Kijinmaru, I have to say you don't have the prettiest avatar here. ;)
Words to live by: "Faint heart never fair maiden won." They are all subconsciously cave-ladies looking for good breeding material. So a cave-boy who is both bold and sensitive will get to drag her into his cave. If you hesitate, it will be another cave-boy. :)
Straight men - generally - look for women that are feminine. Inamoto-san, I assume that you want a woman who looks like a woman and behaves like a woman. So it makes sense that she wants a man who looks like a man and behaves like a man. If you are not confident in yourself, she will never be confident about you either.
I never say a very powerfull word to any women except my mother. The word is " I Love You". I'm not like another guy always change girlfriend.I never have girlfriend. So, i don't soo much confident like you say ; Itazura ichiban.
I don't think that we are suggesting "powerful words". It's not smart to walk up to a woman and say "I love you". I am not suggesting that you "always changing girlfriends" either. But don't be shy, that's all.
That's easy for me to say, huh? :hehe: When we see an adorable person (whether we are men or women) our knees always turn into jello. :) I guess the secret is to not act like your are jello - or desperate for affection.
So what happens when the beauty fades? Is that when the cheating starts?
That's not what I meant by my reply. I just meant that what one guy finds attractive physically, another may not.
What I believe is that a person's looks are usually what initially attracts the opposite sex - if you don't find them physically attractive you may not want to pursue a relationship. It's when you get to know a person that you find their inner beauty, their personality, and that's what is most important. To me, anyhow.
That's not what I meant by my reply. I just meant that what one guy finds attractive physically, another may not.
What I believe is that a person's looks are usually what initially attracts the opposite sex - if you don't find them physically attractive you may not want to pursue a relationship. It's when you get to know a person that you find their inner beauty, their personality, and that's what is most important. To me, anyhow.
Yup! And herein lies my problem. I don't have the physical charm to attract boys initially. :beaten:
There's quite a few here who would disagree with you :)
O stop. Really, just believe me.
bmwracer wrote:
But I thought you said you had some students and coworkers smitten?
I do. Contamination in the water.
But in all honesty (really!) I'm not much of a looker. People like me fine... as a friend. I'm always the friend. The female guys can go to to talk about - and ask advice about - the girls they want to date.
It's my lot in life.
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