Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

cori wrote:^ Too bad I wasn't in the same area as you and beem because I'd totally hang out with you guys! Not sure about the romance thing because I doubt either of you would be interested in me. :sweat:

You should have more confidence in yourself. :sweat:

Wynter wrote:

You should have more confidence in yourself. :sweat:

So should you. :glomp: The same applies to you :)

Anime Dad wrote:

LOL, I doubt that, since you're single, fairly normal AND love J-Dramas :hehe:

AND I'm Japanese-American too. :hehe: Oh wait, maybe that might be a strike against me since I'm not ~Japanese~ enough? :beaten:

Anime Dad wrote:

So should you. :glomp: The same applies to you :)

I have confidence in being a lost cause. :beaten:

Wynter wrote:

You should have more confidence in yourself. :sweat:

True, but I was only speaking the truth in this case. :sweat:

Anime Dad wrote:

So should you. :glomp: The same applies to you :)

Agreed.

cori wrote:

True, but I was only speaking the truth in this case. :sweat:

No, you were speculating. You don't know if they would get involved with you or not because you DON'T live close by.

Unless you've already asked them out and they rejected you. :beaten:

cori wrote:

AND I'm Japanese-American too. :hehe: Oh wait, maybe that might be a strike against me since I'm not ~Japanese~ enough? :beaten:

No, I doubt that too. You have the added advantage of being a natural English speaker AND fluent in Japanese: Makes you an ideal travelling-to-Japan companion :hehe:

I find it amazing that you two are so obviously blind to your own good points, but very aware of any perceived shortcomings... :headscratch:

Anime Dad wrote:I find it amazing that you two are so obviously blind to your own good points, but very aware of any perceived shortcomings... :headscratch:

Eh?! I have't listed any of my shortcomings. :P

Wynter wrote:

Eh?! I have't listed any of my shortcomings. :P

:lol: I didn't say you had LISTED them... :hehe:

Anime Dad wrote:

:lol: I didn't say you had LISTED them... :hehe:

I didn't say you said I did. :P

Wynter wrote:

No, you were speculating. You don't know if they would get involved with you or not because you DON'T live close by.

Unless you've already asked them out and they rejected you. :beaten:

Haha, good point. :P I guess I don't want to think about anyone that way if they live across the ocean. Too complicated and I don't want to deal with it, especially because of the last guy I was involved with.

Anime Dad wrote:

No, I doubt that too. You have the added advantage of being a natural English speaker AND fluent in Japanese: Makes you an ideal travelling-to-Japan companion :hehe:

No way am I fluent in Japanese. :( I'm probably 20% good at it. In JPLT terms, I'd probably pass the #3, but the kanji will probably kill me, so maybe not. :sweat:

Anime Dad wrote:I find it amazing that you two are so obviously blind to your own good points, but very aware of any perceived shortcomings... :headscratch:

I'm just going by my track record with guys. I've only had one true boyfriend and the others were just people who rejected me in some way or another. Or liked me, but not enough to be committed. :(

cori wrote:
No way am I fluent in Japanese. I'm probably 20% good at it. In JPLT terms, I'd probably pass the #3, but the kanji will probably kill me, so maybe not(

Sorry, I consider anyone better than me to be fluent :P Unfortunately, it doesn't take much to have better Japanese than me :)

You could probably get around Japan OK though?

cori wrote:^ Too bad I wasn't in the same area as you and beem because I'd totally hang out with you guys! Not sure about the romance thing because I doubt either of you would be interested in me. :sweat:

Can't you move out here? :beaten:

bmwracer wrote:
Can't you move out here? :beaten:

Only if you let me crash at your place. :beaten: I'll even help you pay for rent! :mrgreen:

cori wrote:Only if you let me crash at your place. :beaten: I'll even help you pay for rent! :mrgreen:

I've got four bedrooms. ;)

bmwracer wrote:
I've got four bedrooms. ;)

Woohoo! I am so there. :beaten: Be careful with your offer...I might just show up on your doorstep one day!!!! :mrgreen:

cori wrote:Woohoo! I am so there. :beaten: Be careful with your offer...I might just show up on your doorstep one day!!!! :mrgreen:

I get home a little after 4PM. :P

bmwracer wrote:
I get home a little after 4PM. :P

Wow, that early, eh? Nice. :) And one advantage of me moving there--you wouldn't need to convert all those dramas to DVD for me. :beaten:

cori wrote:^ Too bad I wasn't in the same area as you and beem because I'd totally hang out with you guys! Not sure about the romance thing because I doubt either of you would be interested in me. :sweat:

yeah, that'll be cool, to hang out with you. If you ever come to LA area you know who to call, me and B.

Romance is a whole new ballgame...in sports terms..
i think i forgot how to play the sport...lol
why would you think any of us guys would not be interested in you?
i can say likewise...you not interested in us...
so..it would be circumstancial, and it really would depend, but i can say atleast on a friendship level, it'll be cool to hang out, we all have "Jdorama" and it's culture in common with.