Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

Eve wrote:

All things come to she who waits! :beaten:

What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?

Wynter wrote:What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?

I'm on year seven. :sweat:

Wynter wrote:

What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?

Move to California :beaten: Canadian guys are obviously too busy with the moose. :doh:

Wynter wrote:

What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?

Does this pertain relationships, sex, or what?

Wynter wrote:

What's the ballpark we're looking at here, though? I've done five years. How many more?

I'll have to sleep on that and get back to you tomorrow. :beaten:

bmwracer wrote:
I'm on year seven. :sweat:

year four for me. :nut:

sadacori wrote:

Does this pertain relationships, sex, or what?

Good point.

More clarity is needed.

ahochaude wrote:
Yo qilver!
Nothing much.
I'm going to get the big 'D' though.
I can't stand her (wife).
She came in April and stayed for 2 1/2 wks and I was like, wtf, it ain't gonna work no more.
So it's pretty much 'Ghandis' (gone- dees) - just in case, 'cause it's an Island slang.

wow, it seems as if you just got married not too long ago. hope it works out with the lawyers and not dragged out too long.

sadacori wrote:Hopefully we all can get lucky too. :mrgreen:

some might just prefer to get lucky on a nightly basis. :naughty:

niko2x wrote:hope it works out with the lawyers and not dragged out too long.

You said it. :fingerscrossed: :sweat:

bmwracer wrote:
You said it. :fingerscrossed: :sweat:

i hope you said that not from a personal experience. :shakehead:

niko2x wrote:i hope you said that not from a personal experience. :shakehead:

Sort of.

Mine was pretty amicable, but a coworker's was ugly-messy: it must've cost him around $30K+ in lawyer's fees, thanks to his wife... :sweat:

Aya_Man_1988 wrote:Hello everyone,

This is an interesting topic. If my mind is correct, I haven't posted on this topic here before, so let me introducte myself to all of you. My name is Remy. I am currently 20 years of age and live in the Netherlands. I'm a guy, by the way.

Now, I respect the choices of every woman on the planet, and will never stop doing so, but I have not yet had the pleasure of a girlfriend to go out with, give gifts to and to be there for her when she's feeling down, or is in pain. Why is that, I wonder?

I do have to say that, because of my appearance, I'm a shy around the females. In the eyes of them, I am an ugly person and they do not wish to date me, or spend time with me at all. Of course, there are also other types of girls around. The kind that is nice to me. I've met a few, but none of them is interested in me in the same way. Friends, is what we are.

HI Aya man,

If i'm piling on I have to appologize. I would have to agree with most of the comments directed towards you when it comes to not just Jpn women, but women in general. They like, no LOVE confident individuals who are proud to be themselves. (how do you explain Camel-Joe-looking Jay-Z getting someone like Beyonce?)

Point is that you prolly have to feel better about yourself and like yourself before some honey notice & like you. I'm not talking about OVER-confidence either, because that is kinda lame. Don't get me wrong, a little humble-ness & self-defication (couldn't resist :rofl: ) can carry you but so far. Just get a little alpha-male in ya and see where that goes. I've see your photos, you don't look so bad.

Aya_Man_1988 wrote:As some of the people close to me know, and some of you here may have already guessed, I have a weakness for Japanese women. In my opinion, they are the most beautiful women on the entire planet.

My wife can agree with you in this statement (like Aya, she is from okinawa as well), but there are great looking women anywhere! Don't discriminate, as long as she is cool with you that's all that matters, whether she's Dutch or otherwise. :victory:

niko2x wrote:some might just prefer to get lucky on a nightly basis. :naughty:

I dont think that will take 7 years.... :hehe:

bmwracer wrote:
Sort of.

Mine was pretty amicable, but a coworker's was ugly-messy: it must've cost him around $30K+ in lawyer's fees, thanks to his wife... :sweat:

My ex cost me 3X that much and two years in court. I'll never be able to pay back my mother. :sweat:
And I'll never speak a word to him again... :angry:
After 4 years he is still emailing, texting and calling. What a squid. :shakehead:

niko2x wrote:My wife can agree with you in this statement (like Aya, she is from okinawa as well), but there are great looking women anywhere! Don't discriminate, as long as she is cool with you that's all that matters, whether she's Dutch or otherwise. :victory:

LOL! My wife would agree with you (She's Dutch) and so would I: there are a LOT of very good-looking Dutch women around too.. :applaud:

Evie wrote:
My ex cost me 3X that much and two years in court. I'll never be able to pay back my mother. :sweat:
And I'll never speak a word to him again... :angry:
After 4 years he is still emailing, texting and calling. What a squid. :shakehead:

Ouch! :shocked:

Anime Dad wrote:LOL! My wife would agree with you (She's Dutch) and so would I: there are a LOT of very good-looking Dutch women around too.. Applaud

awesome. see, aya_man, we shouldn't be picky. serious HAWT-ness worldwide. :victory:

niko2x wrote:awesome. see, aya_man, we shouldn't be picky. serious HAWT-ness worldwide. :victory:

:thumbsup:

That's not to say I wouldn't have dated a Japanese girl when I was younger: There were just NO Asians in the area I grew up in back then :(

I think we're starting to scare all the kids single. :rofl:

Eve wrote:My ex cost me 3X that much and two years in court. I'll never be able to pay back my mother. :sweat:
And I'll never speak a word to him again... :angry:
After 4 years he is still emailing, texting and calling. What a squid. :shakehead:

Yeech.

Yeah, my coworker also has a teen daughter and college-age son that are also in the mix: custody, college funds, insurance, yada yada yada... :sweat:

I'm really really impressed that he can smile and deal with it so calmly. :applaud:

Kijinnmaru wrote:I think we're starting to scare all the kids single. :rofl:

I think that's what happened to me. My best friend got married when he was 20, I was still in the Navy at the time. Then I came home on leave a couple months before I got out. By then he'd been married a couple years, had 1 kid, house payment, etc. etc.

I took one look at that and said, "You've got to be nuts!!" :nut:

But it worked for him. All these years (and 3 kids) later they're still married and loving it. :applaud: