sadacori wrote:
But what if she's shy and waiting for him to make the first move? I swear, relationships are complicated, ESPECIALLY if it starts off as friendship. Sometimes it's a good thing, but if something negative happens, the friendship may disintegrate.
HEHEEE. I know speak Chinese, so i know that word.It easy for you say but i too hard for me.I afraid if i say that word, she will say "Dui Bu qi. Ni shi hou peng you".In English "Sorry,You just my best friend".I don't want that word coming out from her , so i decide to will keep my feeling even if it very very hard.Now just i can hope she stay as long as possible with me. I cannot say "wo ai ni" to her.I just can say "ni shi wo de hou peng you".In English " You are my best friend" Just that i can say.Not more than that.
But what if she's shy and waiting for him to make the first move? I swear, relationships are complicated, ESPECIALLY if it starts off as friendship. Sometimes it's a good thing, but if something negative happens, the friendship may disintegrate.
I figure if she is interested then she WONT help him find anyone else.
He could say something like, "Maybe you could introduce me to someone as lovely and bright as you are."
I think he is referring to all of your words as one.
Inamoto-san, if she really did say that she just wants to be friends, then I wouldn't advise dreaming too much about seducing her. Women make up their minds pretty quickly about who they want. If didn't say that (and are assuming that), then of course, I'd say go for it.
Women can be very complicated. She said that she cried for a certain reason, but it might have been for a different reason.
Itazura ichiban wrote:I think he is referring to all of your words as one.
Inamoto-san, if she really did say that she just wants to be friends, then I wouldn't advise dreaming too much about seducing her. Women make up their minds pretty quickly about who they want. If didn't say that (and are assuming that), then of course, I'd say go for it.
Women can be very complicated. She said that she cried for a certain reason, but it might have been for a different reason.
THats what I figured but I like to not assume.
People are very complicated for sure. But even so.....
Always having had male friends my entire life I find there is a strong dividing line between friends, and friends who are lovers.
Eve wrote:
THats what I figured but I like to not assume.
People are very complicated for sure. But even so.....
Always having had male friends my entire life I find there is a strong dividing line between friends, and friends who are lovers.
I must prepare my self to crying or happying at next years.
inamoto_yoi wrote:Eve wrote:
THats what I figured but I like to not assume.
People are very complicated for sure. But even so.....
Always having had male friends my entire life I find there is a strong dividing line between friends, and friends who are lovers.
I must prepare my self to crying or happying at next years.
Such is life.
C'est la vie.
Sånn er livet. :beaten:
What works best IMHO when you find that special person: just love them, do what you can for them, tell them why you like them, but don't expect to GET anything from them. The GIVING is where the loving satisfaction is, IMHO. The Buddha asked us to not attach ourselves to expectations of results. I don't know if this makes any sense.