Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

ok, I will the good news is that i did get sleep, but it was hard to sleep without thinking about her... As her shift time rolled around 11PM I just had to go to sleep to keep her off my mind which was hard to do.

I thought about calling the front desk, I'm very sure she will know who i'am.

Also i'm no longer at the hotel so I can't call from afar to see her expressions, But I get smiles out of her, when she asked if I was tired or not she gave a smile, just to think that on the first night I met her and her friend, I got no smiles.


She was on her cell with her sister when I was down in the lobby with her, and she said something on the line of, "you heard me talking to my syster yesterday about the track thing?"

SubaruWRX wrote:I thought about calling the front desk, I'm very sure she will know who i'am.

thats the thing, you're not hiding, so it makes no difference whether she knows who you are or not. all you're doing is "feeling her out" and if she is good to go, then ask for per cell number. if not, then just make up small chat and tell her you had a good time chatting with her the other day, thats all.

- niko

I take it it's good that i'm not hiding?

niko2x wrote:should you ask for her number, well what did the elevator and maintenance guys say? hahaha...
- niko

He wanted to know if I got her number yet or not, he told me that it's cool that you play it safe, and you let a girl know you like her without asking too many questions.

SubaruWRX wrote:I take it it's good that i'm not hiding?

From a woman's point of view.

Go For IT!! Never hide!

Enthusiasm (meaning interest in a cool fashion) :)

Is totally the way to go. Women like cool men who like them.

Cary Grant never had woman problems. ;)

You should definitely ask. Think about it, the worst thing that can happen is that she won't give it to you, but that isn't the end of the world. You don't want to be wondering 'what if'. Take a chance! :mrgreen:

Eve wrote:
From a woman's point of view.

Go For IT!! Never hide!

Enthusiasm (meaning interest in a cool fashion) :)

Is totally the way to go. Women like cool men who like them.

Cary Grant never had woman problems. ;)

heh... I told her the oldest women I dated was 37, heh she gave me a funny look but it did not seem to bother her, but I wont date anyone that old again.. I'm looking forward to seing if she wants to go out for dinner when I go back next month.

I'm kinda in a crappy mood right now, have been for the last 24 1/2 hours.

SubaruWRX wrote:

heh... I told her the oldest women I dated was 37, heh she gave me a funny look but it did not seem to bother her, but I wont date anyone that old again.. I'm looking forward to seing if she wants to go out for dinner when I go back next month.

I'm kinda in a crappy mood right now, have been for the last 24 1/2 hours.

dude, you got nothing to lose, so much to gain..
follow nike, and just do it.
If i had the opportunity, and when it comes my way, i should do the same. Good luck. :thumbsup:

qilver wrote:

dude, you got nothing to lose, so much to gain..
follow nike, and just do it.
If i had the opportunity, and when it comes my way, i should do the same. Good luck. :thumbsup:

heh I guess your right, I guess I will call around 2Am at least when I was talking to her, thats when they had less people coming in and out.

SubaruWRX wrote:

heh I guess your right, I guess I will call around 2Am at least when I was talking to her, thats when they had less people coming in and out.

Awesome. Go for it dude :victory:
Who knows what may happen, hopefully something good :fingerscrossed:

K.T.Tran wrote:

Awesome. Go for it dude :victory:
Who knows what may happen, hopefully something good :fingerscrossed:

yea, he is single, and free, anything can happen, and that girl, i am sure is very available, no miles apart is going to seperate them, if it was meant to be. Take a chance, and risk it for love! I have no regrets with my past gf's. go for it! you have the green light. now burn rubber... :hehe:

yeah she's single herself, her last BF must of did something very bad.. she would not talk about it, but she said he would "really" have to do right in order for her to think about just trying to go out with her again...

I'm just guessing but I think he turned gay or something...

Just my guess!

heh should I send her flowers?

SubaruWRX wrote:heh should I send her flowers?

Flowers are ALWAYS aa good thing.
Show class! :thumbsup:
and that youre not CHEAP! :hehe:

well maybe you can help me beacuse you are a women.. Which colour do most girls like?

white roses? red roses?

i'm looking here on 1800 flowers.. I know of some other sites just can't think of the address.

SubaruWRX wrote:well maybe you can help me beacuse you are a women.. Which colour do most girls like?

white roses? red roses?

i'm looking here on 1800 flowers.. I know of some other sites just can't think of the address.

Hi SubaruWRX,

I agree with everyone here. Go for it! :thumbsup: Flowers? Each girl is different in her choice of favorite flower and color. Why not choose an arrangement with some roses in it. The tea roses (small roses) in a soft peachy pink are in lovely color and style. :)

I am just curious why did you mention dating an older woman to her? Is this woman that you are interested in a lot older than you? Just show confidence and treat her with respect and kindness and humor and you will win her heart. Women love a good sense of humor in a man. :good:
Good Luck SubaruWRX! :say_gdluck:

heh you think I should of left that out about dating an older women?

She's 5 years older then me which is not much if you think about it.

I showed respect and kindness the whole time I was around her & some humor.

SubaruWRX wrote:heh you think I should of left that out about dating an older women?

She's 5 years older then me which is not much if you think about it.

I showed respect and kindness the whole time I was around her & some humor.

No I didn't say you should have left that out. I was just curious why you told her about the older woman thing, that's all. Now I get it! :sweat:

Just be yourself and let nature take its course SubaruWRX. It all good! :victory:

SubaruWRX wrote:heh you think I should of left that out about dating an older women?

She's 5 years older then me which is not much if you think about it.

I showed respect and kindness the whole time I was around her & some humor.

What's wrong with dating an older woman anyway. Just go for it. You like her right? Everyone here is supporting you man..:)

Enna wrote:


No I didn't say you should have left that out. I was just curious why you told her about the older woman thing, that's all. Now I get it! :sweat:

Just be yourself and let nature take its course SubaruWRX. It all good! :victory:

I guess I just said it because she said her age, and I did not want her to think that I would not date in that age group..

But nothing over 26, I don't think I can deal with it anymore.

I like this one

it's $89.99

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