Valentine's Day

ahochaude wrote:Sucking out your money makes it dreadful.

i guess if you view it like that, then it could cost a bundle, is it worth it? not sure, guess if the S.O. is one to keep, i suppose it can be expensive but worth it. a diamond, then financially it can be dreadful, that's three months salary or more for some. :beaten:

qilver wrote:i guess if you view it like that, then it could cost a bundle, is it worth it? not sure, guess if the S.O. is one to keep, i suppose it can be expensive but worth it. a diamond, then financially it can be dreadful, that's three months salary or more for some. :beaten:

Hurts dude. Especially after the intitial "big present", (if you're like me) you seem to always have to find a way to out do yourself from the year before. :beaten: That's where it hurts, my friend. :beaten: :beaten:

ahochaude wrote:Hurts dude. Especially after the intitial "big present", (if you're like me) you seem to always have to find a way to out do yourself from the year before. :beaten: That's where it hurts, my friend. :beaten: :beaten:

heh, i can learn a thing or two from you in the marriage dept.
each year gets worse huh? present after present. $$ $$$ $$$$ $$$$$ :beaten:

i can see where it hurts, the "bar" just keeps raising huh?

qilver wrote:

heh, i can learn a thing or two from you in the marriage dept.
each year gets worse huh? present after present. $$ $$$ $$$$ $$$$$ :beaten:

i can see where it hurts, the "bar" just keeps raising huh?

Oh yeah. And that's when you hear the "Till Death Do You Part" and wonder how long more do you have to go. :beaten: :hehe: :hehe: :hehe: :beaten:

ahochaude wrote:


Oh yeah. And that's when you hear the "Till Death Do You Part" and wonder how long more do you have to go. :beaten: :hehe: :hehe: :hehe: :beaten:

your making me feel depressed about marriage... :rofl:
what's to look forward to?, i am going closer to that path and i am definitely of age to settle down. does it get better? hopefully. :fingerscrossed:

:omg:
i cant belive you guys.
if i ever got married and my husband spoke like u two....id be so pissed
that is so sad, i feel sorry for your wives :shakehead: :shamefulcry:

ahochaude wrote:So, Valentines Day is creeping around the corner. Are you all procrastinators like me? Or are you (whoever has a "signficant other") prepared for the dreadful day? :grumble:

dreadful? shouldn't you be getting the goods instead of giving the goods?

I can't believe how many couples actually end up fighting with each other on Valentine's Day.

What's the damn sense?

BCS!
fighing is fun because after the fight , the making up can begin! :dancing:
and its so adorable when you try to stay angry and keep your mad face on, but your honey makes you smile anyway, even though you try really hard to resist it you bust out laughing :mrgreen:
thats the damn sense :victory:

TANG wrote:if i ever got married

With your 'tude about V-day, don't bet on it.

TANG wrote:BCS!
fighing is fun because after the fight , the making up can begin! :dancing:

yeah, women are evil like that :shakehead: :grumble:

but some of you guys are too obsessed about getting a bigger and better present each year :hehe:

bmwracer wrote:
With your 'tude about V-day, don't bet on it.

HEY!...im growing out of it :shamefulcry:
@Terry, i know some girls are like that, but alot of guys are the same way.
and anyway, it should be your pleasure to make your hunny happy on Vday, if you luv her.........no matter how materialistic she is,
and besides , your problee the one who spoiled her :victory:

Terryb wrote:but some of you guys are too obsessed about getting a bigger and better present each year :hehe:

For me, that comes naturally. As with everything in my life, I always feel the need to better myself from years past. Yeah, perhaps that way of thinking is like a "double-edged sword", so to speak, but the way I see it, at least it helps you to acheive bigger and better things.
And not always will you "win". Victory never comes without defeat.

Ofcourse you want to please your gf/bf, by no means I'm saying that you shouldn't buy a nice big present ;) but there can be always a point when the best isn't good enough anymore.

ahochaude: seems like it's more important to yourself in getting a bigger n better n more expensive gift each year than to your partner :hehe:

Terryb wrote:Ofcourse you want to please your gf/bf, by no means I'm saying that you shouldn't buy a nice big present ;) but there can be always a point when the best isn't good enough anymore.

I haven't reached my limit yet. ;)

Terryb wrote:ahochaude: seems like it's more important to yourself in getting a bigger n better n more expensive gift each year than to your partner :hehe:

Uh, no.
She enjoys it when I buy her nice things. But isn't it "human nature" to be "happier" to get something "better" than you got last year? I mean, the whole repetitive thing (chocolates and/or flowers year after year), I mean c'mon. LAME. --Even if I were a chick. Duh, LAME. I'd bitchslap him. (But I'm not a chick)
The point is, you want to make your other 1/2 feel special. Being original and new would help. And of course, money (not necessarily spending more will do it, but in most cases it will) is a factor.

Also, doesn't giving (more than expected), create such an emotion, for your other 1/2 and yourself?

ahochaude wrote:Uh, no.
She enjoys it when I buy her nice things. But isn't it "human nature" to be "happier" to get something "better" than you got last year? I mean, the whole repetitive thing (chocolates and/or flowers year after year), I mean c'mon. LAME. --Even if I were a chick. Duh, LAME. I'd bitchslap him. (But I'm not a chick)
The point is, you want to make your other 1/2 feel special. Being original and new would help. And of course, money (not necessarily spending more will do it, but in most cases it will) is a factor.

Also, doesn't giving (more than expected), create such an emotion, for your other 1/2 and yourself?

wow, ........either you dont know women at all....or im just a very strange woman(and i am!)
but still.......the way you talk about v day makes me ill
you make it seem like ..something impure or..forced.
shit man , that sux

TANG wrote:

you make it seem like ..something impure or..forced.
shit man , that sux

my thoughts exactly, in the end it shouldn't matter at all what you're buying her - a more expensive gift doesn't make it necessarily better. As for chocolates n flowers, who still buys that shit for valentine? that's maybe good the first time...

*stuffs chocolate in tang's mouth :hehe:

why are u always stuffing chocolates in my mouth?? lol
i think for V day all i would want is my hunny, no mushy mushy
no flowers and no damn chocolates! a teddy mite be ok :victory:

If I did have a girlfriend I would spend our Valentines together cuddling on the couch watching whatever movie she wants. Unfortunatley for me I don't have a girlfriend...

I don't got a GF, so im not expecting anything on Vday, no candy no nutting, even from any of my friends that are girls from my highschool...

But really, what makes VDay so special??? i still don't see the point of it :shakehead:, besides a day for couples to get happy in bed or any other comforting place in the house