Is it really all that bad that when a (hunkalicious) gorgeous Japanese (or Asian) guy walks by and my husband catches me do a double (sometimes, triple) take?

Or that everytime I log on and see Hideaki Takizawa, I want to spontaneously combust?

(Not my fault God make Japanese guys so hot!)

-Sorry, if these upsets anyone, not trying to offend-

Mikiko

Mikiko wrote:

Is it really all that bad that when a (hunkalicious) gorgeous Japanese (or Asian) guy walks by and my husband catches me do a double (sometimes, triple) take? Or that everytime I log on and see Hideaki Takizawa, I want to spontaneously combust? (Not my fault God make Japanese guys so hot!) -Sorry, if these upsets anyone, not trying to offend- Mikiko

LOL...

As most women would be offended to the point of frying panning their husbands for ogling women, I'm sure most men would feel the same about their wives exhibiting reciprocal behavior.

Mikiko --> .oO(Hideaki Takizawa)

If you've seen GTO, remember the reaction of Eikichi when he saw that giant poster of Takenouchi Yutaka on Azusa's wall?


Hehe,
PCM

I'd probably get more than a frying pan if I oogled other women... As long as you are window shopping, I think it's okay. If you act on those urges though...

I'm sorry you don't have a station airing Japanese programming. You are missing out on Yoshitsune. There's more than 40+ episodes with Takizawa.

I do that with Japanese women all the time...but I'm single right now, so I guess it doesn't matter .

Although I think there might be more baggage in my case, since a lot of American guys I've seen are retards, and think Japanese and Asian women in general are more exotic, easily controlled...etc.

But like Dochira said, just don't act on impluses .
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i think its kinda bad
if i saw my guy doing that id smack him upside the head
u can only do that kinda thing when yer guy isnt around!
control yerself!
of course its ok ta look, just dont let him catch you looking

Mikiko wrote:

Is it really all that bad that when a (hunkalicious) gorgeous Japanese (or Asian) guy walks by and my husband catches me do a double (sometimes, triple) take?

no, it is not ok. if it were a gorgeous GIRL, then it'd be alright.

jholic wrote:

no, it is not ok. if it were a gorgeous GIRL, then it'd be alright.

dont be a butt hole

pcmodem wrote:

Mikiko --> .oO(Hideaki Takizawa) Hehe, PCM

Hell yeah!!! It's bad.. sometimes I have to hit the JDorama.com link (@ top) several times just to see him before I can get off (ahem...I mean log off).

dochira wrote:

I'd probably get more than a frying pan if I oogled other women... As long as you are window shopping, I think it's okay. If you act on those urges though...

As tempting as it is, I've never been lucky (or unlucky) enough to see the super gorgeous guys when I'm alone...so, so far - so good! Besides, I would be good...? Okay, I'd try...

dochira wrote:

I'm sorry you don't have a station airing Japanese programming. You are missing out on Yoshitsune. There's more than 40+ episodes with Takizawa.

Now that's just cruel!! That one really hurt...

TANG wrote:

u can only do that kinda thing when yer guy isnt around! control yerself! of course its ok ta look, just dont let him catch you looking

I wish it was that easy. Here in (hell) Maryland, there aren't many Asian (let alone Japanese) men to google. So when I see one, my eyes tend to have a mind of their own. And of course, my husband knows how I love Japanese men - so chances are, he sees them before I do (then he probably counts the seconds between each time I look in their direction).


Mikiko

jholic wrote:

no, it is not ok. if it were a gorgeous GIRL, then it'd be alright.

Actually, sometimes I wish a really hot chick (not Rob Schneider) would walk by and get his attention at the same time the hot Asian guy walks by so that I can take my time drooling...ahhh...what a dream.

The other day he just gave me a look when I asked if we could eat @ a Japanese restaurant. I guess that meant "NO!".

I wonder why...


Mikiko

Mikiko wrote:

I wish it was that easy. Here in (hell) Maryland, there aren't many Asian (let alone Japanese) men to google. So when I see one, my eyes tend to have a mind of their own. And of course, my husband knows how I love Japanese men - so chances are, he sees them before I do (then he probably counts the seconds between each time I look in their direction). Mikiko

LOL! Even here on Jdorama.com, the only nihonjin of which I am aware off the top of my head are myself and Ahoch'.
-PCM

pcmodem wrote:

LOL! Even here on Jdorama.com, the only nihonjin of which I am aware off the top of my head are myself and Ahoch'. -PCM

So...you're uh, Japanese you say....


Mikiko

Whoa, whoa, whoa, you're husband will have to buy blinders for you....
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Mikiko wrote:

Is it really all that bad that when a (hunkalicious) gorgeous Japanese (or Asian) guy walks by and my husband catches me do a double (sometimes, triple) take? Or that everytime I log on and see Hideaki Takizawa, I want to spontaneously combust? (Not my fault God make Japanese guys so hot!) -Sorry, if these upsets anyone, not trying to offend- Mikiko

His reaction is bad....for you

I'm pretty flexible for this kinda stuff, even for being a girl and all, so I'm told. I *know* guys look. SO DO GIRLS. It doesn't mean that either party is gonna act on it, it's natural, we look at what's attractive to us. As much as you adore your spouse or lover and think he/she is gorgeous, they more than likely aren't the only person on the planet you are attracted to

I don't see it as a big deal to glance, just being realistic. However, if I was with a guy and it got to the point where we couldn't walk out the damn door each day without him oogling and drooling like a dope, then I'd consider it blatant, offensive, and rude. Occasional and subtle is fine though, I'm understanding of that and accept it.

And yeah, you can look, but your spouse or lover doesn't wanna hear "Wow he/she has a hot @$$!". Keep thoughts like that to yourself Even if you think your spouse or lover is hot too, they probably don't wanna hear that.

i try ta be realistic but still
i think its so disrespectful to do it in front of yer hunny.
when he isnt there go on ahead,
id be pissed of my guy did it

Mikiko wrote:

Now that's just cruel!! That one really hurt...

Didn't mean to be cruel. Do you use Bittorrent? If so, you can grab all the episodes on d-addicts. If not, let me know. Maybe we can work something out.

Mikiko wrote:

Is it really all that bad that when a (hunkalicious) gorgeous Japanese (or Asian) guy walks by and my husband catches me do a double (sometimes, triple) take?

Nah. Happens to me, too. When my hubby makes a remark about it, I just go "Hey, I married you, didn't I?" Besides, he's got this tiresome devotion to Milla Jovovich, so why can't I have my Hot Asian Guys?!

Actually, with all the Jdrama I watch, he's started to become devoted to Yonekura Ryoko. Anytime he sees me watching a Jdrama, he's like "Is that Ryoko-gal in there?" If I say no, he wanders off. If I say yes, he sits down to watch.

So there! I don't feel the least bit guilty!

--Maria

(I adore my hubby, of course. But there's no harm in looking!)

maybe u guys are right............
BUT!
dont matter to me
bcs i dont have a guy , so i can look, touch, lick . and everthing else i wanna do

Szabotage wrote:

Actually, with all the Jdrama I watch, he's started to become devoted to Yonekura Ryoko.

Sounds like a cool guy.

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(I adore my hubby, of course. But there's no harm in looking!)

There's the key: lookie, but no touchie...

Mikiko wrote:

So...you're uh, Japanese you say.... Mikiko

Yep, but I'm a two-bagger. You have to put a 2nd bag over my head, in case the first bag rips.
-PCM

pcmodem wrote:

LOL! Even here on Jdorama.com, the only nihonjin of which I am aware off the top of my head are myself and Ahoch'.

did you mean FROM japan? i'm japanese and i thought doch was too?

but i'm not a frequent member like you guys are. i'm also not fluent in nihongo like AC is.