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31 Oct 2010, 01:21 #33021
Maldives police to probe foul-mouthed wedding ceremony

BACON lovers unite against this outrage! This sacrilege will not stand.

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BBC NEWS
28 October 2010


Maldivian High Commissioner to UK, Dr Farahanaz Faisal: "The whole country is shocked"

Police in the Maldives are to launch an investigation after a foreign couple who thought they were renewing marriage vows were in fact being subjected to a torrent of abuse.

A video has emerged of the unidentified Western couple taking part in the ceremony at the Vilu Reef resort.

Instead of words of blessing, the celebrant calls the couple "swine" and "infidels" in the local language.

The hotel has apologised for the "unforgivable conduct" of its staff.

"The management of the resort is deeply saddened by this humiliating event," the hotel said in a statement.

"Most of the children that you have are marked with spots and blemishesh
--Vow renewal celebrant Vilu Reef

The Maldives' Deputy Tourism Minister, Ismail Yasir, told the BBC the government was "very concerned" by the incident.

"We have asked the resort to inform us what action they have taken. We have also requested a formal inquiry into the matter from the police," he said.

Foreign Minister Ahmed Shaheed said the incident could damage the country's reputation as a tourist haven.

The amateur film of the ceremony, posted on the video sharing website YouTube a few days ago, shows the couple sitting in a makeshift shelter on the beach, surrounded by local people.

The bride is wearing a white dress and carrying a bouquet, while incense, official-looking documents and wedding rings lie on the table in front of them.

'Frequent fornication'

The celebrant explains the ceremony in English before everyone stands and holds their hands up to pray.

But instead of words of blessing, the celebrant uses the intonating style of prayers to unleash a torrent of abuse about the couple in the Dhivehi language.

"We don't want for such incidents to be characterised as normal in the Maldives and I am sure it is not soh -- Ismail Yasir Deputy Tourism Minister

"Your marriage is not a valid one. You are not the kind of people who can have a valid marriage. One of you is an infidel. The other, too, is an infidel - and we have reason to believe - an atheist, who does not even believe in an infidel religion," the Minivan newspaper quotes him as saying.

"You fornicate and make a lot of children. You drink and you eat pork. Most of the children that you have are marked with spots and blemishes. These children that you have are bastards."

The camera focuses on the paperwork in front of him, which local media say was not a marriage document but employment contracts - he then begins to read from these.

The celebrant also makes references to bestiality, sexual diseases and "frequent fornication by homosexuals".
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After the ceremony, the couple are taken to plant a coconut tree together, during which various comments are made about the bride's breasts.

Mr Yasir told the BBC most people in the Maldives were furious about what had taken place and he hoped the couple would be given compensation.

"We are embarrassed as well, and very outraged," he said of the tourism ministry.

He said tourism was vital for the country and denied that the incident was a symptom of antagonism between local people and tourists.

"I am sure almost all Maldivians are aware that tourism is the main industry in the Maldives and is very important."

Mr Yasir said wedding and vow renewal ceremonies were held successfully all the time and that he was sure the incident at Vilu Reef had been a one-off.

"We would like to assure everyone who would like to come to Maldives that we will take such incidents seriously and we will take action.

"We don't want for such incidents to be characterised as normal in the Maldives and I am sure it is not so."

Vilu Reef hotel, run by Sun Hotels and Resorts, charges $1,300 (’820) for the ceremony, which it says offers couples the chance to "mark a milestone in your amazing journey together".

The company says the celebrant has been suspended and it is taking disciplinary action against staff.

Manager Mohamed Rasheed told the AFP news agency: "The man had used filthy language. Otherwise the ceremony was OK."

He said the couple had received an apology.
31 Oct 2010, 01:23 #33022
"The man had used filthy language. Otherwise the ceremony was OK."

:lol: :rofl: :hehe:

That's all that matters. :rofl: :hehe:
31 Oct 2010, 01:26 #33023
bmwracer wrote:"The man had used filthy language. Otherwise the ceremony was OK."

:lol: :rofl: :hehe:

That's all that matters. :rofl: :hehe:


A blissful matrimony!
31 Oct 2010, 10:57 #33024
Viking vs Patriots anyone...!!! whose ready ... Moss seeing his ex-team playing against him :bonk:
what a game for Halloween :hehe:
31 Oct 2010, 12:36 #33025
suzzy wrote:Viking vs Patriots anyone...!!! whose ready ... Moss seeing his ex-team playing against him :bonk:
what a game for Halloween :hehe:

Go Vikings! :victory:
31 Oct 2010, 20:39 #33026
Trick or treat, smell my feet, give me something good to eat. If you don't, I won't be sad, I'll just make you wish you had! Happy Halloween everyone.
1 Nov 2010, 00:52 #33027
Tu_triky wrote:Maldives police to probe foul-mouthed wedding ceremony


LOL! Hilarious. Why didn't the couple get a translator or someone who spoke their language to recite the rites?
1 Nov 2010, 00:55 #33028
Wynter wrote:

LOL! Hilarious. Why didn't the couple get a translator or someone who spoke their language to recite the rites?


That is precisely my question. How meaningful could the ceremony be if you didn't understand a word the celebrant was saying?
1 Nov 2010, 08:40 #33029
bmwracer wrote:
Go Vikings! :victory:

:twisted:

When did they change the DST day? :grumble: Jeeesh, it's always been the last weekend in October, now it changed? :usuck: Been an hour behind everything today, had a feeling something was amiss, :nut: now I know why. Now to start on my Baka of the Year speech. :applaud:
1 Nov 2010, 10:20 #33030
hitomi #1 wrote:When did they change the DST day? :grumble:

Have you been living in a cave?

The new DST guidelines were enacted in 2007.
1 Nov 2010, 10:36 #33031
bmwracer wrote:
Have you been living in a cave?

The new DST guidelines were enacted in 2007.

Never knew that, thought this was the first year, guess now I know why I've always been late for everything the 1st week in November. :crazy:
1 Nov 2010, 11:49 #33032
7th-key wrote:
It's like deciding to go to Tokyo and once there being sent to an Italian restaurant... (...or a German one :beaten:)


:hehe: Agreed!


Wynter wrote:

LOL! Hilarious. Why didn't the couple get a translator or someone who spoke their language to recite the rites?


They shouldnt have needed too IMHO.

I think the couple was honoring the country they were in by having the rites in the local language.

Personally I think the staff should be sacked. :boot:

Guests are the life blood of the tourist industry and deserve a certain amount of respect. I couldnt stand it when I lived in Aspen and all the waiters acted like they were doing the guests a favor serving them.
If you dont like being in the service industry do something else.
2 Nov 2010, 07:37 #33033
Eve wrote:

They shouldnt have needed too IMHO.

I think the couple was honoring the country they were in by having the rites in the local language.

Personally I think the staff should be sacked. :boot:

Guests are the life blood of the tourist industry and deserve a certain amount of respect. I couldnt stand it when I lived in Aspen and all the waiters acted like they were doing the guests a favor serving them.
If you dont like being in the service industry do something else.


Yea, I guess so. I suppose for me I'd just want to understand the language that is speaking the words I'm meant to live by. Personal Pref. :mrgreen:
2 Nov 2010, 07:41 #33034
Wynter wrote:

Yea, I guess so. I suppose for me I'd just want to understand the language that is speaking the words I'm meant to live by. Personal Pref. :mrgreen:


No argument from me there! :mrgreen:

I prefer understanding also, LOL.
But if I was far away I might think it was romantic to have a local ceremony as well.
Or perhaps not after hearing this. ;).
2 Nov 2010, 07:43 #33035
Eve wrote:
Personally I think the staff should be sacked. :boot:


I think the staff should declare jihad on all bacon loving bastards. A veritable fatwa against on foreigners who are friendly to the pork. Filthy swine loving porcine protagonists.
2 Nov 2010, 07:54 #33036
Tu_triky wrote:

I think the staff should declare jihad on all bacon loving bastards. A veritable fatwa against on foreigners who are friendly to the pork. Filthy swine loving porcine protagonists.


OK, want to come over for marinated pork roast?

It the house signature dish! :woot:

Now where was it that I wasnt renewing my vows? :headscratch:
2 Nov 2010, 07:58 #33037
Eve wrote:

OK, want to come over for marinated pork roast?


I'll bring the pork belly sliders. :hehe:


It the house signature dish! :woot:

Now where was it that I wasnt renewing my vows? :headscratch:



Long live the Muslims of Maldives. They hate foreign fornicators and porcine progressives.
2 Nov 2010, 08:02 #33038
Tu_triky wrote:


Long live the Muslims of Maldives. They hate foreign fornicators and porcine progressives.



Where's the beef? :hehe:

One step forward two steps back......... :twisted:
2 Nov 2010, 22:26 #33039
Eve wrote:


Where's the beef? :hehe:


I guess we can all agree on that weighty question ;)
5 Nov 2010, 07:21 #33040
The sirloins I bought for dinner look gorgeous! :woot:

Now there's some beef. :hehe:

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