Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

SubaruWRX wrote:

I guess I just said it because she said her age, and I did not want her to think that I would not date in that age group..

But nothing over 26, I don't think I can deal with it anymore.

I like this one

http://ww2.1800flowers.com/product.asp?seid=0&p=1122&sv=607&search%5Ftype=s%5Fcollection&fc%5Ftrack1=&cur%5Findex=4&channel=

The Sweetheart Rose Bouquet? Very Nice! :good:

Don't worry about her age it is really more a mattter of chemistry and personality and mystery and wonder and what the heart may need. Have Fun! :D

Akakage wrote:

What's wrong with dating an older woman anyway. Just go for it. You like her right? Everyone here is supporting you man..:)

lol I never said it was wrong :)

Enna wrote:

The Sweetheart Rose Bouquet? Very Nice! :good:

Don't worry about her age it is really more a mattter of chemistry and personality and mystery and wonder and what the heart may need. Have Fun! :D

heh thats not the one they don't allow hot linking, so i posted the picture above.

SubaruWRX wrote:

I guess I just said it because she said her age, and I did not want her to think that I would not date in that age group..

But nothing over 26, I don't think I can deal with it anymore.

I like this one

http://ww2.1800flowers.com/product.asp?seid=0&p=1122&sv=607&search%5Ftype=s%5Fcollection&fc%5Ftrack1=&cur%5Findex=4&channel=

The Sweetheart Rose Bouquet? Very Nice! :good: *Edited to say...go back and look at the Sweetheart Rose Bouquet ( mixed colors in the white vase) for $36.99.

Don't worry about her age it is really more a mattter of chemistry and personality and mystery and wonder and what the heart may need. Have Fun! :D

older women shouldn't be a barrier, most of my ex's have been older than me (2-7 yrs)

Enna wrote:

The Sweetheart Rose Bouquet? Very Nice! :good: *Edited to say...go back and look at the Sweetheart Rose Bouquet ( mixed colors in the white vase) for $36.99.

Don't worry about her age it is really more a mattter of chemistry and personality and mystery and wonder and what the heart may need. Have Fun! :D

heh you like that one?

I thought it looked a little small.

I thought the red roses looked better...

Not that it matter but she is French, maybe they favor a colour over another.

SubaruWRX wrote:

heh you like that one?

I thought it looked a little small.

Maybe I'm just old fashioned. It is small and sweet. ( How tall is it?)** If you start out too big and too expensive, where do you have to go from there? Then after your first date you can always go for the larger more expensive bouquet. Just my humble opionion. You are younger than me so maybe younger women like bigger and more expensive up front. Your call! :D

** Edited I just checked it out some more. The vase is not included!!! :headscratch: :shocked: Forget it! :hehe:

have you considered starting with just 2 roses, maybe of the Fire and Ice variety...
like enna said, work your way up to a full dozen...

or..

like if the pair of roses peaks her interest, then before you head out there, send her 11, and bring the 12th with you and hand it to her personally... (yes, im cheezy, i admit it fully)

:mrgreen:

Hey,

There's something bothering me and I was wondering what you guys think of it. The reason I don't post this in de ' what's bothering you' thread is that is I post it there I'll probably won't get reactions.

Anyway..here's the whole story...

There's a girl that has been a good friend for like a year now. I started really liking her 2 or 3 months ago. I know she likes me too.@Things where going great, but then we both went on vacation (I still am and she is also) We don't have any contact, because she's somewhere in the middle of nowhere in France without internet or anything. Just her mobile phone. I call her sometimes, but it's super expensive from here so I can't call that much.

Now the thing is...there is a guy. Many of my friends like him, but I really don't. He also likes the same girl. Always when I wasn't seeing her, he was calling her and stuff... I think he is still calling her sometimes.

I know that if the girl really likes me, she will feel the same is I see her again, but I'm just afraid that maybe she will start liking that other dude.

Ok, maybe this whole story sounds silly, but what do you think about it?

Thanks for reading.

krim wrote:have you considered starting with just 2 roses, maybe of the Fire and Ice variety...
like enna said, work your way up to a full dozen...

or..

like if the pair of roses peaks her interest, then before you head out there, send her 11, and bring the 12th with you and hand it to her personally... (yes, im cheezy, i admit it fully)

:mrgreen:

Well the thing is I wont be able to go until next month.. thats a long time if I ship the flowers off today and she waits that long for the 1 rose heh.

and it's a 4 1/2 drive to Balitmore if the Rose does not die before then I would be shocked.

im mean, send the 11 just before you leave next month.. maybe time it so that they'll arrive the day of your arrival, or maybe the day before.

some other's i'm looking at..

$49.99

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$59.99

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^^@SubaruWRX:

"Magical Monlight" roses caught my eye also :) ! Good Choice! :good:

Take a look under the "Best Sellers" category on page 1 at "It's All About Love" and on page 2 "Love's First Bloom." What do you think?

JeffreyDude wrote:
I know that if the girl really likes me, she will feel the same is I see her again, but I'm just afraid that maybe she will start liking that other dude.

Ok, maybe this whole story sounds silly, but what do you think about it?

Thanks for reading.

Well, I see your point. You still need to be better than the other guy.
Or more memorable.......

So send her a telegram. More permanent than a cell call and much more romantic, and as you have to think of something special to say in a short space so there is more impact.

Good Luck!!

Oh and before someone else says it, there's probably a thread already for this kind of of thing. :)

Enna wrote:^^@SubaruWRX:

"Magical Monlight" roses caught my eye also :) ! Good Choice! :good:

Take a look under the "Best Sellers" category on page 1 at "It's All About Love" and on page 2 "Love's First Bloom." What do you think?

You mean "It's all about you" on the first page?

I saw that one.. the vase looks a bit bright heh.. i kinda favour the moonlight one more.

It's simple and stright to the point.

lol if you can't tell i'm 100% culeless on flowers.

Eve wrote:

Well, I see your point. You still need to be better than the other guy.
Or more memorable.......

So send her a telegram. More permanent than a cell call and much more romantic, and as you have to think of something special to say in a short space so there is more impact.

Good Luck!!

Oh and before someone else says it, there's probably a thread already for this kind of of thing. :)

Telegram...sounds cool :mrgreen: But I have no clue how to send one:P
And sorry that I opened this thread than :D

Anyway..Thanks for the reply:D

JeffreyDude wrote:Hey,

There's something bothering me and I was wondering what you guys think of it. The reason I don't post this in de ' what's bothering you' thread is that is I post it there I'll probably won't get reactions.

Now the thing is...there is a guy. Many of my friends like him, but I really don't. He also likes the same girl. Always when I wasn't seeing her, he was calling her and stuff... I think he is still calling her sometimes.

I know that if the girl really likes me, she will feel the same is I see her again, but I'm just afraid that maybe she will start liking that other dude.

Thanks for reading.

Hi JeffreyDude,

Welcome. :) I agree with Eve. Do something special and memorable. It doesn't matter if your friends like this other guy, it only matters if the girl you are interested in really likes this other guy. Can you send her a letter by express mail. You don't have special phone cards that make phone calls cheaper in Europe? Can you text mesage her with special messages on her mobile/ cell phone? My friend from France sends me text messages all the time on my cell phone and I live in NY. And he doesn't have too much money. :sweat: :D

Relax JeffreyDude is she is the right one for you, it will all work out. Good Luck! :say_gdluck:

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^^ Yes "Magical Moonlight" is so much more elegant of the two of them! What did you think of "Love's First Bloom" on page 2 of the Best Sellers? Too colorful for you. I guess I favor the muticolor roses the best. That way you cover all of your bases on the flower color question. :)

I have a "What's bothering you?" question too. I just told one of my friends that I didn't like nattou. I jokingly said that I thought that it was one of the grossest things on the planet. She got mad and said "Seriously, don't make fun of other people's culture." Eh? :confused: How is it that by saying that nattou's gross can be interpreted as my making fun of someone else's culture? :confused: She's heard me say the same thing about gumbo in the same joking fashion and she knows that my grandmother grew up eating the stuff.

As far as making fun of another culture I'd never do that. I would NEVER do that. I just don't understand where she got that from. :pout: Was what I said really that bad? I was just kidding and she went all crazy on me.