kenjilina wrote:
i would use ai eg. ai shiteiru to say i love you.
not too sure about koi. i hear it used more like koibito for girl/boyfriend or koi suru to mean that you've fallen for someone.
Kenjilina's got it on that one :victory:
You would never say "koi shiteiru" to someone to say that you love them.
It can, however, be used poetically, like in the following:
g—t‚Ì‹ž“s‚É‚ÍAŽ„‚Í—ö‚µ‚Ü‚µ‚½B(Kouyou no kyouto ni ha, watashi ha koi shimashita.)
"I fell in love with the golden leaves of Kyoto's autumn."
Don't get me wrong, that's not to say that 'koi' is for inanimate and 'ai' is for animate objects.
It's very hard to describe the difference between 'ai' and 'koi'.
To me, 'ai' is a much deeper love for someone than 'koi'. Not to say that 'koi' is a term that can be used lightly, but it conjures up different feelings than 'ai'.
You can sometimes hear things like,
Å‹ßA—ö‚µ‚ĂȂ¢‚È[B(saikin, koi shitenai na-.)
"I haven't found anyone I like lately..."
(rough translation)
Which brings me to a grammatical point about the two.
You ‰½‚© ‚𠈤‚·‚é (nanika WO ai suru), but you ‰½‚© ‚É —ö‚·‚é (nanika NI koi suru).
I know that doesn't help that much, but it's one of those things that you have to use and hear in context to understand.
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