Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

ok maybe flowers is a lil off.. imo.. Qilver's right, its good to give something romantic (flowers, chocolates) once when you guys are actually together, but if you're just dating.. give her like small things, like bracelet or plushie, and even if she knows that you like her, dont just shower her with stuff, show her what you have to offer (affections), then material things later.

MixxDreamer wrote:ok maybe flowers is a lil off.. imo.. Qilver's right, its good to give something romantic (flowers, chocolates) once when you guys are actually together, but if you're just dating.. give her like small things, like bracelet or plushie, and even if she knows that you like her, dont just shower her with stuff, show her what you have to offer (affections), then material things later.

I agree with MixxDreamer. Too much too soon leaves you no where to build to in the romance department. Flowers before you are even dating seems a little desperate, not romantic. Women like a challenge Subaru not a pushover. ;) Good Luck with your Baltimore lady! :)

Enna wrote:

Women like a challenge Subaru not a pushover. ;) Good Luck with your Baltimore lady! :)

Well said :applaud: Touche Enna! hehehe.. :hehe:

Enna wrote:

I agree with MixxDreamer. Too much too soon leaves you no where to build to in the romance department. Flowers before you are even dating seems a little desperate, not romantic. Women like a challenge Subaru not a pushover. ;) Good Luck with your Baltimore lady! :)

exactly, so...Suba, you heard it all from the ladies, they have good advice for you....
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she does not wear bracelets.. and I have have no clue about the plushie.


my note that I have for the card is simple and not over the top, but in a way it makes her call me back to thank me, without being forcefull.


Wow vertmont teddy bear has some nice stuff but geez cheapest is like $49.95 lol

http://shop.store.yahoo.com/vtbear/classic.html

Didn't we discuss the flowers a month ago? the why and why nots: now it's starting all over again...

got a problem with it?

Then don't reply to the thread.

it's not hard to press the back button.

Dude, we are all sincerely trying to help you here but now you pretend the last dozen pages never happened. This should be in "what bothers you most" thread: people who ask for opinions but don't listen to you anyway :rolleyes:

I'm fucking listening your the one seem to be starting shit up now.

alright alright I will shut up now, I guess I (and the rest of us) want you to stop talking and take action already! :hehe:

you should watch Densha no Otoko if you haven't already

action will come when it's time.

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now now children.

let's all :hug:

The reason I was sorta ticked off is because we all agreed (including subaru himself) that the flowers were a bad idea a month ago. and now he revives the thread again and talks about yes you guess it: what flowers to get :headscratch:

that's really annoying you know (because that means he's not listening at all). I just pointed that out and then he starts yelling.. :beatyou:

Terryb wrote:The reason I was sorta ticked off is because we all agreed (including subaru himself) that the flowers were a bad idea a month ago. and now he revives the thread again and talks about yes you guess it: what flowers to get :headscratch:

that's really annoying you know (because that means he's not listening at all). I just pointed that out and then he starts yelling.. :beatyou:

Hmm, sounds like my mom: she asks for advice from myself and my brothers, then bitches and moans later.

I told her "don't asks for advice, then complain when you don't get the answer you wanna hear...!" :grumble:

Terryb wrote:The reason I was sorta ticked off is because we all agreed (including subaru himself) that the flowers were a bad idea a month ago. and now he revives the thread again and talks about yes you guess it: what flowers to get :headscratch:

that's really annoying you know (because that means he's not listening at all). I just pointed that out and then he starts yelling.. :beatyou:

dude....I know exactly how you feel. I give my friend advice, a lot of advice and he says he appreciates them and that he'll follow up on them, but no he doesn't. Then his friendship with the girl he likes pretty much ended do to some stupid stuff...but yea, it ticks me off to how some people ask but don't listen or ignores the advice.

I remember the flower talk that was going on a while back.
Don't stress it too much. If you feel you deserve an apology from Subaru (which I think you do, because he shouldn't have yelled at you at all) just hope you get one.

SubaruWRX wrote:action will come when it's time.

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59 DAYS?!!! woah..aren't you a bit slow? Before you realize she might be gone already, your flowers will die and the teddy bear you intended to buy will be sold out already :beaten:

Akakage wrote:

59 DAYS?!!! woah..aren't you a bit slow? Before you realize she might be gone already, your flowers will die and the teddy bear you intended to buy will be sold out already :beaten:

If they are sold out then 1800 flowers is sucky.

SubaruWRX wrote:

If they are sold out then 1800 flowers is sucky.

I was talking about "The teddy bear" that might be sold out already and not the flowers.

Oh well, giving any gifts is not a good idea anyway..it's not even near Christmas yet plus, you barely know the woman.

I love people who doubt me.

why are you so uptight? we're just helping you.. ok so bracelet isnt a good idea, but i was only suggesting.. its up to you to figure out what else a girl would want.. plushy = stuff toy.. but like i said, its even better to not give her anything, but show affections. a card? hmm.. thats if shes far away or sick or something.. but i think she'd probably appreciate your appearance and you dont have to wait for 59 days.. if you can drive, and tell your mom that you're spending time at a friend's house (everyone lies) and just drive up there and visit her..

i used to visit my bf all the time by plane or by driving.. he lives in florida, im in california.. so what? that doesnt stop me.. i even lied to my parents, but hey they cant stop me, im old now.