Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

Enna wrote:

Hi JeffreyDude,

Welcome. :) I agree with Eve. Do something special and memorable. It doesn't matter if your friends like this other guy, it only matters if the girl you are interested in really likes this other guy. Can you send her a letter by express mail. You don't have special phone cards that make phone calls cheaper in Europe? Can you text mesage her with special messages on her mobile/ cell phone? My friend from France sends me text messages all the time on my cell phone and I live in NY. And he doesn't have too much money. :sweat: :D

Relax JeffreyDude is she is the right one for you, it will all work out. Good Luck! :say_gdluck:

I'm on vacation in Japan, so my mobile doesn't work here. Also she has an old mobile so she can't recieve any mails. Just text messages from another mobile. I just can't think of something I can do from here. Maybe I just have to be patient and hope for a happy end:P

Last time I saw her, she said not to worry and that everything will be alright...I just really hope so..

I'm glad that I can talk about this here though. It makes me happy. Thnx:)

I thought it looked a little plain... :sweat:

I think i'm going with the moonlight one.

SubaruWRX wrote:I thought it looked a little plain... :sweat:

I think i'm going with the moonlight one.

Very elegant, very distinctive and very memorable SubauruWRX!!!! :thumbsup: Excellent choice! I am sure she will love it! :D Especially the color of the vase! :good:

Yeah I'm sure she will, little problem however.. I can't remember her last name.. and her first name which is French is a little is a little hard to say so I use her nickname which is 'Sev.

shoujo22 wrote:I have a "What's bothering you?" question too. I just told one of my friends that I didn't like nattou. I jokingly said that I thought that it was one of the grossest things on the planet. She got mad and said "Seriously, don't make fun of other people's culture." Eh? :confused: How is it that by saying that nattou's gross can be interpreted as my making fun of someone else's culture? :confused: She's heard me say the same thing about gumbo in the same joking fashion and she knows that my grandmother grew up eating the stuff.

As far as making fun of another culture I'd never do that. I would NEVER do that. I just don't understand where she got that from. :pout: Was what I said really that bad? I was just kidding and she went all crazy on me.

Hi shoujo22,

Maybe this belongs in the "Whats Bothering You " thread but Hey you know I am going to give you my opinion anyhow. ;) :D Some people equate insulting their food or dress or music or whatever with insulting their culture. Obviously this person mistook your right to have an opinion about her cultural food from her homeland with an insult. Just explain to her that just because you do not like "nattou" it has nothing at all to do with disliking or ridiculing her culture. She sounds like she needs to lighten up a little! Maybe she has heard one insult too many recently. ;) :confused:

SubaruWRX wrote:Yeah I'm sure she will, little problem however.. I can't remember her last name.. and her first name which is French is a little is a little hard to say so I use her nickname which is 'Sev.

Does someone else who works at the hotel front desk know her full name? Ask for the front desk manager. Maybe you can say you want to write a thank you note to her so they won't get suspicious. Or are you going to talk to her soon and get her phone number..then just ask her what her full name is. :bonk: :)

I see. I feel really bad about it too because I know what its like to feel that someone is making fun of your culture. I didn't know what to say to her so I just let her walk off. I guess I'll apologize and just try to let her know that I didn't mean it that way.

Thanks alot! Sorry for posting in the wrong place.

Enna wrote:

Does someone else who works at the hotel front desk know her full name? Ask for the front desk manager. Maybe you can say you want to write a thank you note to her so they won't get suspicious. Or are you going to talk to her soon and get her phone number..then just ask her what her full name is. :bonk: :)

good thinking... I will try tonight, I had to get up a little early, lol my boss called and he was at the hotel with me when I was with her, and now that I'm back home he say "get any sleep last night?"

"no good looking girl to talk to eh?"

lol I hope they will spell the name right.

shoujo22 wrote:I see. I feel really bad about it too because I know what its like to feel that someone is making fun of your culture. I didn't know what to say to her so I just let her walk off. I guess I'll apologize and just try to let her know that I didn't mean it that way.

Thanks alot! Sorry for posting in the wrong place.

You are welcome shoujo22! Hey it is not up to me to decide which is the wrong thread, that up to the Mods. ;) :)

JeffreyDude wrote:

I'm on vacation in Japan, so my mobile doesn't work here. Also she has an old mobile so she can't recieve any mails. Just text messages from another mobile. I just can't think of something I can do from here. Maybe I just have to be patient and hope for a happy end:P

Last time I saw her, she said not to worry and that everything will be alright...I just really hope so..

I'm glad that I can talk about this here though. It makes me happy. Thnx:)

I think everything will work out for you. Make sure to bring her back something very nice from Japan. Maybe an Omamori or something with a story behind it too that will show you have been thinking of her.

Enna wrote:

Hi JeffreyDude,

Welcome. :) I agree with Eve. Do something special and memorable. It doesn't matter if your friends like this other guy, it only matters if the girl you are interested in really likes this other guy. Can you send her a letter by express mail. :sweat: :D

Relax JeffreyDude is she is the right one for you, it will all work out. Good Luck! :say_gdluck:

Yeah, I totally agree. send her a letter Maybe if you have a picture of both of you together send it to her with a little note or something saying that you are thinking of her. She would totally fall for that, actually I think most chicks would :inlove: :smitten:. :say_gdluck: JD

I'll send her a letter today. Hope it will arrive on time:P
And the gift thing...I got her a very nice gift last week :mrgreen:

So..thanks everyone. It really helped.

JeffreyDude wrote:

Telegram...sounds cool :mrgreen: But I have no clue how to send one:P

Call Western Union. THey are in the phone book
They send them anywhere in the world pretty much. ;)

well I asked my mom she said I should go with 3 Roses..

but then again I don't fuklly trust her, as she really does not want to go with everything I want to do..

she did not yell as much as I thought...

she was more shocked then anything.. she was like "Oh!?"

ok how about this one? same price as the moonlight one...

my mom said most women like red roses :-/

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SubaruWRX wrote:ok how about this one? same price as the moonlight one...

my mom said most women like red roses :-/

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Dang....those are beautiful flowers and put together nicely :applaud:

If it was me....I'd take her words for it "women like red roses" but thats me

SubaruWRX wrote:well I asked my mom she said I should go with 3 Roses..

but then again I don't fuklly trust her, as she really does not want to go with everything I want to do..

she did not yell as much as I thought...

she was more shocked then anything.. she was like "Oh!?"

3 red roses, wow, that is fast. You just met the girl last week?! well, if you want to take the first giant step and take a risk and a big impression, this is the way to do it. Personally, IMO, i would take it slower and get to know her further, wait a few days, then slowly get into it, and the flowers will come eventually, but three red roses!? well, it's your call, ...then go for it then. :bonk:

Eh, it's only three roses. ;)

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I guess I can't get the 3 roses....

so the only one I can really find is these 2.

Love's Embrace


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Three Roses in a Bud Vase


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