Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

inamoto_yoi wrote:Good relationship but not all people like you.You are so lucky, Eve. If we talk about love, girls always like hansome or smart guy be their boyfriend ? What do you think about that ? i know you can give a good answer or another friend also can give you idea. i always see beautyful girls has hansome boyfriend.Maybe i jealous with who like that :hehe: but i don't believe girl will choose ugly boy to be their boyfriend.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. ;)
And I think Im very lucky in both friend and husband.
But I have to say I think my husband is a handsome guy. :beaten:
They are both terrific guys with an excellent sense of humor.

Ender's Girl wrote:. Besides, we all have different standards and ideals when it comes to these things, looks included. ;)

Thank heavens for that!! :victory:

i can speak English,Chinese,Japan and Malaysia language also little korean language. It so hard to get a good girls and at the same time beautiful.Untill now i still don't have a girlfriend.Maybe because i am ugly? or something wrong with me?

inamoto_yoi wrote:i can speak English,Chinese,Japan and Malaysia language also little korean language. It so hard to get a good girls and at the same time beautiful.Untill now i still don't have a girlfriend.Maybe because i am ugly? or something wrong with me?

Maybe youre going about it the wrong way?

And why are you only wanting a beauty? Maybe there is a great girl out there who is just attractive..... I think more info is needed.

Eve wrote:

Maybe youre going about it the wrong way?

And why are you only wanting a beauty? Maybe there is a great girl out there who is just attractive..... I think more info is needed.

I think that's A LOT of guys' problem: They always seem to want the gorgeous girls. What about us average girls? We need love too! :puppydog:

sadacori wrote:

I think that's A LOT of guys' problem: They always seem to want the gorgeous girls. What about us average girls? We need love too! :puppydog:

Or we less than average girls?

Stop selling yourselves short. There's nothing average (or less than) about you ;)

Anime Dad wrote:Stop selling yourselves short. There's nothing average (or less than) about you ;)

+1.

Anime Dad wrote:Stop selling yourselves short. There's nothing average (or less than) about you ;)

Tell that to most of the guys I've seen. :puppydog:

you missunderstand Eve.i know not only beauty girl i wait , if she is kind but not beauty, i will take her to be my girlfriend.My best friend is kind and hardworking girl.She not beauty but very cute.I don't want she run away from me, so i just friend with her.At early,i feel like i love her but i can't do that because i think she will not close with me again. I not hope my girlfriend is beautyful girl but girl always run away from me except my bestfriend.

inamoto_yoi wrote:you missunderstand Eve.i know not only beauty girl i wait , if she is kind but not beauty, i will take her to be my girlfriend.My best friend is kind and hardworking girl.She not beauty but very cute.I don't want she run away from me, so i just friend with her.At early,i feel like i love her but i can't do that because i think she will not close with me again. I not hope my girlfriend is beautyful girl but girl always run away from me except my bestfriend.

I understand now.
I think you just have to wait for the right one to appear. :fingerscrossed:
WHy do they run do you think? :confused:

@cori and Wyn-chan- NOTHING AVERAGE about you two!! :beatyou: :beatyou: :hehe:

Eve wrote:@cori and Wyn-chan- NOTHING AVERAGE about you two!! :beatyou: :beatyou: :hehe:

Stop looking at my butt. :shamefulcry: :beaten:

Wynter wrote:

Stop looking at my butt. :shamefulcry: :beaten:

Actually, if we are to believe you and Cori-chan, between you your butts would average out to average ;)

Anime Dad wrote:

Actually, if we are to believe you and Cori-chan, between you your butts would average out to average ;)

What are you trying to say there, AD? :sweat:

sadacori wrote:

What are you trying to say there, AD? :sweat:

Simple addition, I assume.

One claims too little and the other too much....

Which makes things just right! ;)

Eve wrote:

Simple addition, I assume.

One claims too little and the other too much....

Which makes things just right! ;)

What she said ^ Thanks Eve!

I don't know why they run from me.Maybe i'm not hansome.What i must do? still friend with my bestfriend or tell she about my heart? i think she will run away from me if i tell her about my heart.

inamoto_yoi wrote:I don't know why they run from me.Maybe i'm not hansome.What i must do? still friend with my bestfriend or tell she about my heart? i think she will run away from me if i tell her about my heart.

Actually I would not risk the friendship. She'd have let you know if she wanted to go out. Id ask her help instead in finding a nice girl. After all she knows what a great guy you are better than anyone. :victory:

Eve wrote:
Actually I would not risk the friendship. She'd have let you know if she wanted to go out. Id ask her help instead in finding a nice girl. After all she knows what a great guy you are better than anyone.


maybe it will take time. :hehe: .Some time i think she close with me just because sympathize. :shakehead: .

Anime Dad wrote:

What she said ^ Thanks Eve!

Any time, AD. ;) :hug:

Good luck , Inamoto-yo!!

Eve wrote:

Actually I would not risk the friendship. She'd have let you know if she wanted to go out. Id ask her help instead in finding a nice girl. After all she knows what a great guy you are better than anyone. :victory:

But what if she's shy and waiting for him to make the first move? I swear, relationships are complicated, ESPECIALLY if it starts off as friendship. Sometimes it's a good thing, but if something negative happens, the friendship may disintegrate.