning for JPN guys....hehehe

niko2x wrote:...or yourself. you're JPNese, ne? as i recall, there are girls here panning for JPN guys....hehehe

Shhh! :naughty:

But I'm a 2-bagger anyway, so I don't count. :hehe:
-PCM

pcmodem wrote:
Shhh! :naughty:

But I'm a 2-bagger anyway, so I don't count. :hehe:
-PCM

naughty naughty .. :beatyou: :beatyou:

z123_us wrote:

donno abt you .. i would luv to get married .. but once i find someone for life .. as for russian girls .. well i have one of my best friends out here who is russian .. well one thing is sure .. they r very competitive .. donno if it is too competitve to have a good personal life side by side ..

but this russian guy who told me this 50% figure .. married an indian girl .. :):)

funny stuff.
its not that i dun wanna get married , i just dont see much of a point to it.
i mite get married one day! if i dont have anything else to do.
like if im super bored, ....... love is love, what the heck marriage got to do with it?

pcmodem wrote:
Hrm, I guess I shouldn't be surprised to find women interested in Japanese men here at forum dedicated to Japanese entertainment.

Too bad there are so few nihonjin here. We can auction off dates with Ahoch'! :woot: :hehe:



True love never runs smooth,
PCM

Don't encourage him..he's taken.. :hehe: :rofl: how are we going to be responsible with his wife? LMAO :rofl: :rofl:

TANG wrote:
funny stuff. .....like if im super bored, ....... marriage got to do with it?

hmmmm well i guess marriage is more like a societal formality which has been there for toooo long .. in a way i do agree with u .. but u know because of this psychological thing of marriage .. i guess people once married take a relationship more seriously then just a fling or gf-bf thingy thing .. especially over the long term ... i mean deciding to spend ure life with "1" person ... whew!!!! donno abt u .. for me is a tough decision ..

is there japanese guys here? lol :woot:
i wish japanese guys can speak fluent english..mayb tt's why i think oshio manabu is cool :P

haix.. :rolleyes: marriage is not a thing for me, unless some miracle happen u see... :confused: