Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

Get a grip, guys.

This is a REAL relationship thread, not fantasyland. :beaten:

bmwracer wrote:Get a grip, guys.

This is a REAL relationship thread, not fantasyland. :beaten:

You got a good point about the reality of the situation/thread. But how would you answer this: Would you rather stay home drinking the beverage of your choice while looking at pictures of pretty J-Girls or go out on a real date with someone like Britney or Maddona?

Hanzo21 wrote:

You got a good point about the reality of the situation/thread. But how would you answer this: Would you rather stay home drinking the beverage of your choice while looking at pictures of pretty J-Girls or go out on a real date with someone like Britney or Maddona?

:lol:

your two choices makes it easy for me to answer... i'd stay home. :victory:

Enna wrote:

Aaah was that mean? :sweat: That was just the truth, the whole truth and nothin' but the truth. :hehe: They know that it was posted with luv! :hug: Besides these guys aren't paying any attention to me...they are too busy looking at J-girl pics. :naughty: :hehe:

LOL! Seriously, you have one of the sweetest personalities!

Not MEAN mean, but mean as in you fully "told" them. In a humourous way, which is what you meant, and what we got. I'm sure the boys knew you were teasing... I was just surprised because it was the first time I've read you posting that way. Not a bad thing at all! I'm sorry I made you feel uncomfortable with your post. >>insert foot in mouth smilie<<

Hanzo21 wrote:But how would you answer this: Would you rather stay home drinking the beverage of your choice while looking at pictures of pretty J-Girls or go out on a real date with someone like Britney or Maddona?

It's beside the point.

People are asking for advice in this thread, not what personal fantasies each of us has... I think there's more than enough thread material on that topic already.



Sorry for being a hardass... Just trying to stave off chaos. :sweat:

guess you dont consider staying at home watching videos/PVs from pubscent girl bands as a relationship.

krim wrote:guess you dont consider staying at home watching videos/PVs from pubscent girl bands as a relationship.

:lol: :mwahaha: :dielaughing:

Hanzo21 wrote:

You got a good point about the reality of the situation/thread. But how would you answer this: Would you rather stay home drinking the beverage of your choice while looking at pictures of pretty J-Girls or go out on a real date with someone like Britney or Maddona?

Definitely not the second. :beaten:

bmwracer wrote:Get a grip, guys.

This is a REAL relationship thread, not fantasyland. :beaten:

.........................

back to the topic.

qilver wrote:back to the topic.

I'll agree on that. :victory:

bmwracer wrote:
I'll agree on that. :victory:

you wanna talk about Ryoko instead, or the lack of relationships, no one seems to open up and discuss a topic on this thread, ok, recently maybe....some fangirls opening up on her boy problems.....and that dude Sub, from long ago, a year already.

qilver wrote:you wanna talk about Ryoko instead

Nope. I don't know her and I don't have a relationship with her, so why should I talk about her here?

no one seems to open up and discuss a topic on this thread

Then let this thread sink like an anchor.

I've got my Ryoko thread, you guys have got your MM thread, other members have got their j-idol threads... And you, they, and I can drool all we want in those threads.

.some fangirls opening up on her boy problems.....and that dude Sub, from long ago, a year already.

Sub??? :headscratch:


Again, sorry for being a hardass, but the all the threads seem to be straying more and more off topic and I'm the only regular mod here aside from Krim.

If you regular guys can't maintain order and stay on topic on your own without my prodding, what luck do I have with all the noobs showing up??

You guys have no fucking idea how hard it is to be a mod: all you guys have to do is just post your asses off with apparently no goddamn care in the world.

If you've got a problem with it, take it up with Genma and have my ass fired or demoted.

bmwracer wrote:
Sub??? :headscratch:



If you regular guys can't maintain order and stay on topic on your own without my prodding, what luck do I have with all the noobs showing up??

You guys have no fucking idea how hard it is to be a mod: all you guys have to do is just post your asses off with apparently no goddamn care in the world.

If you've got a problem with it, take it up with Genma and have my ass fired or demoted.[/b]

SubaruWRX. The one that asked about giving flowers to a girl or something like that........ :sweat: :sweat:

If you have trouble with us regulars....then the noobs will be impossible to handle :beaten:
Could post this in your comment to the noobs before locking it
:goddammit:

:hehe: :hehe: :hehe:

Looks like I gotta be more careful with my posts :ashamed: :ashamed:

If you were demoted from mod, Jdorama would get out of control :beaten:

K.T.Tran wrote:


SubaruWRX. The one that asked about giving flowers to a girl or something like that........ :sweat: :sweat:

If you have trouble with us regulars....then the noobs will be impossible to handle :beaten:
Could post this in your comment to the noobs before locking it
:goddammit:

:hehe: :hehe: :hehe:

Looks like I gotta be more careful with my posts :ashamed: :ashamed:

If you were demoted from mod, Jdorama would get out of control :beaten:

yeah, that is the guy, subara-wrx, its been a long while since he posted about his relationship issues, etc...

I think it is very apparent at his frustrations at muliple things. I think we all just need to be wary of what and where we post.

ok, some real issues, or should i say, some minor dating in my life.

honestly, i'd say i put more focus on dating more than ever, and it hasn't amounted to much, but recently.

i've been a quite a few dates with different girls, hey...i am single, why not.
anyhow,
i just had a second date, with a girl who is an elementary school teacher. I thought she was ok, and even got her flowers, but not roses.....of course,
i thought it was a nice gesture, and thought i'd take a chance and go on a second date with her. We all know that dating has it's moments of uncertainty, all that i am use to, and have to deal with. But, I just didn't feel it from her, so, i am taking it easy, and kinda backing off. In all fairness, she has freewill and i respect her choice. Afterall, i am not quite certain if i want to continue to pursue her at this point.
I don't want to put so much into it, if i feel that it is not worth further risks, time invested. any thoughts, comments...how about other people, what are your situations?

to expand furthermore, on relationships...

i think i have enough experience to know theoretically what dating is about, and how to go about it, but in all honesty, when i start dating-casually, a new girl, and meet her for first time, it is all new, and like learning to walk again....it is quite humbleling(did i spell that right? lol)

i think, i can only speak for myself, but i think i am at a point in my life, where i am ready, not just for dating, but a serious relationship. It has been two years, almost, since my last breakup-long term relationship. And although all this j-girl/idol stuff is fun fantasy, in all honesty, it is just that...fantasy, and an escape for me...lol

so, i've put more energy into dating, even looked into dating websites, as it is harder to find dates while in the professional working environement(it was easy..sorta while in school...).

so, i think GOD, has really bless me in so many ways, and in the area of dating, although some recent disappointment results, i am hopeful for the future, and will continue my search.

Hang in there, q-san. There is someone out there for you.

I'm so happy that I will never have to do the dating thing again.. I wasn't very good at it either LOL.

Anime Dad wrote:Hang in there, q-san. There is someone out there for you.

I'm so happy that I will never have to do the dating thing again.. I wasn't very good at it either LOL.

yea....the dating scene, is not all that, but it can be an interesting, exciting experience, it depends of course.
it has its moments, and can be stressful, dating/meeting someone new, not knowing is going on, or if anything will materialize.

Whatever you do, just don't over do it like our Subaru friend did. You don't need to buy flowers n gifts all the time, especially when you're 'strangers' still.

just go out and have fun.

Terryb wrote:Whatever you do, just don't over do it like our Subaru friend did. You don't need to buy flowers n gifts all the time, especially when you're 'strangers' still.

just go out and have fun.

i felt that flowers(not roses) were not too strong, and perhaps they could've been, but i felt at the time, it was worth the risk, i had nothing really to lose. But yea, to go over board, i usually wait until atleast after i gone out with a girl a few times, in this case, a second time, maybe a bit early, but hey i took a chance, that i was willing to take.

and like you said, go out and have fun, i think that is what it is all about. Love sometimes follows along.