Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

MissMonika wrote:

LOL. I dunno which is worse. Creepy old guys or creepy, conceited young guys. :bleh:

I'd prefer conceited young guys. The creepy old ones who attempt to ask me out are in their late 50's. The oldest was a 75 year old and I felt uncomfortable even till this day.

Dang, everyone posting on this thread is a homebody... :sweat: :beaten: :hehe:

Wonder if there's a Homebody Online Dating Service? :beaten:

kitakaze wrote:I'm a homebody too...so I think that's one of the reasons we don't really get anyone. I mean, you have to go out to meet people. :puppydog: I'd rather stay at home...but right now, I don't care for the place I live at, so I go out a lot more than I used to. It's kind of scary out there to tell the truth. :sweat:

And I think that's why I have no desire to go "out there". I mean, naturally, people get equipped with how to handle the opposite sex when they're teenagers testing out the waters. I totally missed that part and now I'm in my 20s with no gear.

I'm very much like B-san where I'm sitting around thinking Mr. Right will knock on my door and sweep me away.

cori wrote:The oldest was a 75 year old and I felt uncomfortable even till this day.

Is he a member of this forum? :beaten: :hehe: :hehe: :hehe:

Wynter wrote:Gorgeous face, long hair, and personality? Mr Green I think you have loads working for you.

I got the long hair and possibly personality (until they get to know me :beaten: ), but the face and especially body has to go. :shamefulcry:

kitakaze wrote:I'm a homebody too...so I think that's one of the reasons we don't really get anyone. I mean, you have to go out to meet people. :puppydog: I'd rather stay at home...but right now, I don't care for the place I live at, so I go out a lot more than I used to. It's kind of scary out there to tell the truth. :sweat:

Too bad we all didn't live near each other because at least we'd have people with the same interests to hang out with. Even if we're just watching Jdramas at someone's house. :mrgreen:

Wynter wrote:I'm very much like B-san where I'm sitting around thinking Mr. Right will knock on my door and sweep me away.

But I'm waiting for Ms. Right.

*extra clarification for those possibly trying to make a joke* :beaten:

cori wrote:Too bad we all didn't live near each other because at least we'd have people with the same interests to hang out with. Even if we're just watching Jdramas at someone's house. :mrgreen:

Uh, my place doesn't have that many rooms. :beaten:

Wynter wrote:

And I think that's why I have no desire to go "out there". I mean, naturally, people get equipped with how to handle the opposite sex when they're teenagers testing out the waters. I totally missed that part and now I'm in my 20s with no gear.

I'm very much like B-san where I'm sitting around thinking Mr. Right will knock on my door and sweep me away.

Well, you can always try and find people with your interests. You don't always have to meet people at bars or school. It's hard though...that's why they have stuff like match.com. You didn't miss much though as a teen, Rina. Personally, it sucked for me.

And well, if any of you are in the San Francisco Bay area, just let me know, we can hang out. :)

bmwracer wrote:Dang, everyone posting on this thread is a homebody... :sweat: :beaten: :hehe:

Wonder if there's a Homebody Online Dating Service? :beaten:

We should make a Jdorama chatroom. Everyone's posting so damn quick it's hard to catch up! It could also serve as an online dating thing too. ;)

Wynter wrote:

And I think that's why I have no desire to go "out there". I mean, naturally, people get equipped with how to handle the opposite sex when they're teenagers testing out the waters. I totally missed that part and now I'm in my 20s with no gear.

I'm very much like B-san where I'm sitting around thinking Mr. Right will knock on my door and sweep me away.

You're in your 20's and I consider that young. I wasn't much for going out on dates when I was a teenager either, so I kind of went out on dates in my 20's. I still consider myself to be naive and innocent in a lot of ways because I don't think I really have much experience with guys. :sweat:

cori wrote:

Too bad we all didn't live near each other because at least we'd have people with the same interests to hang out with. Even if we're just watching Jdramas at someone's house. :mrgreen:

True say, but it would be weird to date one of us. I mean, I wouldn't be able to flirt anymore. :beaten:

bmwracer wrote:
Uh, my place doesn't have that many rooms. :beaten:

I'm sure that some of us wouldn't mind sharing rooms. ;) :beaten:

Wynter wrote:

True say, but it would be weird to date one of us. I mean, I wouldn't be able to flirt anymore. :beaten:

Hell, I'd still flirt. :mrgreen: Imo, if you don't flirt with others, life gets boring.

cori wrote:

Hell, I'd still flirt. :mrgreen: Imo, if you don't flirt with others, life gets boring.

LOL! It's not that. It's just, when a guy gets serious, my flirting stops because it like blocks me up. I don't know how to respond when there's intention behind hte flirting. Flirting for good fun is easy and enoyable. But when it's serious, I get nervous a little.

cori wrote:I'm sure that some of us wouldn't mind sharing rooms.

Itai... I don't want my place to be like that... :sweat:

Hell, I'd still flirt. :mrgreen: Imo, if you don't flirt with others, life gets boring.

I think I posted an article about flirting a page or two back........?

bmwracer wrote:
I think I posted an article about flirting a page or two back........?

Yup!

Wynter wrote:

LOL! It's not that. It's just, when a guy gets serious, my flirting stops because it like blocks me up. I don't know how to respond when there's intention behind hte flirting. Flirting for good fun is easy and enoyable. But when it's serious, I get nervous a little.

I kind of know what you mean. Things change a lot when you get into a serious relationship and it tends to lose the fun flirting stuff. I really wish to be in a relationship that I can still have those kind of moments every once in a while.

bmwracer wrote:Itai... I don't want my place to be like that...

Haha, I was just joking. (Or was I? :beaten: ) But if you don't have enough rooms, are you gonna make us sleep outside? :puppydog:

I think I posted an article about flirting a page or two back........?

I shall take a look. Maybe I'll pick up some tips. :beaten:

Yeah, sharing rooms is okay with me :hehe: . Aw, c'mon BMW, be a pal.

Personally, I usually give a girl as long as she needs if she gets nervous about stuff like that. If I really like her, I don't care how experienced she is. Given my history, having a girl with less experience would probably be a good thing.

cori wrote:I kind of know what you mean. Things change a lot when you get into a serious relationship and it tends to lose the fun flirting stuff. I really wish to be in a relationship that I can still have those kind of moments every once in a while.

Hmmm... I don't really have any experience here, but I think once I got in to the relationship, the flirting with that gone guy would come back. It's just in the initial stages where the flirting would stop for me.

I shall take a look. Maybe I'll pick up some tips. :beaten:

I don't think you need them. ;)

kitakaze wrote:Yeah, sharing rooms is okay with me :hehe: . Aw, c'mon BMW, be a pal.

Uh, not with you, bud. :beaten:

I'll take my chances with one of the girls, thank you. :mrgreen:

kitakaze wrote:Given my history, having a girl with less experience would probably be a good thing.

Why is that? Having no experience hasn't worked well for me.

bmwracer wrote:
Uh, not with you, bud. :beaten:

I'll take my chances with one of the girls, thank you. :mrgreen:

Slumber party! :woot:

bmwracer wrote:
Uh, not with you, bud. :beaten:

I'll take my chances with one of the girls, thank you. :mrgreen:

Wha? Wait, that's not what I meant--oh, nevermind. You're missing out BMW :hehe: