Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

I'm back! :victory:

I didn't really want to spent 50$ to send a message... :usuck: I'll take my chances with my cute neighbor or the cute girl I always met while doing laundry. :inlove:

tabana wrote:I'm back! :victory:

I didn't really want to spent 50$ to send a message... :usuck: I'll take my chances with my cute neighbor or the cute girl I always met while doing laundry. :inlove:

Cute neighbor?! Do tell!

:hehe:

Nothing much going on here. Just a few hellos and a few rides in the elevator together. If only it had broken down between floor for an hour or two. :hehe: She looked nice.

I know where she lives (30 feet away), but I doubt I get anything besides "WTF you want" if I ever knocked on her door. :puppydog:

Wynter wrote:Yea, but you must know how to work your hotness to get a man just by going out a night.

I wouldnt call it hotness :shakehead:
I just know enough to ask a man questions about him one after another so he can talk keep talking about himself.
They always find me a brilliant conversationalist. :hehe:
Been like that since I was a teen. :bonk:

tabana wrote::hehe:

Nothing much going on here. Just a few hellos and a few rides in the elevator together. If only it had broken down between floor for an hour or two. :hehe: She looked nice.

I know where she lives (30 feet away), but I doubt I get anything besides "WTF you want" if I ever knocked on her door. :puppydog:

Go there with a bowl and ask for salt... or sugar... or flour... or an egg. Say you're cooking and you desperately need the ingredient.

I thought about that, but there are like 3 groceries store open 'till midnight in a 3 blocks radius, plus like 50 or more convenience stores. 60% open 24h a day. Maybe I just don't have confidence, but that might sound weird. :pout:

I guess I could ask for good ramen, I'm having a hard time to find some. :sweat:

Eve wrote:
I wouldnt call it hotness :shakehead:
I just know enough to ask a man questions about him one after another so he can talk keep talking about himself.
They always find me a brilliant conversationalist. :hehe:
Been like that since I was a teen. :bonk:

LOL That's a great idea. :mrgreen:

tabana wrote:LOL That's a great idea. :mrgreen:

Works well on women too, Im sure.... :hehe: :hehe:

tabana wrote:I guess I could ask for good ramen, I'm having a hard time to find some. :sweat:

Sounds like a solid, practical idea to me. :mrgreen:

Eve wrote:
I wouldnt call it hotness :shakehead:
I just know enough to ask a man questions about him one after another so he can talk keep talking about himself.
They always find me a brilliant conversationalist. :hehe:
Been like that since I was a teen. :bonk:

O! O! So THAT'S the secret! >>takes notes from guru Eve<<

Eve wrote:Works well on women too, Im sure.... :hehe: :hehe:

Surely. A good way to see if you have common interest. :D

Wynter wrote:

Sounds like a solid, practical idea to me. :mrgreen:

I'm too afraid to get answered by a guy. :ashamed:

I guess I'm back to raising a few dozen cats. :pout:

tabana wrote:

I guess I could ask for good ramen, I'm having a hard time to find some. :sweat:

that's not a bad idea... or use an old trick, throw sumin into her backyard and knock on her door... -i hope the house has fences-


hmmm... my BF is 2 years younger then me. wat's ya input on that. btw i'm 20... my family's having a hard time.

LuvBatafurai wrote:that's not a bad idea... or use an old trick, throw sumin into her backyard and knock on her door... -i hope the house has fences-

We live on the same floor (apartment building), so no fence or backyard. :puppydog: 28 stories high and I'm too scared to climb down to her balcony. :P

LuvBatafurai wrote:hmmm... my BF is 2 years younger then me. wat's ya input on that. btw i'm 20... my family's having a hard time.

2 of my friends are in this situation. In one couple, 2 years older, the other one, 3. It was a little bit weird at first 'cause we're used to guy being older and girl younger not the opposite. After 5 years, they are still together. I don't think their parents had problems with that, or at least I've never heard of it.

I had a girlfriend that was 18 and I was 17 at that time. I had no problems whatsoever. We used to have a good laugh about her going to jail, because I was a minor... :hehe: That was before my 2 other friends. I guess it's ok when it's you, for other people, it's weird. :sweat:

You are both legal age. Unless you are in a position of authority (like teacher / student), no problem there. If he's new, your parents might get used to it after a while or when they know him better...

one of my ex's is 3 yrs older than me, and we went to the same high school.. :lol: rarely spoke to her, cause she was a senior by the we met.
anyways, as long as your bf isn't acting like a child, your parents will get used to him. unless of course, they're super ultra traditional in definition of a family. but really, if he acts like an adult, they'll see him as an adult, and the age difference wont matter as much.

Yup. They might be more scared if you bring home a 40 something year old guy. :sweat:

tabana wrote:Yup. They might be more scared if you bring home a 40 something year old guy. :sweat:

My grandfather was 12 years younger than my grandmother... :sweat:

Age doesn't matter in my family, but I've never gone out with a guy younger than me. I prefer older men. Like a lot older.

Nothing wrong with that :)

Wynter wrote:Age doesn't matter in my family, but I've never gone out with a guy younger than me. I prefer older men. Like a lot older.

I'm sure Ralph will be happy to hear that. :beaten:

Wynter wrote:Age doesn't matter in my family, but I've never gone out with a guy younger than me. I prefer older men. Like a lot older.

Dont give these guys ideas, Wyn-chan.. :shakehead: :hehe:


Just keep asking them questions and they'll be eating out of your hand! ;)

Wynter wrote:

My grandfather was 12 years younger than my grandmother... :sweat:

Age doesn't matter in my family, but I've never gone out with a guy younger than me. I prefer older men. Like a lot older.

i prefer to date only younger women.... :bonk:
all my ex gf's were younger than me, except my first ex gf...she was just a little older than me.

Tabana:

well, here's an idea. A guy did this to my sis and it almost got her. lol... get the cutest puppy ever and make it run to her, hopefully she likes doggies. that's a good start. hehehe...


Thanks all... not i have a few point of views... i guess, as long as i can live with it then it's ok. He's a lot more mature then most 18 year old i know. *sighs*

my relationship has lots of prob dealing with my parents... *sniffs* he's white, i'm asain (hmong), he's younger... and i haven't told anyone on my side but my sisters about him. he told his whole world bout me... i feel bad. *sniffs*

bmwracer wrote:
I'm sure Ralph will be happy to hear that. :beaten:

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Eve wrote:

Dont give these guys ideas, Wyn-chan.. :shakehead: :hehe:

LOL! I bet the guys here are really 11 year old girls. So no worries. ;) :rofl:

Just keep asking them questions and they'll be eating out of your hand! ;)

But I thought guys didn't like talking... :headscratch:

LuvBatafurai wrote:my relationship has lots of prob dealing with my parents... *sniffs* he's white, i'm asain (hmong), he's younger... and i haven't told anyone on my side but my sisters about him. he told his whole world bout me... i feel bad. *sniffs*

I wouldn't feel bad about it. He CAN do it, and you can't. I totally know where you're coming from. Just be patient. If he's really important to you, you'll find a way. :)