Love/Relationship/Potential Relationship Advice

cori wrote:

If it's a well-fitted T-shirt, then that's cool.

O, I dunno. I like the baggy, comfortable look. :D

Wynter wrote:O, I dunno. I like the baggy, comfortable look. :D

I think I'd prefer something in between: too baggy makes you look skinny and too tight makes you look egocentric.

bmwracer wrote:
I think I'd prefer something in between: too baggy makes you look skinny and too tight makes you look egocentric.

Ahhh true say. The same applies to pants as well. When gets wear really tight pants it's really hard for me to keep a straight face. When they wear way baggy pants... again, hard to keep a straight face.

Tho I have to admit, I really like it when guys wear sweat pants. I dunno why. They look so comfortable that I wish I could crawl onto their laps.

Wynter wrote:Ahhh true say. The same applies to pants as well. When gets wear really tight pants it's really hard for me to keep a straight face. When they wear way baggy pants... again, hard to keep a straight face.

Yup.

Been wearing 501s forever... :thumbsup:

Tho I have to admit, I really like it when guys wear sweat pants. I dunno why. They look so comfortable that I wish I could crawl onto their laps.

Hmm.

Guess I'd better head over to the sporting goods store. :beaten:

bmwracer wrote:
Hmm.

Guess I'd better head over to the sporting goods store. :beaten:

Don't forget to drop by the grocery store. Cookies work brilliantly to lure me close as well.

On a guy's sweat-pant clad lap, with cookies, and a blanket... and watching Bourne?! >>dreams of such a christmas<<

Wynter wrote:Don't forget to drop by the grocery store. Cookies work brilliantly to lure me close as well.

On a guy's sweat-pant clad lap, with cookies, and a blanket... and watching Bourne?! >>dreams of such a christmas<<

Truth to tell, it'd be a tough task to concentrate on Bourne with all that going on... :sweat:

bmwracer wrote:
Truth to tell, it'd be a tough task to concentrate on Bourne with all that going on... :sweat:

That's true, munching on cookies takes a lot of my attention. :beaten:

Wynter wrote:That's true, munching on cookies takes a lot of my attention. :beaten:

That's what I was thinking. :P

bmwracer wrote:
That's what I was thinking. :P

:hehe:

Hmmmm... I don't know if this a relationship-type thing, but on Friday I went with my sister to purchase baby clothes. I've "adopted" a 7month old baby boy for christmas. In other words, I'm playing Santa for this child who is part of a family in need, and getting him all sorts of presents.

Anyways, while shopping, my sister said "doesn't this make you want to have a baby?"

When I got home and put the clothes away I realized that it DID. I really wish I had my own family during this Christmas season. I mean, having someone to share a baby's first christmas with is something I really want. But hte more I want, the more it seems so far away.

I've sorta left my love life up to fate. Whatever is meant to happen, will happen, but this passive tone doesn't seem to be helping. I'm getting a little impatient... :sweat:

Wynter wrote:I'm getting a little impatient... :sweat:

At 26?? :headscratch:

It'll happen when it happens... Forcing the issue is an invitation to disaster, IMO.

bmwracer wrote:
At 26?? :headscratch:

I know I know, but in my community that's considered marrying age. Besides, I want to have a baby before I'm 30. It's a personal goal.

It'll happen when it happens... Forcing the issue is an invitation to disaster, IMO.

I'm not forcing... I'm just sitting impatiently for it to come. :nut:

Wynter wrote:I know I know, but in my community that's considered marrying age. Besides, I want to have a baby before I'm 30. It's a personal goal.

Sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself. :sweat:

bmwracer wrote:
Sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself. :sweat:

I am, and I know am, and at times I get really depressed about it. But I don't know how to get out of this funk. Hopefully it's just a phase. I'll get over it soon. :sweat: :fingerscrossed:

Wynter wrote:I am, and I know am, and at times I get really depressed about it. But I don't know how to get out of this funk. Hopefully it's just a phase. I'll get over it soon. :sweat: :fingerscrossed:

See what winter weather and the holidays will do to you?

You weren't this way six months ago. ;)

bmwracer wrote:
See what winter weather and the holidays will do to you?

You weren't this way six months ago. ;)

I was 25 six months ago. :mecry:

Isn't that weird? I have no worries about getting older. I think it's a grand thing to age. It just sucks to age without accomplishing everything you've wanted to. :beaten:

Wynter wrote:Isn't that weird? I have no worries about getting older. I think it's a grand thing to age. It just sucks to age without accomplishing everything you've wanted to. :beaten:

Everything??

That's unrealistic.

bmwracer wrote:
Everything??

That's unrealistic.

Sumimasen, bad wording on my part. I mean everything for certain ages. Like, I wanted to become a teacher by 24, I want to do my masters and have a baby by 30, I want to travel to Japan by 35, etc. etc.

Wynter wrote:Sumimasen, bad wording on my part. I mean everything for certain ages. Like, I wanted to become a teacher by 24, I want to do my masters and have a baby by 30, I want to travel to Japan by 35, etc. etc.

Yeah, but you apparently didn't account for bumps in the road... And they always exist.

bmwracer wrote:
Yeah, but you apparently didn't account for bumps in the road... And they always exist.

Yea, and I've learned that the hard way. And I do realize and I'm quite successful in other aspects of my life. And quite blessed. Like i said, I'll grow out of the funk I'm in. Time heals all.


Right? :beaten:

Wynter wrote:Yea, and I've learned that the hard way. And I do realize and I'm quite successful in other aspects of my life. And quite blessed. Like i said, I'll grow out of the funk I'm in. Time heals all.

Right? :beaten:

Yup.

Prototypical Christmas funk. :sweat: